would u date a fromer prostitute?

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yes!!!!

69% (32)

NO!

30% (14)

Total Votes : 46

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pahunkboy -> would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 1:14:59 PM)
Ok- this guy I been interested in for a while layed this bomb on me. He said he is a former prostitute - male and female. what do i want to ask him?

JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 1:16:21 PM)
1. Did he always use protection? 2. First and foremost--- has he been tested for HIV and other std's 3. How long ago was this? 4. His criminal background

Voltare -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 1:22:44 PM)
We all have to pay the bills, somehow. The question, though, is what drove the person to work as a prostitute? The work itself, I have no issues with, but I'm VERY careful about getting involved with drug users, which is a common cause for prostitution (in fact, I've only known one prostitute who wasn't into drugs - that I knew of.) Obviously, it merits a scratch beneath the surface. My experience with TGs and TSs has been pretty bad, to boot - I wouldn't normally consider one for a relationship.

pahunkboy -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 1:23:18 PM)
5 DUIS. 15-20 yrs ago. hmmm- i certainly better ask him something. yikes.

JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 1:36:15 PM)
I wouldn't judge him from his past because noone has ever walked in his shoes...I am glad he is honest with you, that is VERY important. Don't hate the sinner, hate the sin is how I feel...I have done my share of wrong ...I wish you the very best.

stef -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 1:37:21 PM)
Ask him if parrots masturbate. After you get that out of the way, ask him the same questions you ask of *every* prospective guy you're interested in. ~stef

JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 1:56:34 PM)
with all this parrot talk, i'm gonna have an interesting dream tonite[&:]

FullCircle -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 1:58:38 PM)
I can’t date prostitutes because I’m not a retired cop. We all know that only old cops date old prostitutes it’s in all the good films.

pahunkboy -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 2:09:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Voltare We all have to pay the bills, somehow. The question, though, is what drove the person to work as a prostitute? The work itself, I have no issues with, but I'm VERY careful about getting involved with drug users, which is a common cause for prostitution (in fact, I've only known one prostitute who wasn't into drugs - that I knew of.) Obviously, it merits a scratch beneath the surface. My experience with TGs and TSs has been pretty bad, to boot - I wouldn't normally consider one for a relationship. He doesnt use drugs. This actually shocks me. I dont know specifically what he did. I know he can make a person sweat. He isnt TS or TG. He is a mechanic/farmer. The gay crowd is so messed up it isnt even funny. Alcoholism,. drug abuse and disfucntional are more commen then a 1 on 1 relationship. What he liked about me- is I did not get into cyber sex with him. I wasnt teh typical chat room, A/S/L. Voltare- here is the odd part. The more upfront and candid I was with him, the more he is interested. Most men RUN. So he appriates teh genuineness. Here is an example. I went thru a phaze where i wrote to prisoners. When I decided i no longer wanted that risk- i sent HIM teh letter- intended for the prisoner and why i chose to stop- and confide in him. i never had to sell my body. i never paid for sex. i feel prude saying this. the thing is this... if i dont treat myself with respect- how can i expect others to??? a few months ago- i dumped a fling. i learned he was taking chances - frequenting the dirty places in town. as it was we exchanged crabs. and it was him. i called him on that. I got rid of teh fling- teh crabs went too. but when u hang in places with glory holes and 3 ways in public- you take a chance. i grew up in Chicago. but dotn be fooled- plenty goes on in small towns......it may surprise you.

LadySeraphina -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 2:10:18 PM)
I agree - just make sure he's clean and not on drugs (at least, not drugs you yourself don't approve of - I don't know your using habits). These should be the same questions you ask anyone you're going to be involved with. It's not unlike someone who had a lot of former partners - are you going to be bothered thinking of everyone he may have serviced? If so, that may prove a problem in the relationship as well, so think hard about that one. We'd all like to think we're beyond that, but many of us are not. It's just like my houseboy - we're engaged now, but many men wouldn't be comfortable being in a relationship with a proDomme. I don't sleep with my clients, but I care about each and every one, so it takes a strong, confident boy to be my lover.

