ProtagonistLily
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Be careful when looking at the checked interests on the other side though. I have seen many profiles that say that the individual in them is new to BDSM and yet they claim to be able to do things that I would never dream of (even with 7 years of experience). Just be aware that if someone checks it as an interest it doesn't always mean that it is something that they know how to do. For the record... That is an interests list. There are things on my list that I have done and am proficient in, and things I have not done, but are willing to try that are not hard limits for me. When I have a discussion with a submissive, I will deliniate which of those I have done and which of those are still on my 'to do' list. But I agree with you. Single tail, flogging, knife, fire, etc., are activities that I believe you need to have some practice in before inflicting on another person. This is one of the primary reasons I belong to my local BDSM organization. I enjoy the benefit of workshops and mentorship I can get from it. Lily
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