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LadyHugs -> RE: Dressing "Domly" (12/16/2006 9:10:35 AM)
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Dear SlaveAkasha, Ladies and Gentlemen;
In my mind's eyes I see, being 'Leather' does not necessarily require wearing leather and or any assortment of gear. It is more of an self definition rather than the clothing one wears. Although, in the early days of Gay Leather, the groups formed mostly wore the attire they did due to the riding of motorcycles, so it was more functional.
That said, the individuals in the lifestyle need to understand that what is worn, what is said, what is done is a statement of themselves; no different than in the work place, in sport and or any daily activity.
What costume one chooses to place on, is merely the wrapper and not always the true manifestation of the person within.
However, in wearing the Dominant's uniform of choice; it is hoped that they do so in consideration of others as well.
In my mind's eyes I see; with the current selections of clothing and footwear offered; if a chap wished to wear tennis shoes why cannot that chap swap white for a black pair of tennis shoes. Little changes.
Instead of moth eatten blue jeans or cut offs, why can't the chap purchase a black pair of jeans and or a black pair of shorts. The T-shirts offered these days, the white can be swapped for a black one.
Furthermore, this lifestyle understands the cost involved to be fitted out with leather and such however black has been traditionally the color for a long while. In addition, I would say with confidence, that those in the lifestyle most likely, do not wish to see people spend money they cannot afford on clothing but, rather the priorities be on maintaining their lives. So, even though black would be appreciated it isn't mandatory but, hopefully it is clean.
At some venues, there is a "Leather swap." Those who have out grown their leathers put it on a table, as to be swapped for someone who has leathers that fit better. Leather goods from clothing, gear and whips and the like. It is where the community can clean out their closets and gain something if they wish. This is how, in my early days, people got into their leather clothing in a inexpensive manner.
I can only speak for my own experiences in dungeon spaces; that wearing black isn't distracting when in motion. When wearing white, it attracts light, so when there is something passing that is light and moving, I am distracted. It is no different than the reflection of diamonds capturing shards of light and bouncing out. Mimes come to mind, where they wear black but white gloves as to focus on the hands and not the body.
Outside the dungeon though, slaves and Dominants a like may be seen in a variety of attire and it isn't always black and or leather. However, personal hygiene and attention to their appearance is extremely appreciated.
Just some thoughts.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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