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hisannabelle -> RE: Is it wrong to ask for this..... (12/26/2006 11:09:27 PM)
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i'm still not sure what you mean by scene...do you mean that you haven't explored bondage or s&m or, well, essentially "kinky sex" at all? this may be some ignorance on my part of what scene means to the general population, because if it's the inclusion of bondage, s&m, or even just domination and submission, whether public or private, then pretty much every time he and i have sex it is a scene - sometimes things are somewhat planned out but often they're not planned out at all and we go where the wind takes us.
anyway, assuming that i'm guessing right, i am honestly surprised it -hasn't- happened yet. but back to your question - as others have said, it's always a good idea to ask respectfully, and to assure him that you are not trying to be pushy in any way and that you don't want this to -delay- the first scene, nor do you -expect- an answer, but that you're curious. maybe that will assuage whatever might cause him to want to delay it because of your asking. another idea would be to tell him that you know that he knows how much you want it and are waiting for it, but to ask if there's anything you can do to prepare yourself for it or to help him plan for it. :)
best of luck to you. i notice that we are around the same age (i just turned 19 on saturday, actually, not sure if that's reflected in my profile yet) - i don't know what your experience in bdsm is, but if you ever wish to chat with another submissive in the same age range, feel free to message me :)
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