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RE: CALLING A MASOCHISTS - 1/3/2007 7:05:46 PM

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don't let yourself get idle, do something to keep the mind occupied...learn a new hobby or something....i currently listen to music, or make toys :)

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RE: CALLING A MASOCHISTS - 1/3/2007 7:29:35 PM

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Chocolate is good but ginger root is better....grins. If you ever get to Toronto....look me up.

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RE: CALLING A MASOCHISTS - 1/3/2007 8:21:07 PM

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There are lots of ways to get pain without a Top... clamps are great for this, needles, electrical toys, pain bondage, inflatable or oversized toys, hot ointments, suction toys... take it from a male sub/masochist- when there's a will, a bit of free time, and a nearby hardware (or even grocery) store, there's a way

...dave

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RE: CALLING A MASOCHISTS - 1/4/2007 2:55:47 AM

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Seems to me being alone is part of the way it goes. After all, when we were originally imprinted into equating pain with pleasure, converting abuse into love, we were not in control - those who 'loved' us taught us how it goes. How can one recapture the quality of the 'imprinting', the quality of a trusting child in the hands of an adult who both uses and nurtures, loves and abuses us simultaneously - at a time when we had no criteria to know otherwise - this was the world, we knew nothing about normality or deviation - when our caretaker took pleasure in spanking us, we could only wonder at the sudden strength, at how the hand that fed us now slaps us, then fondles us, then leads us to kindergarden, then pinches, then caresses, then feeds - all in the same person. This was the world. This was where we learned not only how to love and be loved, but how to just be, who we are...
So, it gets lonely sometimes. Childhood is many years away. And the association with food is there too - the same person who gave us sweetness and love was the one who used our body for their pleasure. We long to recreate the original passion, to be used by a loving lover, to gently abuse a trusting lover - to find the place where there is no victim or victimizer, just a very special love bound up with that first imprinting, and within us, the internalized object of our primal attachment is what we truly are. So when time passes and we cannot recreate the glowing past with its thrills and fears, it pleasures and peaks - we settle for a bit of sticky sweetness, and remember that there is more to us than our passions, and yet, it's there. Its' certainly there.
My sympathies. May you one day find that special someone who will recreate the original passion with you, and liberate you to live out the other dimensions of your life.

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Our Passions are the Basement. It's dark and there are potato sacks. But the edifice of our personality is built on it. So be gentle to your basement. Bring some light. Make some French fries.

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RE: CALLING A MASOCHISTS - 1/4/2007 3:05:35 AM

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thanks guys, all under advisement lol they should make slapping machines like fucking machines. I could just kneel and put my face in harms way and voila ache nicely sated

*grins* i've thought about modifying parts of car wash machinery to make RoboDom. i think it would sell nicely.

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