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Need advice - 12/19/2006 2:00:33 PM

subToServeYou76

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I want to make my Mistress's birthday night special. She has requested that I give her a bubble bath, foot massage and dessert. Does anyone have any other suggestions?

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RE: Need advice - 12/19/2006 2:21:56 PM

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yeah...talk to her and ask what it is she hopes for...

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RE: Need advice - 12/19/2006 2:23:56 PM

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I want to make my Mistress's birthday night special. She has requested that I give her a bubble bath, foot massage and dessert. Does anyone have any other suggestions?

You could arrange for her favorit food and make sure it is bite size (if possible, with soup that wouldn't work now would it?). Then feed it to her while she relaxes. The point is to focus on her and not to overwhelm her.

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RE: Need advice - 12/19/2006 3:35:45 PM

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Oh...and personally, I always love a peticure; whether or not my boy has a thing for feet.

Do you have a space heater? Of course, since I'm remodeling my home...I especially love HEAT; but during a bath, who doesn't like it extra warm?
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RE: Need advice - 12/19/2006 5:03:10 PM

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If she drinks, chilled champagne or wine. Really, really good chocolate...or specialty chocolates like from Godiva. If you live in a semi-warm climate at this time of year, a picnic. If not, picnic in front of the fire or clear a place in the living room.

Happy Birthday to her from another December baby.

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RE: Need advice - 12/19/2006 5:25:04 PM

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Another nice touch would be Her favorite music is playing in the background. Make sure you use Her favorite scents from beginning to end. Oh and don't forget the candles.

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RE: Need advice - 12/19/2006 9:19:20 PM

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Have lots of candles lit up throughout the bathroom to make it romantic and relaxing for her. I strongly suggest you also have her favorite relaxing music playing in the background. I'd recommend you dress for the occasion, a black thong and a bow tie would likely be appropriate wear to make an impression that shows you care (remember you'll probably get wet - both between your legs and from the water splashing from within the tub. Washing her back with a loufa sponge to remove dead skin cells might be something she'd appreciate as well. They're inexpensive and can be found at nearly any drugstore with or without a handle in them. Ask her what her favorite bath oil is and make a point of going and buying it. Don't forget to ask her if she wants you to shave her legs (and anyplace else that might apply) while she's still calm and relaxed in the tub! Warm the towels in the dryer first, so she won't get chilled and be sure to have plenty of them handy to dry her off as soon as she exits the tub. Have her clothes prepared and be ready to dress her with them so she won't have to lift a finger at all. Ditto for any powders and perfumes she normally wears. Save the footrub for after the bath; don't at all try combining the the two! A drink while bathing is a good idea, but save the desert for when you're giving her the foot rub. Some finger foods while in the tub with her drink might be nice - something simple is what I'd recommend so she won't have to juggle a plate and silverware. Those are just a few things that come to mind which I'd recommend. Good luck and I hope you both have a marvelous time!

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