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darksdesire -> RE: punishment (12/12/2006 9:08:30 PM)
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Goodness, those are a lot of questions!
It sounds as though you are still very much experimenting and trying to take it all in. The best thing you can do is give things time. It's a process, and most of the answers to your questions will be discovered on your own, over time. So much of it depends on what appeals to you. Are you drawn toward D/s or the activities of BDSM.
Even when exploring D/s there is simply no way to define how the Dom and sub "should" act, as that is something that will likely need to be an authentic expression of you in order to work well for you. For example, my relationship with my Master is primarily defined in the context of D/s. Even saying that, his style is an extension of who he is as a person. While he is the one in charge, the one who makes the decisions, he also tends to take a rather nurturing, gentle approach, and prefers to know what my feelings and thoughts are before he makes his decisions. Some Masters/Mistresses are stricter, more demanding, some have specific protocol they expect their submissive to follow. The variations are endless and are more an expression of who he or she is individually and in the context of their D/s relationship.
Enjoy the process, experiment, and read what others have to say. Good luck to you.
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