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mgdartist -> RE: Why women fall for men that treat them like crap (12/29/2006 12:54:24 AM)
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I once wondered about this issue for a long time, but no longer. It's readily apparent women don't think like men whatsoever, even tho there is another recent thread like this from a woman about men. The consensus reached was that we want what we can't have, and I've heard it said of women even more, However ive always suspected it ran a good deal deeper than just that, and sure enough, after reading this, began to see the truth of the matter. Women are a very complicated component of this species. While its apparent they were created more or less for the benefit of males, one could easily assume the latter, and in fact, as many of them obviously believe, the reverse is in fact the case. Can't say I'd be overly confident of winning a debate to the contrary.
The problem is and always has been our male focus on primarily what's between their legs, but not that that alone leads them to such seemingly irrational behavior as preferring the company of one who "treats them like crap" No, it's the lengths the majority of men are willing to go, hoping to have access to their sex, rather than their minds or accomplishments, which makes them behave thus, which they will invariably be rebelling against when making such a choice. Men are notorious for not doing their homework in order to attain that which they so aggressively hunt, being quick to know and do everything but such things as they might learn here.
For every enlightened man, there are at least 500 fools, and their continuing legacy puts us all at the disadvantage. Thus I seek to share the wealth, In hopes, at least here, that ratio might drop. And no, one wont find ALL the answers in my meager books, but can at least have someplace to begin, and will hopefully continue to broaden his enlightenment.
The first step, I hesitate to say, is not only to stop resenting the ladies, and then treating them as chattel behind it, but to realize that they are, by and large, far more intelligent than you may give them credit for, and my opinion is, overall, considerably more intelligent than men, Outside the areas of mechanics and other male dominated braintrusts. But in day to day conversation, sentiment, use of language, and in fact almost any area of communication, coping, relating, and interacting, argueing, and realizing their wills, gents, we are badly outclassed, ...yes, even if we be Doms. Fearing them were they anything like us, would be a necessity, but as they are, I believe, appreciating them and adoring them (not with the usual male sexually driven agenda mind you) but just in fact for their advantages, and if nothing else, being the ones who somewhere in the distant past, bore us and gave us life, we as males can begin to glimpse that we must never resent, hurt or use them, cherish and protect them, and think of them as at least our equal, although, strangely enough, so many don't want to be.
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