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my Mistress - 1/2/2007 11:44:58 AM

onmykneesforu

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about 1 years ago i told my wife i was a submissive which she handled well...She is learning rather quickly to top me. She has collared me and uses me when ever she feels the urge.. She resently peirced my nipples and is thinking of branding me...I worship her to death... She has feminized me to a point by having me shave my body she uses a strape on, on me and ive drank her urine....Now she is thinking of involving other people into our life.. Have i created a monster or is she just becoming herself as i am...Any feed back would be welcomed.

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RE: my Mistress - 1/2/2007 11:54:50 AM

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It sounds as though the two of you need to talk about limits, both yours and hers. Many couples draw up a contract of what is expected of each other and what their limits are which they review on a regular basis; the frequency is usually spelled out in the contract. In that manner what is acceptable to both is negotiated as things change for each of them. If you're not open to involving others in your relationship and your play, then you need to let your wife/Mistress know.

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RE: my Mistress - 1/2/2007 12:00:34 PM

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The profile that you created today states "Im an honest man looking for a real relationship where i am owned by a dominate female". It sounds as if you already have that, unless this post is just a masturbatory fantasy. What's up?

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RE: my Mistress - 1/2/2007 12:00:39 PM

onmykneesforu

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thanks for taking the time you a re right .....

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RE: my Mistress - 1/2/2007 1:56:15 PM

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My husband did the same back in 1988. He gave himself and his assets for the full 100% wish means I decide about everything. Which means our lives are fairly 'normal', but I am the center of his world. On the other hand I have a responsability and don't want to damage my property: it's to usefull to me. So, the weardest thing I've done is that I lent him out for a week to a girlfried when She was sick, so that he could do the cleaning, the shopping... No sex, no games, nothing. He was just Her servant, a gift to my dear friend.

But if your story is true, which I doubt, your Mistress has my full support and respect: She's your owner and can do whatever She wants. You shouldn't ask questions about that. It's not your decision or worry. You should just wonder how to serve your Mistress better.

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RE: my Mistress - 1/3/2007 12:41:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: blmtrsne

..... You shouldn't ask questions about that. It's not your decision or worry. You should just wonder how to serve your Mistress better.

I agree with you Ma'am. But doesn't the slave/sub has the right to have limits? Also, isn't it possible for both parties to change these limits though the relationship? I mean.... it is true what you said about not wondering, but that is only when the owner is aware of the limits of the slave/sub.

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RE: my Mistress - 1/3/2007 4:42:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: onmykneesforu

Now she is thinking of involving other people into our life.. Have i created a monster or is she just becoming herself as i am...Any feed back would be welcomed.

hmmm... have your created a monster ? no ... I think you created a profile and message board post to solicite other couples . Good luck in your explorations .

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RE: my Mistress - 1/3/2007 10:11:59 PM

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RE: my Mistress - 1/3/2007 10:18:35 PM

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Profile not found.....

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RE: my Mistress - 1/4/2007 9:37:51 PM

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It's still there benji, ya just have to actually type in the name, and still says looking for a real relationship, etc.....wonder what's going on..

Edited to add, and he's looking for a "dominate female"

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