afeathr
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Joined: 6/1/2006 From: Southern California Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: sleazy As a dom, there are many profiles of subs that if not actually scare me, but give me cause for concern. I am sure we have all seen them, the youngster newbie with no limits and no safewords, the older ones who come across to me as having little or no self-esteem. Sometimes I fear for their physical wellbeing, but more often for their emotional health (prepares fire extingusher) as I believe that being killed/seriously injured by a predator is of a lower risk than being emotionally or mentally harmed by either a predator or an incompetent. That is of course not to laugh off or trivialise any risks, but just to apply my sense of perspective to them. The "older" ones that you describe concern me as well. The younger ones are usually fakes (in the literal sense) and don't stay on long. It's usually a joke, or someone is being forced to put up a profile as such. I have been approached, on occasion, by the young ones you describe, then when I respond to their messages (usually waiting a day or two because I know the m.o.) they are already gone. As far as the OP - I've not seen anyone truly "scary," but have had my share of "no thank yous" come along.
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afeathr -Going where the wind blows me...
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