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ancon122 -> How often should you write? (12/19/2006 2:44:13 PM)
When you write a mistress and she does not reply should you keep on writing to show are interested.I am never sure if they want me to show I really want to meet them or they are just not interested in me.

DominaSmartass -> RE: How often should you write? (12/19/2006 3:26:28 PM)
No, if she is interested she will write back. There are many reasons why someone might not reply, not all of them disinterest. One letter to just follow up and make sure she received it might be acceptable but otherwise don't keep writing.

FourInchHeels -> RE: How often should you write? (12/19/2006 4:26:44 PM)
Ohhh, please don't keep writing! I don't think any serious Dommes play games like "let's see if he's really real" when first being contacted by someone. My profile clearly states I'm only looking for friends, but I've still been deluged by boys offering to serve Me r/l. Honestly, I don't have time to reply to them all, especially when they've already disregarded what I've stated I'm interested in finding. If I were looking for a r/l sub, I would NOT smile and pat his head because he'd bugged Me over and over to show his tenacity.

submarriner -> RE: How often should you write? (12/19/2006 4:28:20 PM)
If she doesn't respond, move on to another Mistress. Non replies usually means not interested, or I have my schedule filled at the present time. Continuing to harass the Mistress will only anger her, not endure you to a place of deep devotion. As suggest above a second note requesting awknowlegment of your request is ok, but if no reply after a second request, it is not to be.

MsCece2u -> RE: How often should you write? (12/19/2006 5:28:49 PM)
As A/all else has said please don't continue writing. Most Dommes, will reply if Their schedule permits. With CM having added the quick reply it makes it a lot easier. Furthermore if you want to see if She has received your initial email, just look in sent mail and it will tell you that it has been read or not.

MstrssPassion -> RE: How often should you write? (12/20/2006 5:08:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ancon122 When you write a mistress and she does not reply should you keep on writing to show are interested.I am never sure if they want me to show I really want to meet them or they are just not interested in me. If you are using the email on the other side of collar me you can check to see if the email you sent was opened. If so I don't see a problem with sending one more within 2 to 3 weeks in order to confirm that she received your first email. Don't write a message that is all about "did you get my first email?" Just re-read her profile, see if you missed anything the first time & write a new reply. I suggest waiting for about 2 weeks because she may be busy with things... especially this time of year, It's Christmas time for goodness sake. I would also suggest you look to see how new her profile is. New accounts are slammed with emails from all of the site sharks that are in a constant feeding frenzy. Any new female account is flooded with massive amounts of unwanted emails from the lowest lifeforms of the collarme site. Give the girls a chance to settle in & weed out the BS. When you do write a woman with a new account here is a big tip... write something very polite & intellegent... after all the crap she received in her first few weeks of joining & pleasant letter will be like manna from heaven. Oh yeah... one more tip Write a profile already! I know that if I received a bland email from you with a profile like that I wouldn't bother with a reply.

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