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DevilsVendetta -> Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 12:18:18 AM)
I was just wondering what you all thought of this as submissives, because often (not always) when I read some of these young online year Dommes pages it is along the lines of "I want a bitch to own, he will bow down at my every will, a toy to play with, eager to please, I am his Godess" etc etc. Honestly, this just makes me laugh. Knowing that these Dommes are just here to fulfill their fantasy of controlling some young and stupid boy or girl who doesn't really have anything to submit, nothing but a hollow shell of a body with no mind to back it up. Not that the Domme is much better anyway. But what do you all think of this?

crouchingtigress -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 3:29:06 AM)
there is a part of me that sees it as silly for sure....but then there is a part of me that reminds me that by judging their level of D/s as better or worse then my D/s all i am doing is creating an us and them senario...how is that going to effect their life? its not. but it has the potential to effect my life because when i am standing in judgment of another that takes energy, energy i could spend focusing on things that i do like and want spend energy on. see i am of the mind that what ever you focus on you create more of in your lie....by focusing on being judgmental i am going to create the people i attract in my life to be be judgemental and i will also attract lots of folks that will judge me, i have found i dont like hanging out with judgemntal people, they are energy drains and boring and i have found that i hate being judged... like attracts like, what comes around goes around, this is not just a cute saying it is the law,......... the law of the universe that is.[;)] and the other thing to keep in mind is that so much of what goes on here is fantasy, most people have profiles here are not as deeply invested in the lifestyle, as a way of life but more as a way of getting laid....most people use collar me as a big freaky free dating site, nothing wrong with that, but the investment in bdsm as something they can see as a lifestyle has not occurred to them...and may never. and then there are the professional dominas out there that are trying to make a living, so they create profiles designed to play up the fantasy aspect, because really in essence that is what is for sale...nothing wrong with that either. collar me is an amazing free place, the forums are awesome, friendly for the most part, always interesting, always informative, like i was saying the other day to a friend, some bdsm sites are like keg parties, massive amount of people chattering on in a drunken horney shallow banter....some bdsm sites forums are like exclusive snobby clubs where certain people run the show and like to look down at every one that is not them...then there is the forum at collar me, which feels more like dinner at a friends house good friends, good food, good wine and lively conversation....

Jasmyn -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 5:16:17 AM)
A boy with no clue. quote: nothing but a hollow shell of a body with no mind to back it up. Not that the Domme is much better anyway Who knows nothing about female domination. Come back and ask these questions when you are not peeing like a puppy. Yours Jasmyn

Celeste43 -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 5:39:40 AM)
Everybody has to start somewhere and most people start with no knowledge except from porn which is by definition bad in terms of relationships. They'll grow at their own rate, which is not yours. Or can you really say you were the ultimate most well trained slave the first time you met someone after doing nothing but fantasizing about it?

MrrPete -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 8:30:33 AM)
And you were never a newbie? You knew the "right way" in everything? You knew what a true Dominant was and how to truely submit to one? We do well to remember where we were when we found this lifestyle. I get a kick out of "Extremely COCKY young online DOMMES" Sounds like an oxymoron to me :)

LaTigresse -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 8:52:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrrPete And you were never a newbie? You knew the "right way" in everything? You knew what a true Dominant was and how to truely submit to one? We do well to remember where we were when we found this lifestyle. I get a kick out of "Extremely COCKY young online DOMMES" Sounds like an oxymoron to me :) He is a nineteen year old boy with ideas of grandeur. Let's not pop his bubble just yet. I wanna save it for the first "real, true" slave he tries to send to her knees. I even know one I will volunteer for the experiment.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 9:28:09 AM)
It happens here as it happens in life. A lot of people online enjoy taking on a role in a role-playing game, or they come to this with a preconceived notion about how they are supposed to be based on fiction. It works for them. Simply move on if it doesn't work for you. Master Fire

missturbation -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 9:34:23 AM)
Theres a hell of a lot of just plain cocky doms/dommes out there - young and old.

DevilsVendetta -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 11:35:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jasmyn A boy with no clue. quote: nothing but a hollow shell of a body with no mind to back it up. Not that the Domme is much better anyway Who knows nothing about female domination. Come back and ask these questions when you are not peeing like a puppy. Yours Jasmyn Female Domination and Female Supremacy are not one and the same my dear. So before you start bashing me, why not take a look at yourself? I know my limits and I know there is much for me to learn. But to be honest, I don't care to know of female supremacy, it is inherantly contradictory to D/s and the belief that a Dom and sub are giving equally in the relationship. If you believe yourself a superior human being to those who submit to you, they should not be worthy to submit. I would never put myself in a relationship with someone I believed to be nothing but dirt on my shoes. So follow your ideas of female supremacy, and I'll continue laughing at you. Oh and next time? Get your terms straight.

DevilsVendetta -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 11:38:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrrPete And you were never a newbie? You knew the "right way" in everything? You knew what a true Dominant was and how to truely submit to one? We do well to remember where we were when we found this lifestyle. I get a kick out of "Extremely COCKY young online DOMMES" Sounds like an oxymoron to me :) Yes I was, and still am to a large extent a newbie. But I approached this lifestyle trying to be humble and trying to learn. Not with the attitude that I was God among insects and all should bow down to me. This is what cracks me up.

