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Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/14/2006 8:09:24 PM

SubmissiveBBW4U

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Ok I have done a search on playing with urine and I have gained some awesome insight.

However, I didn't see anything that answers my question:

Is being made to swallow their Master/Mistress' urine something a slave ever gets used to, to the point that it's not a big deal and you are truly happy to do the act?

Regardless of whether I really want to do it or not I will because I want to please Him. That is my only purpose in life. It is something I have always wanted to try anyway.

I am just worried about the actual act and wondering if its something one ever gets used to and perhaps even looks forward to.

Thanks in advance!

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/14/2006 8:17:39 PM

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quote:

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Is being made to swallow their Master/Mistress' urine something a slave ever gets used to, to the point that it's not a big deal and you are truly happy to do the act?

Yup- but then it's always been like that to me. I can take or leave urine as a whole, but if my partner really digs it, I can feed off of that and enjoy it.

There's also a large difference between something "not being a big deal" and "truly happy." Eating Japanese isn't a big deal for me, but it really doesn't make me happy either.

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Regardless of whether I really want to do it or not I will because I want to please Him. That is my only purpose in life. It is something I have always wanted to try anyway.

I am just worried about the actual act and wondering if its something one ever gets used to and perhaps even looks forward to.

Thanks in advance!

If done over time and with proper training, if it's something you both sincerely want, I'm 98% sure you could come to love it and beg for it.

Whether you and your dom will give you the time and proper training is up to you both.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/14/2006 8:20:43 PM

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Thank you very much! To be honest your post was what I was hoping to read. He is a very patient loving man and I have no doubt that he will take all the time that we need to make sure its enjoyable for both of us.

I guess its just the 'can I really do this and do it well?' in me.

Again thank you very much!!!

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/14/2006 8:36:08 PM

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yes and in a very short time.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 6:42:45 AM

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What no one has mentioned is you can get very ill drinking urine.
If you educate yourself a bit on the process and when...etc you should
even try to drink it you will feel better overall about drinking it.

One huge point to make is if you drink it first thing in the morning that is when the the content of crap within it is so high. Also it is the most pungent of tastes.
Where, if you have the person drink a lot of water prior...it is new urine so to speak it will have a much more pleasant taste. Be better able to stomach for you.

I know there were numerous threads in the health section..although I have no idea if they still exist. It would definately be worth the search for you.

Because in the end it really doesn't matter what any of us thinks. It is what you think. Education will help you in your journey.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 7:47:43 AM

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My experience I would not go as far to say that it is something you get use to in yawn type fashion but certainly to the point where dread and fear become non factors though. I do not think I have ever craved or look forward to the act for the act itself but certainly have been very happy on many occasions when I had not done it in awhile or was needing something in that realm for my mindset. I have found it to be a consistently powerful feeling when it is done to me.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 8:01:47 AM

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Sir and I have a ritual whereby I go into the bathroom with him and serve as his "directional" when he is urinating and when he is done, I clean him of any "excesses" that may soil his underwear. We started this ritual not long after I submitted to him, and though we have a living situation that doesn't allow for it to happen all of the time (roommate, yuck) when we are able to do our ritual, it is sooooo incredibly special and erotic that we usually have a hard time controlling ourselves afterwards. There is something so special about kneeling next to him, with his hand on my head (or shoulder) and watching him urinate then alternately looking up at him to see him smiling down at me... when I clean him, he invariably gets an erection and usually pushes me away. LOL At first, this was strange to me, I will happily admit that, but after a time it became such a special moment whenever we would do it, that I actually miss it now that we are not able to do so regularly.

We do other things, urine-wise, as well. It's part of our "scening" and we use it with our play girls too (when they allow).

The point is that you can grow to love something, like urine play, all on your own because part of the reason you may not like it is because you haven't experienced it yet. Keep an open mind and try to see it for what it's intended. If you like it, then go with it... if you don't voice your dislike and see what comes of it.

