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MistressDolly -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/3/2007 2:49:11 PM)

[:)]




SweetDommes -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/3/2007 2:49:52 PM)

And I believe that explination is what pixel was looking for when he asked you.




MistressDolly -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/3/2007 2:51:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave


Is there an echo in here?   


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according to your sarcastic comment, there is. 




MistressDolly -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/3/2007 2:52:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

And I believe that explination is what pixel was looking for when he asked you.


lol you sound like a school teacher "correcting" a pupil.




MzMia -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/4/2007 4:29:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

Is there an echo in here?   


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according to your sarcastic comment, there is. 


**Heads up, if you tend to read a lot of people's opinions, you will see many beating
dead horses to death and also trying to beat others over the head, to make sure they "get"
their points.  LOL  We can agree to disagree and TRY to be nice! [:D]
I tend to chuckle over submissives that enjoy screaming about what they like and need,
hey its collarme ladies!  Listen to these submissives and heed what they say or else! [:D]
**2007? Bring it on!**




MistressDolly -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/4/2007 2:36:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

quote:

ORIGINAL: pixelslave

Is there an echo in here?   


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according to your sarcastic comment, there is. 


**Heads up, if you tend to read a lot of people's opinions, you will see many beating
dead horses to death and also trying to beat others over the head, to make sure they "get"
their points.  LOL 

 
lol, yes, it is funny - - in a comical and pathetic kind of way. :)
 
 
quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

 
I tend to chuckle over submissives that enjoy screaming about what they like and need,
hey its collarme ladies!  Listen to these submissives and heed what they say or else! [:D]
**2007? Bring it on!**


a class in social skills 101 would do em' good. lol [;)]




MistressDolly -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/4/2007 2:41:50 PM)

Btw, I like the way you think too.  You've got a lot of class and tact.  :)




pixelslave -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/5/2007 1:20:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig
Pixel, I've actually met one very educated man in person, who called himself a slave and the biggest reason we did not get together was that I my terms for his slavery included him being a lover, and he was not in the least bit interested in sex beyond watching me do it with someone else, and cleaning up.

I've also had numerous emails from men who tell me that the way to get them to submit is to enforce chastity...   Like you, I don't see what is in it for them either, and frankly those types are not compatible with me, but wankers or not, they are around and they are seeking chastity.    M



Ms M,
Thank you for the polite explanation of where MistressDolly is apparently coming from...  Clearly a case of "Your Kink is Not My Kink!" and to each their own! [8|] 
 
Cuckolding is something I just don't "get".  Cleaning up after myself with a woman, one whom I care deeply about, can be a very intimate act of submission which can really push my buttons!  But cleaning up after another man sounds like a very risky proposition to me, both for the health of myself and the woman I'd be serving who for whatever reason, acted as the other man's receptacle. [:-] 
 
Short term chastity can be very effectively used to build the desire that lies deep within me; especially when combined with the right kind of teasing. [:D]   But if it were used for the long term, I'm fairly certain I would find it to be quite depressing.  I don't think it would be a mentally healthy experience for me. [&o]  If in that kind of emotional state, I'm doubtful I'd be of much use to a Mistress. 
 
 - pixel




GuidingLite -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/5/2007 12:14:37 PM)

I can personally say from my very own past experience that using chastiy is a good way to train and or discipline and depending on the infraction long term chastiy works good to and even yet subs dont ahve a right to dictate what means i can use to train or discilpline unless of course they are a Bottom at which case they get dismissed pronto.  Over time that comes out when the whinning and dicatations start to seep out.  A subs motto is what can i do to please you?  Bottoms motto is Can you do me like this?  pweety pleeze.




MzMia -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/5/2007 2:38:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

Btw, I like the way you think too.  You've got a lot of class and tact.  :)


Thank you MistressDolly!
I am hoping that some of us can form an online friendship of like minded women/men.

Its nice to get various opinions here and support, in a friendly manner.[:D]




pixelslave -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/5/2007 3:03:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GuidingLite

I can personally say from my very own past experience that using chastiy is a good way to train and or discipline and depending on the infraction long term chastiy works good to and even yet subs dont ahve a right to dictate what means i can use to train or discilpline unless of course they are a Bottom at which case they get dismissed pronto.  Over time that comes out when the whinning and dicatations start to seep out.  A subs motto is what can i do to please you?  Bottoms motto is Can you do me like this?  pweety pleeze.


