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SusanofO -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 12:44:38 PM)

I don't know much about this kink (have never done it), and I admit it scares the hell out of me. It seems really dangerous. I might try it someday, but would have to be convinced beyond a shadow of a doubt the other person really, really knew what they were doing. And trust them with my life (literally).  

- Susan




justheather -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 12:49:22 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

I don't know much about this kink (have never done it), and I admit it scares the hell out of me. It seems really dangerous. I might try it someday, but would have to be convinced beyond a shadow of a dount the other person really, really knew what they were doing. And trust them with my life (literally).  

- Susan


Ive said it before, but heck I'll say it again...
Unless he or she knows how to intubate you when you stop breathing, they don't really really know what they are doing.




SusanofO -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 12:53:57 PM)

Thank you, justheather. I needed to hear that. I am uneducated when it comes to this kink. I know there are a lot of Doms that simply refuse to do it. For those people that do, it's their choice,  but this really does scare me (not in a good way, either). There are so many other things I want to try - this is certainly not a "must do" for me.

- Susan  




justheather -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 12:58:46 PM)

Susan,
Im not saying that because I think this is something too dangerous to mess with that nobody should do it.
But, like most of the people who have posted on the subject I think people ought to know exactly what they're playing with up front.




SusanofO -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 1:01:27 PM)

Yes, I think there are probably many who think they know what they are doing,  but well might not. I appreciated the comment (truly). Because I didn't know what you said was true. I had no idea. And in this situation, knowing it really could turn out to be a "matter of life and death." Thank you.

- Susan




justheather -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 1:04:13 PM)

Well, I should probably add that if some guy shows up with a # 7 Endotracheal Tube and a vial of Etomidate in his back pocket, it might not necessarily be a good sign either.
[;)]




SusanofO -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 1:05:07 PM)

No....ha!
- Susan




DOM68005 -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 1:09:18 PM)

 
Besides the movie that gave it renewed awareness a few years ago,  I've seen it done at a play party here in Omaha.
Speaking for myself.  It is a HARD LIMIT.  I will NOT do it.




somethndif -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 1:11:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: onestandingstill

Yes, but not full asphyxiation or with ropes or gadgets.
I really like having my throat grabbed and lightly squeezed during sexual contact or in scenes.


I'll have to remember that.  *grin*

Dan




SusanofO -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 1:14:19 PM)

Well, I am not judging anyone who does it. But - I do think, there are a lot of other things one can do instead. I mean, it's not like there's no "variety" as far as potential activities to try in the bdsm world. I know it seems like a big thrill to many, and I have to be careful myself, because I know I can become almost addicted to things that make me feel really, really good. If this turned out to be one of them, and then  there was that one time it didn't work the way it was supposed to...well, I guess I'd just be dead then, wouldn't I?

- Susan




somethndif -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 1:15:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AGORANTE

I once had a subbie over to my house for a first date. I made a fire and we sat down on the sofa before it. Then I got up to put some more wood on the blaze. When I picked up the hatchet, she had a little bit of a panic attack.

I suppose I should have made it clear to her that I draw the line at ax murder. I also draw the line at "breath play".

When I was a Boy Scout at summer camp I used to practice knife throwing. So should I enjoy myself with a scene like in the movie The Gangs of New York? I probably could do as well as Daniel Day Lewis did. But I draw the line.

Apparently amputations are so appealing to some that there was a main stream movie called Boxing Helena. Maybe it wasn't ax murder that subbie was afraid of? Maybe she had seen that movie? In any case I draw the line.

Recently there was a British guy who advertised for someone to eat. He did in fact kill and eat an applicant. He got a lot of responses to his ad. This seems to prove that there is someone who will let you do anything to them. There are no limits if you look hard enough. But for me - I draw the line at canibalism.

I don't care what the subbie says. I won't choke her. Risking her life is just stupid. I draw the line.


I agree.  I won't do breath play either.  Btw, the cannibalism case arose in Germany, I believe, not England, and it was two men.  The Dom/cannibal was convicted and sentenced to serious time in jail, as I recall.

Dan




Rover -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 1:23:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: onestandingstill

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ORIGINAL: Rover


I believe the safety issue is in regards to compression of the carotid arteries (to induce oxygen deprivation of the brain and/or unconsciousness) moreso than "breath play".  Specifically, the issue surrounds the accumulation of plaques on the interior walls of the arteries, which under compression, may stick to one another leaving the arteries closed shut even when the compression is removed (ie: CPR ain't gonna save you).
 

John

I read the article I've pasted below on the subject. From what I gather it's not the thought the artery wil stick together.
suzanne

The primary danger of suffocation play is that it is not a condition that gets worse over time (regarding the heart, anyway, it does get worse over time regarding the brain). Rather, what happens is that the more the play is prolonged, the greater the odds that a cardiac arrest will occur. Sometimes even one minute of suffocation can cause this; sometimes even less.

Quick pathophysiology lesson # 1: When the heart gets low on oxygen, it starts to fire off "extra" pacemaker sites. These usually appear in the ventricles and are thus called premature ventricular contractions -- PVC's for short. If a PVC happens to fire off during the electrical repolarization phase of cardiac contraction (the dreaded "PVC on T" phenomenon, also sometimes called "R on T") it can kick the heart over into ventricular fibrillation -- a form of cardiac arrest. The lower the heart gets on oxygen, the more PVC's it generates, and the more vulnerable to their effect it becomes, thus hypoxia increases both the probability of a PVC-on-T occurring and of its causing a cardiac arrest.

