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BDSM Boomers - 12/21/2006 4:04:09 PM   
TornPain


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Hello, frienD/s -

I am looking for a web site or discussion list or blog that caters to kinky baby boomers.  I have found seniorsizzle.com which is not quite what I am looking for.  I am really looking for a group where us older perverts can discuss our unique issues like how our play may effect our different health issues, etc. 

Does anyone have any connections for me?   Thanks.
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RE: BDSM Boomers - 12/21/2006 4:09:35 PM   
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i dont have any links for ya, but i wanted to pop in and say welcome to the fora.....

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RE: BDSM Boomers - 12/21/2006 4:46:18 PM   
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N o links to give you but i went to a large event recently where the goal of the Dom i was with and myself focused on sessions that would allow our health issues (arthritis) to not effect our activities negatively.  Perhaps starting a thread here would be a fun thing to do.  We looked at electric play and fire play.  His perspective as Dom and acting upon and my perspective as sub being acted upon brought up many interesting conversations betwen us.


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RE: BDSM Boomers - 12/21/2006 5:05:06 PM   
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I don't know of any groups exclusively for members aged 45-65 or so. I know there are thriving groups dedicated to the 18-35 age bracket. I wonder if a "BDSM boomers" group would attract members?

However, it's worth mentioning that there are some New England groups in which many of the members appear older than 40. TornPain, I see that you're in CT, so the particular groups I'm thinking of may be useful to you. If you send me an email on here, I could give you contact information for the groups I have in mind.

Monica

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RE: BDSM Boomers - 12/22/2006 2:54:18 PM   
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Thanks for the welcome, Amy !  Hi, DDL and Monica.

Monica, I know of some groups that do have older members.  But I am looking for a discussion group on line that chats exclusively about topics specifically relevant to the kinky older boomer generation. 

Does any one know of any?

If not I am thinking of starting my own....

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RE: BDSM Boomers - 12/22/2006 3:03:01 PM   
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i agree that such a group would be terrific, but there aren't any that i know of specifically for booming kinksters...lol.   Way back i joined Senior Friends (one of the alt.com groups), but it went no where.   i didn't even try to hide being a submissive, but i don't think my profile generated more than half a doz. letters. <shrug>  Age/location are usually the first 2 things i look for, and i'm flattered by the 20-30 something young men who write, but that's as far as it's going to go.  i'm not sure i'd bet even money that a "boomer group" would do well (there are sooooo many of us now..lol), simply because a lot of people prefer a younger or older partner, so i guess a good mix of ages is really best.

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RE: BDSM Boomers - 12/22/2006 3:05:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TornPain
But I am looking for a discussion group on line that chats exclusively about topics specifically relevant to the kinky older boomer generation. 



What other issues do you have in mind besides health issues?


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RE: BDSM Boomers - 12/22/2006 6:38:03 PM   
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We are baby boomers, 64 and 60.  There have been numerous threads on the effect of age on play. My reply is always that the dynamic doesn't change but the positions do, especially with arthritis.

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RE: BDSM Boomers - 12/22/2006 7:04:26 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TornPain

Hello, frienD/s -

I am looking for a web site or discussion list or blog that caters to kinky baby boomers.  I have found seniorsizzle.com which is not quite what I am looking for.  I am really looking for a group where us older perverts can discuss our unique issues like how our play may effect our different health issues, etc. 

Does anyone have any connections for me?   Thanks.
Torn Pain

You might want to consider starting you own yahoo site.. a message board of sorts.
 
I find that its quicker than waiting for someone else to get one going.

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RE: BDSM Boomers - 12/31/2006 4:10:38 PM   
TornPain


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Hello, frienD/s –

A while ago I posted to this site asking if anyone knew of a BDSM discussion group specifically geared toward the Baby Boomer generation.  No one did, and I searched around the web and was unable to find a group like this which I felt would have an audience, so I decided to start one.  I felt there was a need for a group discussion list that addressed the BDSM concerns of kinky folks aged 42 to 60 specifically.

I would like to introduce you to the BDSM Boomers discussion group at Yahoo Groups. This is the link…. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmboomers  

If you were born between 1946 and 1964 (and especially if you were born between 1946 and 1957), and if you consider yourself part of the BDSM culture or have an interest in the BDSM culture, this group is for you. This is a forum for our exceptional group of kinky baby boomers to share memories, thoughts, problems, solutions, and dreams related to our age and our kinky sexualities.  

If you are interested, I hope you will join. If you have friends who would be interested in our group, invite them to join, and feel free to advertise this group on other senior or BDSM sites. 

Thank you.  
Torn Pain

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