Grlwithboy -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 3:39:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DevilsVendetta quote: ORIGINAL: MrrPete And you were never a newbie? You knew the "right way" in everything? You knew what a true Dominant was and how to truely submit to one? We do well to remember where we were when we found this lifestyle. I get a kick out of "Extremely COCKY young online DOMMES" Sounds like an oxymoron to me :) Yes I was, and still am to a large extent a newbie. But I approached this lifestyle trying to be humble and trying to learn. Not with the attitude that I was God among insects and all should bow down to me. This is what cracks me up. It's a fetish and a mutually fulfilling scene for the people in it. Some men and for that matter, women, find being treated in this way erotic. I've thrown this analogy around before, for the life of me I find Angelina Jolie gross, but most people find her hot, I don't question it, but I don't get it either. I don't expect anyone to "get" how I treat my slave of the enjoyment we get out of extreme verbal/inequality, but you don't have to play with us if you don't get it.

pixelslave -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 3:41:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Theres a hell of a lot of just plain cocky doms/dommes out there - young and old. Isn't it perhaps the fact that they have that confidence, which many are likely to perceive as being "cocky" part of what makes most of them Dominants that subs are naturally going to be attracted to? [8D] I don't want to diminish those who have a "quiet dominance" that comes totally from within and somehow doesn't require any words to be spoken or body language for us to feel it and sense it; only to say that for many it is most noticeable in the way that they express or exude their self-confidence. [;)] - pixel

missturbation -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 3:50:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixelslave quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Theres a hell of a lot of just plain cocky doms/dommes out there - young and old. Isn't it perhaps the fact that they have that confidence, which many are likely to perceive as being "cocky" part of what makes most of them Dominants that subs are naturally going to be attracted to? [8D] I don't want to diminish those who have a "quiet dominance" that comes totally from within and somehow doesn't require any words to be spoken or body language for us to feel it and sense it; only to say that for many it is most noticeable in the way that they express or exude their self-confidence. [;)] - pixel quite possibly yes - good thinking batman [:D]

LotusSong -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 3:55:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DevilsVendetta Female Domination and Female Supremacy are not one and the same my dear. So before you start bashing me, why not take a look at yourself? I know my limits and I know there is much for me to learn. But to be honest, I don't care to know of female supremacy, it is inherantly contradictory to D/s and the belief that a Dom and sub are giving equally in the relationship. If you believe yourself a superior human being to those who submit to you, they should not be worthy to submit. I would never put myself in a relationship with someone I believed to be nothing but dirt on my shoes. So follow your ideas of female supremacy, and I'll continue laughing at you. Oh and next time? Get your terms straight. DV- RE: female supremacy..and I agree with you totally. There are many different styles of female domination. I am one that if someone presents themselves as "unworthy or a bitch boy of some sort"... I have to ask.. why the heck would I want THEM? but for some women..that's how they see it. I believe in separate yet equal.. both being of the same importance. It's not popular.. but I feel better :)

sublizzie -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/21/2006 7:00:22 PM)
This presumes that young, online Dommes are straight and looking for boys. Some young Dommes prefer girls. And some submissives are only here to get their fantasies fulfilled too....male and female. This is not a male/female, Dom/Domme thing. It's a human way of interacting with others. Some people get off on it. Some do not. It's really no different from the male Doms who email fem subs and demand that they "kneel before me, bitch." quote: ORIGINAL: DevilsVendetta I was just wondering what you all thought of this as submissives, because often (not always) when I read some of these young online year Dommes pages it is along the lines of "I want a bitch to own, he will bow down at my every will, a toy to play with, eager to please, I am his Godess" etc etc. Honestly, this just makes me laugh. Knowing that these Dommes are just here to fulfill their fantasy of controlling some young and stupid boy or girl who doesn't really have anything to submit, nothing but a hollow shell of a body with no mind to back it up. Not that the Domme is much better anyway. But what do you all think of this?

LovingKitten -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/22/2006 3:50:15 AM)
I find it amusing, because I would rather havea dom who in all honesty enjoys a bit of fire and someone who can debate respectfully with them, rather than worship the dirt they walked on.

Caitriona -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/22/2006 5:00:31 AM)
It seems to me that for every desire, there is someone out there wanting to fulfill it. If it's not what you're looking for, then click onto the next profile. Everyone's kink is different and none is better than any other. We all began somewhere, with little experience and a lot of expectation. Over time, I like to think that I've learned to temper my expectation with a bit of realism and eventually all the "extremely young cocky online dommes" you've mentioned will do so as well. Either that or they'll find what they're seeking and everyone will be happy.

mymasterssub69 -> RE: Extremely Cocky Young Online Dommes (12/22/2006 12:03:03 PM)
i mostly get yahoo IMs from male submissives searching for a Mitress to dominate them - they are immediately blocked. have never received an IM from a cocky, young Doms

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