Sudden
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Joined: 12/24/2006 Status: offline
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Hello and a happy new year to each and everyone of you. I don't use chat forums very often though i've been into bdsm lifestyle for more than 7 years.Reason for this is that to my opinion the only thing you can do to learn about it is to try and actually do it.You can have all the knowledge of the world till you make your first real attempt, but most likely you will find yourself been taken by surprise with how things differ in real bdsm relationships. Anyway my intention is not to downgrade the importance of the online communities as you can always use them to learn from others' experiences and help you get started.I would just like to advise not to get stuck in theory and for the most don't let yourself beleave you know all about bdsm because that's when you'll stop learning and nothing could be worse than that. During my expérimentations i have been able to try many things and managed to learn a lot about myself as well for others.Still learning though with each passing day. I wish you all a happy new year.:)
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