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zoeysubgrrl -> RE: Verbal stimulation (12/24/2006 9:17:25 PM)
Tone of voice and choice of words are extremely important to me. Just as Pixel said the greatest sex organ is between the ears - our mind. I like a forceful tone from my Domme and yes that condecending twist along with some verbal humiliation, if the situation requires it. For the most part definitely, love a confident, in control sound with a hint of amusment at my discomfort. Gets me going every time.

mymasterssub69 -> RE: Verbal stimulation (12/25/2006 1:06:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AlexAussieSub How important to you are a Dom/me's verbal skills and tone of voice during a scene? What sort of style do you go for e.g. angry/enraged, verbally abusive, "cool, calm and collected", kind and sympathetic, sexually interested? Is there an analogy in the real world or in movies to the verbal style you like in a Dom/me? i enjoy the angry/enraged verbal abusive voice when i crave to be "punished" as well as the cool, smooth talk of stimulating conversation (sexual and non-sexual)

MmakeMme -> RE: Verbal stimulation (12/26/2006 7:47:25 AM)
Something that set me on ~fire~ and is still prevalent in fantasies was when he told me to say "I'm your fucking cunt, Sir," and His reaction was that of attentive silence or, in a very sweet and sing-song tone He would say things like "Yes you are." I liked the opposition of what He told me to say against the tone He used to reply to my statement. I suppose the same would be true if He told me to call myself His little precious flower (or something just as saccharine) and He responded loudly or angrily.

eyesopened -> RE: Verbal stimulation (12/26/2006 8:15:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra Someone once told me that if a woman pays attention to the visual around a man, she can get whomever she wants, but if a man wants a woman, he has to know how to use his voice. I wanted to argue that, but more and more, I find that in large part, he was correct. What do I like? oh, low-toned mock caring in a pseudo-concerned voice followed by understated but forceful commentary will do it for me every time. Throw in a pinch of an endearment (use sparingly) and simple mmm hmmms when hits land well... and um...I'm cumming and he's got me for as long as he wants me. "Oh, poor thing... I bet that hurt didn't it...Good! You might as well relax - we're no where near done." juliet i could not agree more!

slo18 -> RE: Verbal stimulation (12/26/2006 10:22:37 AM)
I love verbal comunication dureing a sceane, and talking dirty is a massive turn on for me. but only if the tone it right. I cant stand being called names in an angry tone of voice the tone makes the words more hurtfull for me. when my Dom calls me his little whore in that possessive warm tone i shiver. we talk all the time speeking to each other is very important for us and someitmes just hearing my name sends my mind off somewhere else and i have to pull it back reminding myself that i have to pay attetion to what is being said. i dont think i could be with someone for very long if they wouldent talk to me in that way. i think i wouldnt feel as connected

Celeste43 -> RE: Verbal stimulation (12/26/2006 10:24:57 AM)
Affection, affirmation and encouragement. Anger or coldness are the quickest way to end the scene and possibly the relationship. I respect him enough to believe him and if he said that I was worthless or bad and needed to be taught a lesson, I would believe that he really felt this way about me. I don't want to be with anyone who dislikes me, I need a lot more than that in a lover and life partner.

beltainefaerie -> RE: Verbal stimulation (12/26/2006 12:24:44 PM)
julietsierra, that is perfect. Exactly how my Master communicates and I love it! I also love it when he grabs me by the hair and practically growls something in my ear. Some tones of voice make me wet instantly. There is also a commanding tone that makes me want to drop to my knees and do whatever someone wants, whether we have that kind of relationship or not. Of course I control myself, but it makes me want to. My friend had a voice problem with her mostly 'nilla boyfriend who sometimes Tops her. He would be doing the right things, saying the right things and getting her into her subspace happily and then would say something in a soft almost babyish voice (you know that kind of talk some 'nilla couples do when they get all smoochy lovey). She hated it! She finally managed to tell him how fast that threw ice water on her desires. He doesn't do it anymore and their life has been much happier. Ah, communication! So important to general happiness and well-being!

littleone35 -> RE: Verbal stimulation (12/26/2006 4:28:15 PM)
We don't talk much during a scene. When i get excited i will say "MASTER" and he will say yes but there is no way i can answer him. So i guess you could say i am the vocal one during our scenes. Matt's littleone

Donnalee -> RE: Verbal stimulation (12/26/2006 6:04:24 PM)
quote: He would be doing the right things, saying the right things and getting her into her subspace happily and then would say something in a soft almost babyish voice (you know that kind of talk some 'nilla couples do when they get all smoochy lovey). She hated it! She finally managed to tell him how fast that threw ice water on her desires. He doesn't do it anymore and their life has been much happier. Ah, communication! So important to general happiness and well-being! Been there! What a serious BuzzKill!!! That's a great way to put it....ice water on the desire. I don't know if anything has ever thrown me out of a mood quicker that that one did. [:'(] I spoke up really quickly, and the look of horror on my face surely helped!

acctonthelook -> RE: Verbal stimulation (12/29/2006 7:47:10 PM)
i say for me, this is extremely important. i am audiable in nature. the Mastering is in the tone, the things said, how they are said and the punishment of not doing what is said. i need a Master that won't change is tone with me ever. i need a Master that at heart is a Master. i don't want to remind him to be my Master. i cannot see myself with someone that cannot maintain this lifestyle. it would just turn vanilla and i'm not settling for that again. zzzzzz!

hejira92 -> RE: Verbal stimulation (1/2/2007 1:30:06 PM)
Master and I have both sung professionally, so the verbal and vocal are extremely important to us both. When the play involves pain, part of what He controls is my verbal responses and He is usually quiet- but when He does speak, it is as juliett describes it- "we're nowhere near being done, little girl", etc. When the play is sexual- watch out! Then His voice is everything- He totally controls with His voice- He often hyponotizes me or sends me off to space with just a bit of pain and His soothing words of ownership and control. And when He wants me to go over the edge (or torture me by not letting me...) He will use a cold, angry, distaining voice and call me all those humiliating things and names that He knows works like a charm. <sigh>

MmakeMme -> RE: Verbal stimulation (1/2/2007 1:33:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dawntreader quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra oh, low-toned mock caring in a pseudo-concerned voice followed by understated but forceful commentary will do it for me every time. Throw in a pinch of an endearment (use sparingly) and simple mmm hmmms when hits land well... and um...I'm cumming and he's got me for as long as he wants me. "Oh, poor thing... I bet that hurt didn't it...Good! You might as well relax - we're no where near done." juliet Damn! if you did not "hit" this one right on :-) ~animalistic growl of total agreement~

Necroletariat -> RE: Verbal stimulation (1/3/2007 2:52:28 PM)
I love words. Sometimes, all i get from a Dom are words, but it works for me. Really, it depends on the Dom, and the mood, as well as the personal preference of those present.

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