On a health note: urine is sterile, and therefore mostly harmless. However, you do want to educate yourself on taste. Yes, water does help to dilute the fluid which changes the taste, but also makes it more abundant. Fruits and sugar add a sweet taste to it, alcohol can sometimes make it bitter, and high protein (meats, etc) make it strong. Just some food for thought. (doh!)

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 9:01:49 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire

What no one has mentioned is you can get very ill drinking urine.
If you educate yourself a bit on the process and when...etc you should
even try to drink it you will feel better overall about drinking it.

One huge point to make is if you drink it first thing in the morning that is when the the content of crap within it is so high. Also it is the most pungent of tastes.
Where, if you have the person drink a lot of water prior...it is new urine so to speak it will have a much more pleasant taste. Be better able to stomach for you.

I know there were numerous threads in the health section..although I have no idea if they still exist. It would definately be worth the search for you.

Because in the end it really doesn't matter what any of us thinks. It is what you think. Education will help you in your journey.

Thank you for the information, i will make sure Master drinks lots of water

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 9:28:50 AM

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This was something i really didnt want to do with my ex dom and didnt. Now however i cant wait to try it with my God. Im still not sure ill like it or even get used to it but if it pleases him then thats more than enough for me.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 9:56:25 AM

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I haven't gotten to do this yet, but I really, really want to. Before my Master though, I never would have thought about it. This is the first person I have given up all limits to be with, so things like that are more likely to happen for me now.

I do look forward to it and talked to others who have tried it and enjoy it a lot.

I hope you enjoy it also.. just loosen up, think of his pleasure, and that will do the trick.

Kasha

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 10:17:45 AM

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I still have a small ick factor when i comes to urine play. I don't find it completely disgusting but i don't get anything out of it either. Who knows maybe that will change with time. The issue has not been overly pushed but I know it will be.

Going to semi hijack here and ask, for those of you that do enjoy it, how did you get to that point? The whole reason i'm even particpating is solely because it's what Sir wants and it's not a hard limit of mine, but i really don't get any pleasure from the activity. It just feels, well to be honest, it feels wierd. Any ideas on how to get my mind around enjoying watersports?

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 10:29:56 AM

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human beings can become conditioned to anything, so swallowing urine imo would be among the milder things. as for growing to "love" it tho, i guess that would depend on the person and also on the Master's training. some only want a useful toilet slut, not a toilet slut who just looooves to drink pee. but if the Master wants a "horny for pee" type slave, he can train her in that way.

i am used to drinking my Master's piss, to the point where it's no longer a "big deal" to me, but i wouldn't say i "love" it either. i see it as a service like any other. it does make me happy however to know that i have done it well and can be useful to him in that way.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 10:54:53 AM

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I admit it, I had this done to me as well. I wouldn't say that I enjoy it, per se, since I did it more for his pleasure then for my own.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 11:19:42 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SubmissiveBBW4U

Ok I have done a search on playing with urine and I have gained some awesome insight.

However, I didn't see anything that answers my question:

Is being made to swallow their Master/Mistress' urine something a slave ever gets used to, to the point that it's not a big deal and you are truly happy to do the act?

Regardless of whether I really want to do it or not I will because I want to please Him. That is my only purpose in life. It is something I have always wanted to try anyway.

I am just worried about the actual act and wondering if its something one ever gets used to and perhaps even looks forward to.

Thanks in advance!

I wouldn't say that I look forward to the actual taste of my owners urine, but I'd say that the act of doing something he enjoys and getting the privilege of taking in him (for us those sorts of things are privileges) are something I greatly look forward to. I think like anything else (like semen for instance) you can get used to the taste and such.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 12:22:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: akisha

Going to semi hijack here and ask, for those of you that do enjoy it, how did you get to that point? The whole reason i'm even particpating is solely because it's what Sir wants and it's not a hard limit of mine, but i really don't get any pleasure from the activity. It just feels, well to be honest, it feels wierd. Any ideas on how to get my mind around enjoying watersports?

I enjoy for two big reasons. One I am very much into objectification, humiliation and degradation and have found watersports to be very powerful and with very little diminishing returns. I have never thought to myself I am in the mood to drink urine but I am often in the mood of wanting my Master to treat me in that way.

