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Aileen68 -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 5:22:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlyStone quote: I never did know more than his first name...so that does make him a stranger in my book. That was a huge part of the appeal for me. quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 Aileen I am wondering if the choice not to reveal was his or yours or mutual or just one of those unspoken arrangements, and if at some point did you want to but to much time had gone by or would it have ruined the arrangement or was it never an option? It was mutual in the beginning, but then I did get curious. I never asked though. To me, knowing would have ruined the mystic somehow. I still talk to him and I still never ask.

Missokyst -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 5:31:26 PM)
Umm... I partied during the days of bars and dancing. Yep, I have walked on the wild side a time or two with a relative stranger. Occasionally, when I was in a really maso headspace I have dallied with men that were much scarier than I should have been with. I am still living and unscathed so I would say it turned out well in the end. What I got out of it (even those really scary experiences) was the knowledge that I can surivive and conquor. Kyst

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 5:34:01 PM)
Aileen- hot! I've done that as a whore, and I've had casual sex where I've not known even the other person's name, but never as a regular pre-set up arrangment.

LTRsubNW -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 5:36:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlyStone For the submissives: Have you ever been topped/dominated by a relative stranger? That is someone that you have just met, perhaps here or at at club or an event, and discussed a scene with beforehand and nothing more. No relationship outside of the scene itself. No knowledge of their life outside of the bdsm context.I suppose the best analogy would be meeting someone in a bar and going home to fuck but in this case there is a bdsm scene with informed consent. If the answer is yes how did you feel afterward? Was it more exciting, as exciting, less exciting or totally sucked compared to being with someone you have spent time with and got to know outside of the bdsm and why. Did you feel guilty? and if so was it because you enjoyed it or because you regretted it? And for the tops: The same questions, but from your perspective. (WTF??????)

Aileen68 -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 5:54:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Aileen- hot! I've done that as a whore, and I've had casual sex where I've not known even the other person's name, but never as a regular pre-set up arrangment. Holy shit...it's gonna snow in Hell. I've done something that LA hasn't????? And yes...incredibly hot. Try it.

spankmepink11 -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 6:02:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 I connected instantly with someone here from CM. Almost as if we had known each other our entire lives. All I knew, and all I wanted to know about him was his first name. We talked by instant message for a few weeks before we met. He gave me specific instructions on how to dress and how to be in the room...facing the wall with my back to him. I was instructed to not look at him. He showed me his tattoo to prove it was him and then he proceeded to blindfold me for the entire time we were together. It was the most intense, erotic and arousing three hours that I have ever spent with another person. I have absolutely no regrets whatsoever. In fact, every single time that we met for the next six months was just as intense. At another point in my life he may have well been the "one". edited to add...I never did know more than his first name...so that does make him a stranger in my book. That was a huge part of the appeal for me. Aileen...that almost mirrors my very first BDSM experience...but he was someone i met on aol...remains on of the top 5 experiences of my life...lol...even though he was unsuitable for me...the memory still has the power to leave me breathless

marieToo -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 6:06:36 PM)
My definition of "stranger" is someone I haven't spoken to or gotten to know to a point of feeling safe. Having said that, No, I have never trusted my well-being and safety to a stranger and I never will.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 6:19:20 PM)
Marie - where's your picture?

Aileen68 -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 6:30:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: spankmepink11 even though he was unsuitable for me...the memory still has the power to leave me breathless Yeah, that pretty much sums it up for me too. I crave that feeling again. It's my driving force.

Zsuzsanna -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 6:55:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie I have been used by an absolute stranger, but did not bottom to him. I was ordered by my Master to avail myself to him. He and my Master worked out the details, and my Master was in the room the entire time, and orchestrated it. My Master will not allow me to be topped by anyone but himself. From an onlooker's perspective, it would have looked as though I were submitting to this stranger, but I was submitting to my Master. It was quite fulfilling as a result, as my Master was quite proud of my obedience and compliance. It will happen again when my Master wishes it to. I completely understand that. You please the stranger because it pleases your Master. And if your Master is pleased, all is right with the world.

marieToo -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 7:00:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie Marie - where's your picture? Im going to put it back I think; I like it for my avatar, but the profile had to go. Suddenly I was getting email from every oaf in the tri-state area. I think Ive been chased back into reclusion (for now anyway)

Aileen68 -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 7:02:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie Marie - where's your picture? Im going to put it back I think; I like it for my avatar, but the profile had to go. Suddenly I was getting email from every oaf in the tri-state area. I think Ive been chased back into reclusion (for now anyway) That's because you're a hottie.

marieToo -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 7:04:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 quote: ORIGINAL: spankmepink11 even though he was unsuitable for me...the memory still has the power to leave me breathless Yeah, that pretty much sums it up for me too. I crave that feeling again. It's my driving force. You sure you don't have balls down there? Hell, I cant stand someone I've known for a while, blindfolding me; nevermind someone on a first meeting. Id be peeing myself.

marieToo -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 7:06:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie Marie - where's your picture? Im going to put it back I think; I like it for my avatar, but the profile had to go. Suddenly I was getting email from every oaf in the tri-state area. I think Ive been chased back into reclusion (for now anyway) That's because you're a hottie. No, its because Im local and i have a vagina. please!

Aileen68 -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 7:06:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo Hell, I cant stand someone I've known for a while, blindfolding me; nevermind someone on a first meeting. Id be peeing myself. That's the goal.

marieToo -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 7:08:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Zsuzsanna quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie I have been used by an absolute stranger, but did not bottom to him. I was ordered by my Master to avail myself to him. He and my Master worked out the details, and my Master was in the room the entire time, and orchestrated it. My Master will not allow me to be topped by anyone but himself. From an onlooker's perspective, it would have looked as though I were submitting to this stranger, but I was submitting to my Master. It was quite fulfilling as a result, as my Master was quite proud of my obedience and compliance. It will happen again when my Master wishes it to. I completely understand that. You please the stranger because it pleases your Master. And if your Master is pleased, all is right with the world. Ok now this would be different. If I had a Master and my Master knew the 'stranger' and knew I wasnt gonna get cooties from the person etc, then I would do it too.

marieToo -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 7:11:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo Hell, I cant stand someone I've known for a while, blindfolding me; nevermind someone on a first meeting. Id be peeing myself. That's the goal. It sounds hotter than fuck itself. But to live through it? holy shit is all I can say.

Aileen68 -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 7:15:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo Hell, I cant stand someone I've known for a while, blindfolding me; nevermind someone on a first meeting. Id be peeing myself. That's the goal. It sounds hotter than fuck itself. But to live through it? holy shit is all I can say. I'm really fucked up because that's what really gets me off.

marieToo -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 7:21:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo Hell, I cant stand someone I've known for a while, blindfolding me; nevermind someone on a first meeting. Id be peeing myself. That's the goal. It sounds hotter than fuck itself. But to live through it? holy shit is all I can say. I'm really fucked up because that's what really gets me off. Nah, you're not fucked up. You just got the balls to bring it to life. <dirty slut>

ownedgirlie -> RE: Relative Strangers (12/27/2006 7:31:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie Marie - where's your picture? Im going to put it back I think; I like it for my avatar, but the profile had to go. Suddenly I was getting email from every oaf in the tri-state area. I think Ive been chased back into reclusion (for now anyway) That's too bad. It was a great profile and picture. And Aileen is right - you are a hottie.

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