When this will happen to a particular person in a particular session is simply not predictable. This is exactly where most of the medical people I have discussed this topic with "hit the wall." Virtually all medical folks know that PVC's are both life-threating and hard to detect unless the patient is hooked to a cardiac monitor. When medical folks discuss breath control play, the question quickly becomes: How can you tell when they start throwing PVC's? The answer is: You basically can't.

Quick pathophysiology lesson # 2: When breathing is restricted, the body cannot eliminate carbon dioxide as it should, and the amount of carbon dioxide in the blood increases. Carbon dioxide (CO2) and water (H2O) exist in equilibrium with what's called carbonic acid (H2CO3) in a reaction catalyzed by an enzyme called carbonic anhydrase. (Sorry, but I can't do subscripts in this program.)

Thus: CO2 + H2O H2CO3

A molecule of carbonic acid dissociates on its own into a molecule of what's called bicarbonate (HCO3-) and an (acidic) hydrogen ion. (H+)

Thus: H2CO3 <> HCO3- and H+

Thus the overall pattern is:

H2O + CO2 <> H2CO3 <> HCO3- + H+

Therefore, if breathing is restricted, CO2 builds up and the reaction shifts to the right in an attempt to balance things out, ultimately making the blood more acidic and thus decreasing its pH. This is called respiratory acidosis. (If the patient hyperventilates, they "blow off CO2" and the reaction shifts to the left, thus increasing the pH. This is called respiratory alkalosis, and has its own dangers.)

Quick pathophysiology lesson # 3:

Again, if breathing is restricted, not only does carbon dioxide have a hard time getting out, but oxygen also has a hard time getting in. A molecule of glucose (C6H12O6) breaks down within the cell by a process called glycolysis into two molecules of pyruvate, thus creating a small amount of ATP for the body to use as energy. Under normal circumstances, pyruvate quickly combines with oxygen to produce a much larger amount of ATP. However, if there's not enough oxygen to properly metabolize the pyruvate, it is converted into lactic acid and produces one form of what's called a metabolic acidosis.

As you can see, either a build-up in the blood of carbon dioxide or a decrease in the blood of oxygen will cause the pH of the blood to fall. If both occur at the same time, as they do in cases of suffocation, the pH of the blood will plummet to life-threatening levels within a very few minutes. The pH of normal human blood is in the 7.35 to 7.45 range (slightly alkaline). A pH falling to 6.9 (or raising to 7.8) is "incompatible with life."



Suzanne, that is a separate and completely unrelated issue, though no less a consideration. 
 
John




SusanofO -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 1:25:17 PM)

Thanks for the information in this thread, everyone. Personally, I am by no means "sold" on breathplay. 

- Susan




Rover -> RE: Breathplay (12/19/2006 1:26:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AGORANTE

I don't care what the subbie says. I won't choke her. Risking her life is just stupid. I draw the line.



Just goes to show that we Dominants have limits as well.  We're under no obligation to engage in those activities that exceed our own limits and/or tolerance for risk.
 
John




PossiblyMaybe -> RE: Breathplay (12/20/2006 5:40:21 AM)

In wrestling there are submission moves with choking someone out etcetera... there must be some way to do it safely or it wouldn't be part of such a publicized sport... right? Though maybe people are talking about something more then that. When I first read this post I was thinking getting choked and a little light headed... Though I've never been COMPLETELY deprived of oxygen, being constricted is a bit different... just a though.




Kalira -> RE: Breathplay (12/20/2006 6:40:55 AM)

~~ FR ~~

Master and I do not engage in breath play per se; cutting off the air flow. However, Master has commented that I do have a liking for being choked ( I am still trying to figure out the difference [8D] ).




catfood -> RE: Breathplay (12/20/2006 6:45:01 AM)

sure, and it's all real, 'cause it wouldn't be on TV if it wasn't, right?

i wrestled in hs.  in competitive wrestling (greco-roman, as in the real sport, not steriod monsters in costumes) getting anywhere near a choke hold will immediately get you disqualified,  and if you do choke someone, possibly banned from competition. 


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ORIGINAL: PossiblyMaybe

In wrestling there are submission moves with choking someone out etcetera... there must be some way to do it safely or it wouldn't be part of such a publicized sport... right? Though maybe people are talking about something more then that. When I first read this post I was thinking getting choked and a little light headed... Though I've never been COMPLETELY deprived of oxygen, being constricted is a bit different... just a though.




onestandingstill -> RE: Breathplay (12/21/2006 7:48:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: somethndif

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ORIGINAL: onestandingstill

Yes, but not full asphyxiation or with ropes or gadgets.
I really like having my throat grabbed and lightly squeezed during sexual contact or in scenes.


I'll have to remember that.  *grin*

Dan

Why Sir Dan,
I'd let you put your hands around my throat any time.
LOL, actually you've already did this at the Halloween Party we attended. I remember as it really got to me.
suzanne




Wyrd -> RE: Breathplay (12/21/2006 10:48:53 AM)

Breathplay definatly falls under RACK, not SSC.  I have done it with some, refused to do it with others.  I do know CPR and know how to intubate someone, but that still does nto eliminate the risk, it only reduces it slightly.





gemy -> RE: Breathplay (12/21/2006 12:18:13 PM)

hi Agorante :)

just wanted to say OMG i saw the movie "Boxing Helena"  had no clue what it was going to be about, just saw it at the video store and rented it  HOLY CRAP!!!  lol

gem




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