The other reason, and it is quite hubris, is that I take great pride and enjoyment in being able to this for my Master knowing it is not something that a lot do. I very much take enjoyment of showing my devotion to him in doing this for his pleasure.

If this type of play does not give you pleasure then maybe focusing on his pleasure would be the best way for you to enjoy it.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 1:11:40 PM

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The other reason, and it is quite hubris, is that I take great pride and enjoyment in being able to this for my Master knowing it is not something that a lot do. I very much take enjoyment of showing my devotion to him in doing this for his pleasure.

If this type of play does not give you pleasure then maybe focusing on his pleasure would be the best way for you to enjoy it.

I think I'm probably going to have to go with the pride of doing something he truly desires of me, just for the fact that he wants me to.

I have no inclination towards desiring or enjoying objectification or humiliation. Objectification to a point, I really have no real problem with. The biggest is the fear of loss of self identity. Something I worked very hard to gain at one point so resist losing it again. i can even handle some forms of humiliation. But heavy or public humilation is a hard limit for me. I just shut down and mentally, retreat completely. To a degree where i either get violently angry or I completely and totally block out the person doing it and walk away. I'd say to a point ( at this time in my life anyway) that it would be a relationship ender.

I think I will work on taking pride in serving Him in a way that He wants. I may never enjoy it but as long as I can accept it that should work.

Ahh the joys of trying to convince your brain of accepting something it screams at you is wierd *grins*

< Message edited by akisha -- 12/15/2006 1:13:52 PM >

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/15/2006 1:22:11 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: afeathr

On a health note: urine is sterile, and therefore mostly harmless. However, you do want to educate yourself on taste. Yes, water does help to dilute the fluid which changes the taste, but also makes it more abundant. Fruits and sugar add a sweet taste to it, alcohol can sometimes make it bitter, and high protein (meats, etc) make it strong. Just some food for thought. (doh!)

That sentiment is half true. Urine is sterile to ourselves. In other words my urine is sterile to me. By the way, if you have althletes foot and pee on your own feet it will cure it.
However, urine is not sterile to any one other than yourself.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/16/2006 4:08:51 PM

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my Mistress has talked of starting some water games as part of my evolotion into subdom. But for me, i see true submission as doing something that i would not normally enjoy, or sometimes something that i really dislike, just becasue it entertains or is otherwise of value to Her. If She started me on cocktail regime, and i got used to it to the point that i did not mind it, then it would no longer really be a submissive activity.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/16/2006 5:45:17 PM

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Frankly as far as taste goes i would prefer a nice single malt scotch

but the taste of even a concentrated urine is not so revolting as all that and you can get used to anything. As far as enjoying the taste, i doubt i ever will but i love the feeling of humiliation and submission that comes over me when my Mistress orders me on my back and squats over my mouth to pee. i also enjoy the pleasure that it gives her to demand such obedience from me. As far as health concernes go urine is sterile until it leaves the badder unless you have an infection and even then the bacteria cannot survive your stomach. It may be theoretically possible to acquire viruses such as HIV, Hep B or C if you have sores or cuts or scrapes in your mouth (and most do) and any medications and drugs will probably be in the urine as well but in a very dilute form. Over all drinking urine is safe and frankly not that unpleasant.

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RE: Can you ever look forward to this.... - 12/16/2006 6:39:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SubmissiveBBW4U
Is being made to swallow their Master/Mistress' urine something a slave ever gets used to, to the point that it's not a big deal and you are truly happy to do the act?

Regardless of whether I really want to do it or not I will because I want to please Him. That is my only purpose in life. It is something I have always wanted to try anyway.

I am just worried about the actual act and wondering if its something one ever gets used to and perhaps even looks forward to.

Thanks in advance!

Like every other catagory of WIITWD, I'd say that this is a very individual thing. Some people, such as yours truly, truly relish drinking urine. Some will always find it repulsive. Some will learn to like it. And some will adjust to it, not really liking it, but learning to take pleasure not from the act itself, but from the pleasure their Doms get out of it.

Which of these, or other possibilities will apply to you, nobody can predict.

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