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MasterSundog -> female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 7:18:01 AM)
Hi there. I'm a very experienced Male Dom with a particular interest in objectification. I allways train my female slaves/subs this way as I find it a very important part of their servitude. I also enjoy using them (their mouths) as ashtrays on a regular basis, and I am lucky enough to have a part time slave that enjoys this immensely. I was wondering iff any other female slaves/subs on here have been used in this way?? as I find it a subject not often talked about. I have known male subs used like this but not many female objects/ashtrays??? regards MasterSundog

drawntothedark -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 7:24:40 AM)
I have not. I have never been with a Dom that wanted it. I suppose I would be open to it as ashes really won't hurt you they only taste bad. I would draw the line of having him put the cig out on me.

onestandingstill -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 7:39:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterSundog Hi there. I'm a very experienced Male Dom with a particular interest in objectification. I allways train my female slaves/subs this way as I find it a very important part of their servitude. I also enjoy using them (their mouths) as ashtrays on a regular basis, and I am lucky enough to have a part time slave that enjoys this immensely. I was wondering iff any other female slaves/subs on here have been used in this way?? as I find it a subject not often talked about. I have known male subs used like this but not many female objects/ashtrays??? regards MasterSundog No Sir, I've never seen or heard of it. suzanne

mistoferin -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 7:42:24 AM)
Funny....I don't think that any man has ever looked at me and thought I looked at all like an ashtray. At least if they did they didn't verbalize it to me.

DianeB269 -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 7:44:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterSundog Hi there. I'm a very experienced Male Dom with a particular interest in objectification. I allways train my female slaves/subs this way as I find it a very important part of their servitude. I also enjoy using them (their mouths) as ashtrays on a regular basis, and I am lucky enough to have a part time slave that enjoys this immensely. I was wondering iff any other female slaves/subs on here have been used in this way?? as I find it a subject not often talked about. I have known male subs used like this but not many female objects/ashtrays??? regards MasterSundog I've done a few scenes with male subs as my ashtrays. Diane

ownedgirlie -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 8:56:09 AM)
My Master does not smoke, nor does he like to be around cigarette smoke, so this particular service is likely not in my future. I don't see the harm in it, though...I've had worse things in my mouth lol.

daddysprop247 -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 9:18:27 AM)
i've seen slaves used in this way before (ashtrays), however like ownedgirlie, my Master does not smoke and doesn't even like to be around people who are smoking, so i doubt it's a service i'll have to perform. but as for objectification in general, i've been used in various ways...as a footstool, doormat, wash rag, toilet paper, etc.

akisha -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 9:22:25 AM)
Sir dropped ashes on my tummy once while i was tied down. the "cherry" coming close to my skin made me very nervous but I know he'd not burn me, so other then the mental aspect of fearing being burned the logical aspect knew i would not be. I can think of alot worse things on my body then a bit of cigarette ash. Pretty sure I'd have issues with ashes in my mouth tho. Yuck [:'(] But again, I can think of worse things lol

AquaticSub -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 10:06:00 AM)
I think I would try it in an effort to please him but there would not be a guarantee that I could continue with the activity later. He is very understanding of things that make me feel humiliated and degraded in a bad way. I have emotional issues that we don't like to mess with. That said, I just asked him if he would consider doing it to him. His response was, "No because then I'd have to smoke." Which is his way of saying he doesn't want to put ash in my mouth. [:)]

Devilslilsister -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 10:21:38 AM)
Erm.. My Master smokes and has every now and then ashed on me. Its more because he thinks its funny. It a punchline to one of his jokes. He'll randomly just ash on me as well. Hasnt ever in my mouth and i dont think its on his schedule.... When i smoked - i used to use myself for an ashtray when i couldnt find a real one. I'd ash in my hand. He always got after me telling me to find one. So i dont think its in his list of kinks.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 10:44:15 AM)
I've been used as an ashtray, but never orally. I remember one very kind female dom who was given my leash to hold actually asked if I smoked and allowed me to lay on the floor so I wouldn't be exposed to it as much. Since I very much dislike smoking and find it incredibly nasty, I wouldn't choose to become involved with someone who smoked on a regular basis anyway. But I'm fine with being used as an ashtray or being around smokers in an outdoor setting.

missturbation -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 11:11:35 AM)
I suppose I would be open to it as ashes really won't hurt you they only taste bad. I would draw the line of having him put the cig out on me. Ditto [:D]

littleone35 -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 1:50:00 PM)
My Master is a smoker but he woul never think of using me as an ash tray it just is not his kink. If he wanted to i would have to say no because as i stated in the other thread objectification is a hard limit for me and Master respects my hard limits. Matt's littleone

mnottertail -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 1:53:42 PM)
Smokies friends don't play with matches..... Who likes Smokie anyhow? Mr. Ranger

shadevarr -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 3:06:37 PM)
I have used my girls as ashtrays before. Having them on their knees, head back and mouth open so I could ash right down their throat. A bit of advice, have some room temp water handy and an ashtray to put out the cigarette...unless you have a major masochist who enjoys being scarred then put it out on her nipple. Never on the tongue since it will screw up the taste buds something harsh and she will be hard pressed for any oral service for a month.

damia -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 5:27:08 PM)
i have a bit of a fear of cigarette burns, and will freak out if someone even begins to reach toward me with a lit cigarette. Master has done it a few times as a joke, and every time, i have reminded Him how much it upsets me. i am thinking of including it as a hard limit for myself. And this includes ashes. i -know- they can't hurt me, but that doesn't stop me from being afraid of them, nor does it stop me from freaking out when someone attempts to drop ashes on me, even if it's just as a joke. Other objectification, i would not mind, i think. i have not had much chance to be such, but i don't think i would mind. i have been a foot stool, but that's the extent of my experience with objectification (being a foot stool is easy, really...). i wouldn't mind the opportunity to be presented as art, foot stool, coat rack, drink holder, etc. i don't think i'd ever like to be a toilet...not into water sports, and scat is a hard limit for me. But i have heard of it, definitely. Black Rose TNG had a private party, requested subs to volunteer to be various pieces of furniture and artwork...thought that was cool; didn't have a chance to go to that one, though.

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 5:33:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterSundog enjoy using them (their mouths) as ashtrays on a regular basis, If I wanted that I would make sure they were a smoker...not what I want on My submissive's mouth or breath ;) Ross Bon D' Age' : BDSM http://tinyurl.com/ygblqt Designermite : http://tinyurl.com/ueov5 Soul of Motorcycle Art http://tinyurl.com/ybg73a

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 5:36:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation having him put the cig out on me. There was a submissive years ago that got off on cigarette play. Ross Bon D' Age' : BDSM http://tinyurl.com/ygblqt Designermite : http://tinyurl.com/ueov5 Soul of Motorcycle Art http://tinyurl.com/ybg73a

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 5:37:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: damia i have a bit of a fear of cigarette burns, I believe cigars are far more harmful Ross Bon D' Age' : BDSM http://tinyurl.com/ygblqt Designermite : http://tinyurl.com/ueov5 Soul of Motorcycle Art http://tinyurl.com/ybg73a

SweetSarijane -> RE: female objectification/ashtrays? (12/14/2006 7:03:51 PM)
I've seen a slave used as an ashtray by her Master. I was at a party at their home and they, myself and a couple of others were in the room designated for smoking, sitting around talking and she was required to eat the ashes of her cigarette and put it out in her hand (using saliva to help prevent burns) as well as eat his and have it put out in her hand.

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