Perhaps in your world subs don't have any rights, but in others they do!
 
We are real people with limits, feelings, hopes, desires & needs of our own.  Just because we wish to have our limits respected and not to have things done to us which might damage our mental health doesn't make us bottoms or disrespectful to those we trust and give our submission to.  Instead, it shows that we have respect for both ourselves and the women we wish to serve.  To my way of thinking, there's no reason we shouldn't expect that the respect we show the women we serve would not be returned to us as part of the power exchange we share.  If we allow our physical or mental health to be damaged, of what use would we be to you?  Would we be acting responsibly to ourselves or to you?  I personally think the answer is that we would not!   For those who have searched for some time to find "their special one", they understand we're not just a commodity to do anything you can dream of just as you please. [&:]
 
 - pixel 




GuidingLite -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/5/2007 3:17:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pixelslave

quote:

ORIGINAL: GuidingLite

I can personally say from my very own past experience that using chastiy is a good way to train and or discipline and depending on the infraction long term chastiy works good to and even yet subs dont ahve a right to dictate what means i can use to train or discilpline unless of course they are a Bottom at which case they get dismissed pronto.  Over time that comes out when the whinning and dicatations start to seep out.  A subs motto is what can i do to please you?  Bottoms motto is Can you do me like this?  pweety pleeze.


Perhaps in your world subs don't have any rights, but in others they do!
 
We are real people with limits, feelings, hopes, desires & needs of our own.  Just because we wish to have our limits respected and not to have things done to us which might damage our mental health doesn't make us bottoms or disrespectful to those we trust and give our submission to.  Instead, it shows that we have respect for both ourselves and the women we wish to serve.  To my way of thinking, there's no reason we shouldn't expect that the respect we show the women we serve would not be returned to us as part of the power exchange we share.  If we allow our physical or mental health to be damaged, of what use would we be to you?  Would we be acting responsibly to ourselves or to you?  I personally think the answer is that we would not!   For those who have searched for some time to find "their special one", they understand we're not just a commodity to do anything you can dream of just as you please. [&:]
 
 - pixel 


who the hell said anything about damaging a sub? Who the hell said anything about not DISRESPECTing a sub? WHo said anything about subs not being real people?  What are you threatened by?  Just becuz a sub says  what can I do for you? doesnt mean it has to be anything like the way you describe above.  you think just because a sub wants to please his mistress that she will automattically disrepect him?  damage him? not respect his limits?  why are you even bringing all these negative things up that dont apply to subs and their mistresses? 

calm down.  are you as tense and strained as your avatar photograph?




GuidingLite -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/5/2007 3:22:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave


Perhaps in your world subs don't have any rights, but in others they do!
 


Puhlez, give me a break  blah blah blah DONT put words in my mouth.  Perhaps NOTHING.  Who said they don't get respect.  your making an assumption about rights or no rights.  and that's your problem.   who said anything about damaging and disrespect?  freakizoid




pixelslave -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/5/2007 7:18:01 PM)

Ms GuidingLight,
It would appear that I don't need to put any words in your mouth.  Your posts and their tone speak quite well for themselves. 
 
 - pixel




GuidingLite -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/6/2007 7:05:04 AM)

So  should all mistresses be 4warned that in youre world it is youre view that if the mistess tells you how SHE will train and discipline she is essentially being disrespectful, and damaging?  THose are strong words you choose and in my experience are never part of the equation.  maybe your to sensitive and assume the worst?
 




subailz -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/6/2007 3:43:15 PM)

being a subbie im probably not meant to type but i just wanted to sya i hope you all get hwat your require for the year ahead god bless yours

subailz




GirlyDevil -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/6/2007 5:12:27 PM)

I'm hoping that my sub, that I'm putting through training, and I can go further in our d/s relationship




MzMia -> RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? (1/6/2007 9:14:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: subailz

being a subbie im probably not meant to type but i just wanted to sya i hope you all get hwat your require for the year ahead god bless yours

subailz



Thank you for posting cupcake. [:D]




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