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Mentor - 12/20/2006 3:53:34 PM

goddessblaze

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Is there anyway to find a domina that would train a newbie?

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RE: Mentor - 12/20/2006 3:56:26 PM

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first i should spell it right..... Domina...

I am new at this and have a deep love for the lifestyle. I would like to someday become a Pro Dom. How can I fine tune and learn more?

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RE: Mentor - 12/20/2006 4:00:31 PM

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A lot of that would depend on what it is you want to learn. When I was starting out I had a mentor myself. She and I didnt see eye to eye on much, and I dont feel that I learned from her as much as with her. I have known others who were or became carbon copies of those mentoring them. Do you want online advice? Face to face talks? Someone to domme along side of you?
Theres a lot to figure out when thinking about mentoring, almost as much as finding yourself a sub.

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RE: Mentor - 12/20/2006 4:02:40 PM

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not sure what you wish to be trained in; whips? canes? administering cbt or what? the best place to start though, might be in a public dungeon by asking people whose work you admire.

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RE: Mentor - 12/20/2006 4:06:35 PM

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I would like to be face to face with the person. i have bottom to a wonderful women and have learned alot from her but I would like to learn more about CBT, CP, Humiliation,. I would like to find a service sub and a masochist. I guess I want a house husband, lol.. I wan t a man to clean my house naked and worship me and my feet. Id like a pony too...

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RE: Mentor - 12/20/2006 4:08:20 PM

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got the caning down, flogging, ropes, spanking, I belong to Apex and play there 1 or 2 times a week.

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RE: Mentor - 12/20/2006 4:10:56 PM

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You dont need to necessarily bottom to learn. I was never a sub to my Mentor. A local munch or something might be a good place to meet otehrs and see what you can learn. Or, you might meet an experienced sub, if you dont mind a little topping from the bottom while you learn. Sometimes, the best way to learn something is to learn if from the one on the reieving end, not just the giving end. I have learned quite a bit from some of my experienced boys and girls over the years.

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RE: Mentor - 12/20/2006 4:26:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

You dont need to necessarily bottom to learn. I was never a sub to my Mentor. A local munch or something might be a good place to meet otehrs and see what you can learn. Or, you might meet an experienced sub, if you dont mind a little topping from the bottom while you learn. Sometimes, the best way to learn something is to learn if from the one on the reieving end, not just the giving end. I have learned quite a bit from some of my experienced boys and girls over the years.

This is a great way to find mentors -- note I did use a plural because when I've been a mentor I never expected to be the only source of information and I had no problem suggestion another person if they knew more about something than I did.

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RE: Mentor - 12/21/2006 4:02:31 PM

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I guess you live to far away... I'm from Belgium, Europe. Otherways I might just lent my slave/husband out for a few hours, just to give you some training material.

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RE: Mentor - 12/21/2006 4:23:50 PM

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Thank you... Its the thought that counts....

I have had subs to try things on, I guess maybe my answer is... I haven't found the right fit for me yet.... or should I say sub..

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