darchChylde
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Joined: 9/28/2006 From: Warm Springs, GA but i live in San Francisco. Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Lorelei115 A bit off topic here, but a kind of question inspired by darch's post/physical things that turn you on/off. What is it with some men and glasses? What is it about a woman in glasses that turns men on? I've known a few in my life, and it's always made me wonder. Me personally, I love being able to look straight into a person's eyes with no metal or glass in the way. Just curious. well, i love glasses, it has to do with the librarian/authoritarian fantasy... but i can't stand dark shades, i won't wear them, and my eyes are highly sensitive to light (i'm nearly blind in full sunlight and i have to be able to see a person's eyes to be comfortable (so eye contact restrictions are a hard limit, unless it's in a scene and i'm physically incapable of seeing them) basically, i have always used my eyes to convey my feelings/needs/intentions/etc and am also very good at reading another person through their eyes, so much so, that i depend on it, exclusive of any other signals quote:
ORIGINAL: SweetAndYummy I love slaves with black hair, dark eyes, and fat squishy bodies. I always thought it was strange that I attract so many blonde male slaves, but after reading darchChylde's post about attracting submissives it makes more sense. I had assumed from the self confidence that comes through in his posts that he was dominant, I will have to reread & rewrite my profile again - this time I will think about how it comes across to others. yes, i am a very confidant person (outwardly at least) because i spent my life in fear of being eaten alive if i show any fear or weakness... also, i am by nature a protector/confidant/councilor so i do get alot of people in pain and need around me... so, i've been forced to be strong and in control in one way or another; and i like it but it is also in my nature to be submissive to women, if i don't call a woman by Ma'am i can still see my dad in the corner of my eye ready to backhand me across the room(so i'm trying to break myself of the habit of calling my little sisters Ma'am) my submission to someone is not a gift, or a right; it's closer to a prize, though that isn't exactly it either... Ma'am has earned my submission, not by dominating me or any type of sex or scene; but by simply being who She is and making me feel safe and secure and loved... She didn't take control or demand it, i freely offered it with a trust that She'll do what is best for me, to guide and train me to be better not as a submissive, but as a man i know that many of the things that She does or has me do will be unpleasant, but i love Her and trust Her that in the end it will make me stronger and make us work better as a family, will bring us closer
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I'm the man your mother warned you about... if only to keep me to herself. I'm a male dominant switch whose experienced as a poly sub to a dominant woman . Where the fuck do I post? Proud Owner and Protector of chyldeschylde.
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