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tiffanyishot -> hi all (1/2/2007 1:19:06 PM)
I would love to meet anybody who wants to help me become more fem. I am willing to do anything so let me know if your interested.

mnottertail -> RE: hi all (1/2/2007 1:25:36 PM)
Anything? Anything? How about throwing on a suit and tie? Desire and determination have nothing in common with shallowness and salaciousness. Take it for what it is worth. Ron

TigressOfDs -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 4:35:37 AM)
tiffany; I'm not interested in you as a sub/slave for personal use ONE because I am NOT looking for anyone at the moment, and TWO I have children older than you ... but I do wish you luck. Some motherly adivse ... be careful what you wish for, especially when posting it on an international message board. Although most are gentle, kind people there are a LOT of preditors . Especially those who will demand all your money to teach you how to be "fem". Look around you ... pick a women you admire , study her (no stalking allowed) then try to immulate her look, walk and mannerisims ... READ , there is a lot of GOOD information on the net about cross dressing or becoming a TS, all of which is at your fingertips without the hassle. Take Care. Ms.Kat Listen carefully to what is said,take what you need,then blow the rest away with a breath of kindness. But always watch what they do, for in action there is always a clue. kd2003

LeatherBentOne -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 4:59:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Anything? Anything? How about throwing on a suit and tie? Desire and determination have nothing in common with shallowness and salaciousness. Take it for what it is worth. Ron How intolerant and ignorant is that? Shallowness and salaciousness? Who made you judge, jury and executioner all in the same breath? The world is a diverse place, and in my opinion, tolerance is not the only tool that's lacking in your response. Try to educate yourself to differences and not prejudge a person when you don't even know what makes them tick and/or know them as a person. You might just be cheating yourself from the positive experience of getting to know what could be an otherwise be a wonderful person. Talk about being shallow . . . LBO

mnottertail -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 5:47:21 AM)
LOL, You certainly missed the point. Thank you for your insight. Ron

LeatherBentOne -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 5:53:47 AM)
And the point is? Please educate me here.

mnottertail -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 7:30:27 AM)
Are you willing to do anything to be enlightened? Let's start there. Ron

SweetDommes -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 11:34:11 AM)
Personally, the screen name alone screams out "troll looking for some action". As to being willing to do "anything" ... that's just foolhardy and unwise - it also speaks of either extreme desparation (not attractive) or a complete lack of imagination (also not attractive). To the OP - good advice has already been given - try to learn from it.

LeatherBentOne -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 3:20:38 PM)
I did ask, didn't I?

gooddogbenji -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 3:25:38 PM)
I think Ron's point, if I may be so bold as to try to explain HIM's post, is that in order to become more fem, it is not necessary to be whipped while trying to walk in heels, nor to be queened and called a little girl, nor be made to wear panties, but to learn to look your best in a suit and tie, take care of yourself, spend time on grooming, etc.... A woman is a woman no matter what she wears. In the same galaxy, Ron? Yours, benji

reverendtorres -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 4:15:03 PM)
benji stole my reply, hahaha. Ron is saying that looking fem has nothing to do with BEING fem, and that if this guy gets really good at exhibiting what most people think of as feminine behavior, he'll be able to pull it off dressed like a man. The clothing itself has nothing to do with the behavior.

LeatherBentOne -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 4:16:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji I think Ron's point, if I may be so bold as to try to explain HIM's post, is that in order to become more fem, it is not necessary to be whipped while trying to walk in heels, nor to be queened and called a little girl, nor be made to wear panties, but to learn to look your best in a suit and tie, take care of yourself, spend time on grooming, etc.... A woman is a woman no matter what she wears. In the same galaxy, Ron? Yours, benji Could very well be the case. My apologies if that's what was meant. LBO

mnottertail -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 6:06:40 PM)
It was......... lust and frilly panties, do not a woman make. It just makes them more desireable, yanno. Let's kiss and make up. OK, LeatherBentOne? Ron(ne) (an honour of great distinction)

DigitBox -> RE: hi all (1/3/2007 6:25:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tiffanyishot I would love to meet anybody who wants to help me become more fem. I am willing to do anything so let me know if your interested. Why not seek out a trans support group where non-op/shemales are welcome and go from there? The sisterhood tends to help it's own and you can get a lot of good help that way. That and honestly you can learn a lot from just watching what other women do in terms of appearance, demeanor, and habits. If something works for you then you integrate it into your own personal state of being.

LeatherBentOne -> RE: hi all (1/5/2007 6:38:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail It was......... lust and frilly panties, do not a woman make. It just makes them more desireable, yanno. Let's kiss and make up. OK, LeatherBentOne? Ron(ne) (an honour of great distinction) Muah

LaraVictore -> RE: hi all (1/5/2007 7:47:22 AM)
The more you do "fem", the more you will feel "fem". Habits make us. Doing "anything" for "anything" is nothing, if you are not doing the right thing, as you already know. Making peace and accepting what is not okay (yet) with you, will attract your guide or friend. And certainly, your post will help too. Collar is filled with folks who knows their strokes and mean it, even the one moved by your anything pledge. The good one always find the back door ( meaning your private box). In the meantime, you might just irritate the rest of us, by your lack of ulterior motives...façade? Swallow desires are often used by the Universe (of the better self) to lead us to meaningful experiences. Personally, I find all the vibrations in your profile and post quite admirable: not everybody has the talent to simplify things the way you do. Now, I am so against My own blah, I got to give a huge session tonight. But you are more than okay. LV P.S. I don't see it this way but I can't help saying that: if you are just looking for a good lay, well...ignore the above.

deeddlit -> RE: hi all (1/7/2007 3:27:02 PM)
I am very new to the scene (BDSM) and even more so to this website...I have yet to create a good "getting to know me and my wants/desires" profile. Given my newness to all of this I am willing to take into account I may not know much about a lot of this stuff but it does seem to me that Tiffanyishot just wants some common decency replies in an area where she feels totally inexperienced and nieve...yeah yeah, I can't spell...get over it!! Tiffanyishot...I would say that any amount of research you do on the subject will help. There are going to be ideas that you agree with and others you do not...so you adopt the ones you do and leave the others behind. I also agree with the idea that the more you do it, the more you will feel it. I tend to be one of those folks that jumps into things with both feet and may or may not ask questions later. When I allow questions before hand I have a tendancy to second, third and 12th guess myself to death. At the risk of sounding like a silly Nike add...Just do it!! You will start to find out for yourself what fits for YOU and what does not. Take care and good luck to you!! MistressGaia

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: hi all (1/7/2007 3:36:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Anything? Anything? How about throwing on a suit and tie? Desire and determination have nothing in common with shallowness and salaciousness. Take it for what it is worth. Ron Hahaha, perfect! How about using more words to explain what's on your speedy brain sometimes for the rest of us blondes, lol?. M

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