pahunkboy -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 2:16:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72 I wouldn't judge him from his past because noone has ever walked in his shoes...I am glad he is honest with you, that is VERY important. Don't hate the sinner, hate the sin is how I feel...I have done my share of wrong ...I wish you the very best. He asked me to call him again tonight. I plan to. I am no angel. Ive done my share of unflatterring things. Im just so shocked... the time line would place him married to a female at that time too. our calls are 4-5 hours each time. im just shocked is all. in my 20s i was wild- i cant take those chances like i did then. thanks for your post. it means alot. :-)

pahunkboy -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 2:23:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadySeraphina I agree - just make sure he's clean and not on drugs (at least, not drugs you yourself don't approve of - I don't know your using habits). These should be the same questions you ask anyone you're going to be involved with. It's not unlike someone who had a lot of former partners - are you going to be bothered thinking of everyone he may have serviced? If so, that may prove a problem in the relationship as well, so think hard about that one. We'd all like to think we're beyond that, but many of us are not. It's just like my houseboy - we're engaged now, but many men wouldn't be comfortable being in a relationship with a proDomme. I don't sleep with my clients, but I care about each and every one, so it takes a strong, confident boy to be my lover. 2x he was not able to confirm if i could come down and visit him. so- maybe this was the stumbling block. mark these words- no relationship is better then a bad one. my last LTR was 7 yrs. 4 were good 2 were so-so- the final year was hell. now HE was someone that slept around. The neighbor counted 6-7 men in my apratment on a friday night when i was out of town. i got rid of that bed. he left me. which actually was a good thing. i have a more stable life now and a nicer home. :-) + i know who has been in my bed. :-)

Petruchio -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 6:22:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef Ask him if parrots masturbate. (laughing so hard I'm sputtering!)

dcnovice -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 8:30:33 PM)
For me the tricky question would be why someone attractive enough to be a pro would want to date me!

LotusSong -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 8:34:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef Ask him if parrots masturbate. Oh god yes! I had a Molluccan cockatoo that would perch on my fist and rub his vent along my knuckles.. A 2 pound bird with a large beak in heat can do what wants.

Voltare -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/21/2006 9:48:11 PM)
I misunderstood - I read the 'both male and female' to suggest he was TG or TV. My own observations with gay friends has been that they tended to rush into relationships, rush into bed, and rush to the divorce court of opinions. Sooner or later they learn they can't live life that fast, if they want to avoid an early grave, and they settle down. That's usually about the time they meet someone who feels the same way - and it becomes a long term relationship. His history is an indication of what he might be like today. If you take your time and do things right (i.e. if from online, meet and don't rush to bed right off) you'll probably find things working out to your advantage. Getting to know him - for who he is, not what he can do - will take you both a long ways.

Petruchio -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/22/2006 9:50:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dcnovice For me the tricky question would be why someone attractive enough to be a pro would want to date me! 1. Attractiveness is in the mind, DC. Although it gets first glance, flesh is fleeting. Develop an attractive personality, and in the long run, you're ahead. Ask any woman here. Remember, confidence is attractive too. 2. Only in movies are prostitutes universally gorgeous. In real life, many are unattractive. An old girlfriend had a hypothesis that men felt shame and punished themselves with ugly hookers.

SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/22/2006 12:13:10 PM)
quote: For me the tricky question would be why someone attractive enough to be a pro would want to date me! Hmm how about the fact that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Or that conventionally held "beauty" isn't everyone's ideal. Perhaps it may be because you're wickedly funny, a great cook, have whip sharp intelligence and your beauty shines from the inside out. Maybe because you have the whole package. Looks fade pet, the rest is what lasts a lifetime. I've dated both, there were male models that were breathtaking to look at but were as shallow as a puddle and as dumb as a box of rocks. There were others that while perhaps not societies ideal of handsomeness they had a soul as beautiful as an angel. That, my friend, was what shone through and made them far more attractive than any other around. Of course there will always be this unnatural view by society of what's considered attractive and what isn't. I'll take wit, brains, sense of humor, and the ability to have an intellectual conversation over breathtaking beauty any day of the week. Any guy in the world will be lucky to find you and appreciate you for the attributes you have over the things you assume to be more important. Stop selling yourself short.

Arpig -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/22/2006 3:44:46 PM)
quote: He said he is a former prostitute - male and female. I'm sorry, maybe I am overly thick, but was he a male prostitute, a female prostitute, or both???? Colour me mucho confuso (appologies to Master renegade for using psuedo spanish)

LTRsubNW -> RE: would u date a fromer prostitute? (12/28/2006 6:42:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pahunkboy 5 DUIS. 15-20 yrs ago. hmmm- i certainly better ask him something. yikes. 5 DUIS???? (Uhhhmmmm...just a thought....that's a problem).

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