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MsSilvie -> RE: Personal information (2/21/2005 9:25:25 PM)
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I'm not clear on the exact situation. Is this someone you were casually playing with? Or someone you had developed a more serious long term online partnership?
The people online that I have a casual play relationship with I don't feel I need to either give or recieve contact info. In a lot of cases, though, we do have each others information. With more serious online relationships, I've always exchanged info. It adds a lot to be able to call, write, etc.
I think it's reciprocial. If I'm asked for info and give it out, I would expect the same back. I don't agree at all with dominants who demand info from a sub and not be willing to return theirs. Certainly, if I'm going to meet someone, I want some verifiable info there.
For people I know online, I would say that in at least 95% of the stable, OL relationships that I know of, the partners have personal info. The opposite it true too, about 95% of the "velcro collar" couples DON'T have personal info.
One thing to consider, if you won't provide info or at least get on vanilla camera for stable, normal folks you are developing a relationship with, you are going to tend to be seen as a fake. I'm not saying that it's true or that it's fair, but people will wonder "what is that person trying to hide". That may or may not be a concern you have.
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