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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 12/30/2006 5:35:03 AM

MadamShy

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Hats off to your answer it exactly explains

Why I am a sadist ..

I just rather pick masochists keepd the cops away and the abuse charges down

I enjoy the welts placed where I like to place them .. and if the victim is actually enjoying it all the better

at Club Hell in Providence I welted a few backs of boys in a artistic way

one I welted one back to look like scars from wings being ripped out of his back ... called it wing scars ,,, He and all around loved it

it made Me wet

the next after beating I noticed I had bruised and welted his back to took dragon tail and made it look like flames of welts riseing off his shoulders

another walked around with My name welted on his back a few times [SHY]

the evil sticks and toys and whips I use are harsh in pain ... and when I finished each didn't realize it was all that painful and swore to come back...

I was dripping and got off at each yell they screamed out and how there eyes were glazed over and the goofy grin on there faces as I iced and bactined there backs to make sure of No infections

then after cleaning each toy properly and watching they show off the marks of there service with pride

that makes Me Hot too ...

I am Not a service Dom .. I do it more with a Masochist because ... I can .... it will Not put Me in jail ... both partys get a kick

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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 12/30/2006 2:45:35 PM

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I like to take her to that edge...and leave her there. Then bring her back, and take her there from a different angle. I use floggers
and wax,clamps,anything I can think of . She has a love/hate relationship with Home depo[lol]
Can I do this with anyone I want..maybe,maybe not. I want to know them..inside and out befor . I want and need that connection, the Look they give me out of the corner of their eye as I bring out the flogger. Sadist..maybeDoes it matter..I am what I am..so is she.

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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 12/30/2006 5:43:34 PM

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She has a love/hate relationship with Home depo[lol]

LOL. I've heard AtlantaDom call it Dom Depot once..cracked me up.

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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 12/30/2006 6:43:01 PM

SirLordTrainer

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ORIGINAL: twicehappy

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I mean, we've all head the joke about the conversation between a saidist and a pain slut. She said "Beat me" and he laughed and said "No."

Lol, and thank you for the smile. That was my previous Master's favorite line.

Yea? an whats yer present Master's favorite line!? <Eg> ;)

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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 12/31/2006 8:43:09 AM

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Doing the opposite of what your sub enjoys does not make you sadist...getiing off on what she absolutely despises is sadistic..

Have you applied for work as Ron Jeremy's stunt double?

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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 12/31/2006 12:59:37 PM

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I have a sincere question KOM. In a world where you had all the power and authority, with no legal boundaries, do you think that you would enjoy random acts of sadism against an unsuspecting, non consenting person? Would you enjoy carrying a bat and knee-capping a fellow pedestrian just to hear the person scream?

Edited to add: or am I guilty of concrete thinking here?

If the only consequence to my acts of sadism was my pleasure...sure.. I would enjoy causing pain in alot of cases... However, I have am ruled by a higher standard than ones consent or legal boundaries... it's my morality... "Do thy will Harm none" so I could enjoy alot of random acts as you say... if it didn't violate my moral code.

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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 7/30/2007 3:18:58 PM

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Anwer me this..

Why, upon reading these words, do I immediately have an image of you posing this question from under a bridge?

I honestly don't know. I think the quote came from an old nursery riddle. "Riddle me this, who's afraid of ..." I can't remember the rest.

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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 7/30/2007 3:58:14 PM

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You might want to identify as a sadist if you enjoy beholding pain or discomfort. Typically sadists get around to causing the pain or discomfort, too, because it's an easy way to access it. ("Emotional sadism" is fuzzy--I tend to call plain old physical sadism 'sadism' and modify it with 'emotional' only when I mean emotional.)

There is definitely a difference between what I think of as an "SM top," (and what I think LA, being much cuter, is calling a "fluffy sadist") which can be a person who enjoys causing pain that the bottom enjoys (or enjoys causing sensations *because* the bottom enjoys them) or a person who enjoys causing pain irrespective of whether the pain is appreciated by the person pained; and a "sadist," typically a subset, a type of SM top, who likes to cause pain irrespective of whether the pain is appreciated, and often prefers for the pain to be disliked. I'm a sadistic SM top. I'm also dominant--that means that I prefer to run the scene as well as hit people.

I tend to think people who like pain as a means to something should identify themselves more closely to whatever that thing is that pain affords--be it submission, or endurance, or tears (yay dacryphilia!) or a sense of punishment, or whatever. People who like pain in its own right, by itself, ought to call themselves sadists and masochists. This isn't because sadist and masochist are special, elevated labels--it's not a *better than* distinction, but a *different from* one.

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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 7/30/2007 6:25:42 PM

catize

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: catize

I have a sincere question KOM. In a world where you had all the power and authority, with no legal boundaries, do you think that you would enjoy random acts of sadism against an unsuspecting, non consenting person? Would you enjoy carrying a bat and knee-capping a fellow pedestrian just to hear the person scream?

Edited to add: or am I guilty of concrete thinking here?

If the only consequence to my acts of sadism was my pleasure...sure.. I would enjoy causing pain in alot of cases... However, I have am ruled by a higher standard than ones consent or legal boundaries... it's my morality... "Do thy will Harm none" so I could enjoy alot of random acts as you say... if it didn't violate my moral code.

I missed your answer way back when, saw it just now that the thread has been revived! Belatedly, thanks for your response!

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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 7/30/2007 6:35:15 PM

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The recipiant has nothing to do with it, true sadism is deriving pleasure from causing another pain, period.
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RE: Am I a sadist if... - 7/30/2007 8:38:41 PM

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Not too long ago I was exploring this same question in my mind.

I myself only engage and allow myself to take pleasure in sadistic activities that are with a consenting masochist.   Yes, It turns me on!

However, I will not engage and allow myself to take pleasure with those that are unconsenting non-masochistic.   I will put sadism totally out of my mind.

It's kinda like sex, if I'm hanging out with a woman, and there's no chance in hell that sex will enter the picture, I will not think of her sexually.

If I'm with a nympho painslut who I click with and she clicks with me.. well, I'm one wicked sadistic dude.   I'm an ethical sadist of sorts.

I was just telling somebody recently about something I called Sadistic Attraction, it works similar to how sexual attraction works for me.   If I'm not attracted to somebody in the way, it just is not happening for me.

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