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webeeknky -> forced feminization.... (2/22/2005 6:17:09 PM)
Hello to A/all....I guess I will start by saying we are from oklahoma and new to the concept of expressing certain interests we share..but we are very interested in talking with other couples who have their man by his apron-strings...I would be very interested in speaking with other Dommes about behavior modifiers and swap a few ideas....as I feel my pet deserves diversity in training. For example...a knowledgeable Mistress would know what to do if her pet didnt obey instructions as to the frequency of the femme dressing,and wardrobes that are laid out go untouched.I have a good mind to spank some fanny,but maybe there is a better idea out there...what's your opinion? Thanks. Hugz n spankies! Neesa-jo (and willow,too, thoe pet is currently in the doghouse)[:D]

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/22/2005 6:20:57 PM)
Gosh...this is the thread ive certainly been waiting for! All ears! Great topic

webeeknky -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/22/2005 6:33:34 PM)
Hello sissyslave...you have no ideas for me as to punishing my pet? [sm=kiss.gif]

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/22/2005 6:40:52 PM)
Im not a dominant but I can tell you what shut me up in a hurry and reminded me of my place..... A few things. Made to wear heels at while at home for a week straight. more time/tightness than usual in the corset * wearing really heavy girdles under my clothes at work CBT --Not the fun kind More housework Things like that. I didnt mention flogging because to me that is an entirely different thing. I always feel like I let my dominant down when it comes to that....and usually I take the punishment with some (emotional) tears. The pain (for me) isn't what makes me cry. Sometimes the best punishment truly is one that works on your psyche. I hated letting my dominant down...I had a real close attatchment to her in so many ways. Thats how I see it.

webeeknky -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/22/2005 6:49:09 PM)
Are you still in contact with her? And spanks a bunch for the suggestions...willow was made to read them and agrees with you...very good,sissy. Spankies! Neesa-jo n pink-butted willow

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/22/2005 6:52:47 PM)
We are still friends and I see her in the Vanilla world from time to time...but she has "gone pro" so to speak so i understand why she has little or no time for me. I still have a lot of respect for her and wish her the best. Hope you get to hear some good responses. There are some truly serious lifestylers around here in these threads that will put my advice to shame i'm sure. Good luck with your sissy!!! [:)][:)][:)][:)][:)]

webeeknky -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/22/2005 6:57:02 PM)
It sounds as though you came away from the experience with a deep respect for your Domme...very good,indeed.Where are you from?

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/22/2005 7:16:50 PM)
Im from Western, Massachusetts Pioneer Valley. Yes..I respect her a lot...she taught me a lot and was patient with me even though I used to be a pain sometimes. A lot of people look down on Pro dommes.....but she is the same person she was when she wasn't one. She just wanted to take it to another level.

webeeknky -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/22/2005 7:21:12 PM)
Everyone has a point in their kinks when they want to take it to a higher level...nothing wrong with that..it's nice to hear a sub come away with the same devotion as when they were in service. You are a good sissy and I wish you much luck in your search for a new Domme. Spanks! Neesa-joand the now humble willow

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/22/2005 7:29:13 PM)
quote: You are a good sissy and I wish you much luck in your search for a new Domme. Thanks a lot. I could use all the luck I can get! I'm searching alright! Keep that sissy in line.... and in panties and skirts where he belongs! [;)][;)][;)][;)]

craftywulf -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/25/2005 12:28:32 AM)
Well you could always have him castrated and feed him femail hormones or is that asking to much gggggggggggg

SweetDommes -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/25/2005 9:18:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: webeeknky Hello to A/all....I guess I will start by saying we are from oklahoma and new to the concept of expressing certain interests we share..but we are very interested in talking with other couples who have their man by his apron-strings...I would be very interested in speaking with other Dommes about behavior modifiers and swap a few ideas....as I feel my pet deserves diversity in training. For example...a knowledgeable Mistress would know what to do if her pet didnt obey instructions as to the frequency of the femme dressing,and wardrobes that are laid out go untouched.I have a good mind to spank some fanny,but maybe there is a better idea out there...what's your opinion? Thanks. Hugz n spankies! Neesa-jo (and willow,too, thoe pet is currently in the doghouse)[:D] Punishments should be tailored to what the sub did wrong, and to the sub him/herself. With one of our boys, one thing would work, with another, something else would. With one of them, a simple stern look would just wilt him like nothing else; with another, it took a lot of creativity (depending on what it was that he had done). For your situation, some of sissy's suggestions are good, but make sure that it is punishment ... I mean, if your sub enjoys it, it isn't much of a punishment.

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/25/2005 3:18:18 PM)
quote: Well you could always have him castrated and feed him femail hormones or is that asking to much Ummmmm.... I would say that would be a very sick thing to do to your husband/slave...but what do I know? Think about the implications.

webeeknky -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/25/2005 3:40:47 PM)
T quote: ORIGINAL: Sissyslave71 quote: Well you could always have him castrated and feed him femail hormones or is that asking to much Ummmmm.... I would say that would be a very sick thing to do to your husband/slave...but what do I know? Think about the implications. Thanks for stickin up for the sweet,loving cd's in the world,sissyslave!!

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/25/2005 3:58:49 PM)
Just speaking my mind like everyone else. I just wish people in the scene would stop dogging us so much.

webeeknky -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/27/2005 4:06:50 PM)
I dont pay much attention to what others think...I know subby/hubby and I are very good people,and we have a few kinks..it makes us happy and doesnt hurt anyone.So, why would folks wanna dis that? Sadly, some folks who dont understand...act childish,mean or rude because they fear what they do not understand. Just keep your chin up,(unless in service,dear),and dont worry what mean folks think...havent you heard??MEAN PEOPLE SUCK!!! lol...so do some good folks...ok...moot point...youknow what I'm sayin.... Be well,sissy. Spanks! Neesa-jo

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/27/2005 4:09:12 PM)
Thank you Neesa Jo. I am so happy you two are doing so well. Stay in touch. Check out my thread in "Ask a submissive"..I think you will like it.

articulatesub -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/28/2005 2:30:36 PM)
Do you think it might be better for you two to just open a chatroom? It seems that the only posts here, save one, are a discussion between the two of you.

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced feminization.... (2/28/2005 2:39:45 PM)
No...this is a PUBLIC forum. If you don't like it...don't read it. Tough luck for you. By the way......this thread was wayyyyyyyyy down the bottom of "ask a Mistress" why did YOU bring it all the way back up to the top? Never mind..I know why. To stir up S**T.

MissCrystalBlade -> RE: forced feminization.... (4/18/2005 1:21:52 AM)
Exactly, punishments aren't supposed to be something the sub would enjoy. I am lucky with my sissy baby in that he doesnt like pain so I can still use traditional OTK with him as punishment. I know other sissies that don't like being ignored....Corner time works wonders with them. You have to adapt punishments to the individual sissy so that they dont enjoy it. I would like to point out that, in my experiences, sissies take punishment a little more personally than other subs so you may want to pay a little more attention to talking to them after a punishment. They should know that the punishment was to correct behavior not to exercise sadistic desires, most sissies respond better to that type of reassurance that they are still your sweet little sissy.

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