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slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 12:40:27 PM

goddess50138

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After investing a few weeks in a particularly appealing slave, I recieved a phone call one night from his girlfriend. I had asked him before taking him as my slave if he was a single, free man. His reply was that he was single.
Has similar things happened to other masters and mistress? and how do you deal with such unhonest behaviour?

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 1:02:33 PM

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Well I'm not a domme, but I would drop him like a hot potato. Sorry...

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 1:18:53 PM

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I would dump him and not look back.

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 1:27:16 PM

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Cross posting is typically seen as bad forum ettiquette and the MOD Gods may pull one of the cross posted threads without warning. Typically it will not matter what board you post your question, thoughts, issues, ect. (ie Ask a Master, Ask a Mistress) if someone wants to give imput or advice they will.

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 2:15:23 PM

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Sorry, this was my first post, new to the group and this unfortunatly was the first slave I met and chose off this site.. Hopeing for better luck next time. I was not sure sure if masters and mistress's would look all each others posts, so I cross posted wanting to know what both sex's would do. My apologies.

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 2:20:15 PM

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Like Snoop, drop him like he's hot.

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 2:33:46 PM

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This is one of those occasions where you do need both sides of the story....

He may well have been honest and the "girlfriend" may have been an obsessive ex.... Granted, she had enough current insight to access your contact details but I'd still hear his explanation before releasing any trapdoor.

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 3:31:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: goddess50138

After investing a few weeks in a particularly appealing slave, I recieved a phone call one night from his girlfriend. I had asked him before taking him as my slave if he was a single, free man. His reply was that he was single.
Has similar things happened to other masters and mistress? and how do you deal with such unhonest behaviour?

Well, although I am sure he understood fully the intent of the question...he did answer truthfully albeit sneakily..you asked if he was a single free man...he was unmarried nor was he engaged hence he was a single free man..and actually his reply was that he was simply SINGLE..no more, no less....not dishonest, but no one I would trust ....POTATO time.......Tempting

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 3:34:02 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: goddess50138

After investing a few weeks in a particularly appealing slave, I recieved a phone call one night from his girlfriend. I had asked him before taking him as my slave if he was a single, free man. His reply was that he was single.
Has similar things happened to other masters and mistress? and how do you deal with such unhonest behaviour?

Uhmmm....and how did his girlfriend get your phone number??

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 3:39:40 PM

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Hello Goddess50138

Such is the world of the INTERNET. If it is your plan to invest solely in such a venue for the building of relationships; then you must also realize that this will happen on occasion. Consider it lucky that you only invested a couple weeks; imagine if it had been months or years?

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 3:57:28 PM

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Yikes, Serenityy - if I'd known someone RL for that long, and got a surprise like that, I'd be remarkably upset with myself for being unobservant. With OL relationships, of course, that becomes much more of a danger.

I'd listen to his side/explanation - *then* dump him, unless there was something in the explanation that made this "not his bad".

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 6:03:45 PM

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Would definitely seek his explanation. Technically he is single and she may just be a jealous exgirlfriend or maybe someone that wants to be his girlfriend. Then on the other hand he might be a liar and it would be interesting to watch him dance around the truth before cutting him loose.

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RE: slaves who are not honest - 12/25/2006 6:19:50 PM

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quote:

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After investing a few weeks in a particularly appealing slave, I recieved a phone call one night from his girlfriend. I had asked him before taking him as my slave if he was a single, free man. His reply was that he was single.
Has similar things happened to other masters and mistress? and how do you deal with such unhonest behaviour?

Same you deal with it in a vanilla situation. Look at what time and energy you've invested in the relationship, how attached you are to them, if you think they are being honest with you when they say it's a just a psycho ex (does happen), and then you decide if it's worth staying. I hate to sound heartless but I don't think there really isn't another way to handle it. If it comes out that he was using you to cheat, or the other way around, and you decide to stay in the relationship then you can always punish him but I would advise against too much of that. Have dealt with and seen how infidelity affects relationships, if the injured party cannot forgive it and move it then it's just a waste of time for both people.

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