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Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 1:28:51 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Today Master and i were talking about diferent kinds of punishment.  I told him the worst punishment woul be for him to cut off all contact with me.  He said i would never do that but beside a hard spanking whch i know you hate i can think of another punishment that you would hate.  I would play with you get you all excited then leave with instruction for you not to climax until i see you again.  I know that would drive me crazy i think i would prefer the spanking.

So the questions is (for those who don't like a hard spanking) which punishment would you like better.  That is if your Dom/Master gave you a choice.

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 1:34:02 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		Im a little confused by your question.
Punishment is punishment therefore i wouldnt want to choose one because id probably hate them all.
If God gave me a choice of punishment id go for something i enjoy.

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 1:38:16 PM   
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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 1:40:23 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		i will be more clear if you were getting punished for something you did wrong and you Master gave you the not being able to climax after getting you all hot and bothered punishment or the hard spanking and that was the only 2 choices what would you choose?

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 1:42:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		ohhhhhh lol my apologies i read it wrong - i wud take the spanking every time.

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 1:55:12 PM   
Kalira


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ORIGINAL: littleone35

Today Master and i were talking about diferent kinds of punishment.  I told him the worst punishment woul be for him to cut off all contact with me.  He said i would never do that but beside a hard spanking whch i know you hate i can think of another punishment that you would hate.  I would play with you get you all excited then leave with instruction for you not to climax until i see you again.  I know that would drive me crazy i think i would prefer the spanking.

So the questions is (for those who don't like a hard spanking) which punishment would you like better.  That is if your Dom/Master gave you a choice.

Matt's littleone

Neither. Punishment, in our relationship, is given for blatant disobedience; it is severe and harsh. I would never willingly wish for such an action.

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 2:35:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kalira
Neither. Punishment, in our relationship, is given for blatant disobedience; it is severe and harsh. I would never willingly wish for such an action.


Well, for the sake of conversation, what if you were for some reason still given these two choices and would have to choose one of them? Let's say that if you don't choose, both will be picked. Even though none of the choices would be wished for, you can prefer one of them


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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 4:58:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

i will be more clear if you were getting punished for something you did wrong and you Master gave you the not being able to climax after getting you all hot and bothered punishment or the hard spanking and that was the only 2 choices what would you choose?


the hard spanking, only because the other is just not possible for me. i never get that "hot and bothered", and i don't care about orgasm.

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 5:11:58 PM   
MmakeMme


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Status: offline 		Ohhhhhhhhhhhh I am so ~not~ into pain. I would choose not being allowed to cum.

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 5:20:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Neither one of those punishments would work for me. I enjoy both. So for me just being banned from my Master's presence would be punishment for me. I enjoy pain so giving me pain as punishment wouldn'nt be good for me.

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 5:44:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Spankings, no matter how hard are NOT a punishment for me, denied orgasums would suck, but worst of all is being ignored, it would be the worst

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 5:47:09 PM   
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, denied orgasums would suck,

Actually an over abundance of orgasms til the sensitivty would be hightened might be worse than that. Ever cum too many times?

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 6:12:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		I hate not being able to cum.  I have had my ass rosied up a few times to the point of welts that stayed for days, I also hated that.  If I must choose, I choose to be spanked soundly.  The sensitive skin having clothes rub against it while it "heals" is a much bigger reminder of why I don't want to misbehave again.

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 7:05:11 PM   
Kalira


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Well, for the sake of conversation, what if you were for some reason still given these two choices and would have to choose one of them? Let's say that if you don't choose, both will be picked. Even though none of the choices would be wished for, you can prefer one of them

Actually, no, I can not perfer one of them, even for the sake of conversation. If you want the truth, and Master were to ask me which I perfered, I would be honest with him and say quite simply 'Master please do not punish me".

It matters not what kind he would pick; punishment is severe and harsh.


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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 7:06:18 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		LittleOne,

You started an almost identical thread back in September:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_597685/mpage_1/key_punishment/tm.htm#597685
Talking vs Corporal Punishment

in which I responded:
I think everyone wants C) None of the above :)

I think if a dom wants to actualize long term behavioral change, talking is a necessary component throughout that process.  Doms who rely solely on physical punishment often find themselves very frustrated, with a confused and unhappy sub as well.

However, whether any specific incident requires an immediate smack on the ass, or a serious discussion depends on the incident context itself. 

I'd think a slave would want to most efficiently understand and change their behavior accordingly, and understand that it might take a combination of methods to do so. 

But generally, I think most slaves prefer being talked to and discussed to come to an understanding rather than always being beaten- even if it means a little more pain in the beginning.

Is there something specific you want to discuss about punishment that isn't coming out?


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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 7:30:58 PM   
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i will be more clear if you were getting punished for something you did wrong and you Master gave you the not being able to climax after getting you all hot and bothered punishment or the hard spanking and that was the only 2 choices what would you choose?
Because either choice would be done as a result of the Owner not being happy with me I would choose the hard spanking. It is the only one that would allow for the desired effect of the punishment. My mind would absolutely not allow my body to react or perceive any excitement in order to get "hot and bothered" simply because of knowing why...therefore the owners desired outcome would not happen..or the act itself would not be punishment.

I have a real difficult time wrapping my mind around being able to put specific punishment acts on levels of lesser of evil scales because it really does just stop in its tracks with the knowing they are not pleased or happy with me.

Well Wishes
starshine
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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 8:02:27 PM   
BalletBob


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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 8:23:01 PM   
SubmissiveBBW4U


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Status: offline 		I agree that I would hate to have to choose.

However, as a mom I know that its very effective to make the person needing punishment pick their punishment LOL...so on that note...

I would pick the no orgasms.  I hate spankings.


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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 8:47:12 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		It doesnt matter what he would do.  I absolutely hate when he is upset with me. But if given a punishment choice, I would likely choose the harder of the two.  Since he regularly does both of your options to me simply for his amusement, I am aware of how both make me feel.  Prolonged denial is hardest on me, as it makes me ache for him terribly, and lasts a hell of a lot longer than a spanking.

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RE: Punishment Question - 12/14/2006 10:31:21 PM   
Siona


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ORIGINAL: angaothsi
, denied orgasums would suck,

Actually an over abundance of orgasms til the sensitivty would be hightened might be worse than that. Ever cum too many times?

Ross


No, can't say that I ever have.
That's an experience I'd like to have tho.

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