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SirKenin -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 12:06:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling This sounds very similar too some thing from a few months ago the OP was told she was ugly in an email- started a thread about it / she got alot of attention haha. I never even thought of that. What a remarkably good strategy. Come on here and whine and bitch about an HNG email (when in reality they are bragging "look what I got"), or that they were criticized for being fat and ugly, and true to form everybody swoons and butters each other up instead of facing reality. That is funny. What an interesting observation.

mgdartist -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 12:28:24 PM)
lol, damn dude. i didnt interpret her post in precisely your acidic context. but now that i have....hmm, who am I to argue?' ouch. MGD

LadyLupineNYC -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 1:43:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mgdartist lol, damn dude. i didnt interpret her post in precisely your acidic context. but now that i have....hmm, who am I to argue?' ouch. MGD Well well...how very interesting that others would try and guess at my motives when I already stated them on one of the later posts. When I get such an email (very much in the minority at maybe 4-6 since I have joined), I do as many others do, I hit deleat. However, as a born lover of information and student of human behavior models-I really did just want to get an idea of why. I really don't need the 'attention', and yes, I realize now how that seems rather a self-serving thing to say. But what I really was looking for was a dialog on why individuals who self-idenitfy as submissives/slaves would react so stringly, hatfuly, and randomly...maybe I am too new to the groups here to realize that I was going to get far less of what I was hoiping for- discussion, and more of 'oh she just needs to have her ego stroked' musings....maybe what I really wanted was exactly what I said I wanted- insight...

MistressDolly -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 2:40:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetSurrender06 Some people just seem to find personal gratification in belittling others. Maybe it makes them feel better...maybe they hate women....more than likely, they just hate themselves and are very unhappy, small-minded people, who are envious of anyone who appears to be happy with themselves. Maybe they do not have the courage to put themselves out there. Maybe they lash out in such a childish manner because they lack the ability to express their negativity and inadequecies in a more positive way...then there is the more simple explanation....they are a$$holes, plain and simple. Some people would rather get noticed with negative attention than no attention at all. Whatever their motivation...they are truly sad individuals and do not warrant Yours or anyone elses attention. What a healthy way to think. I like your style, Miss. Very refreshing. :)

swtnsparkling -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 3:10:00 PM)
quote: ..maybe what I really wanted was exactly what I said I wanted- insight... insight? insight to what? it is not really all that difficult to figure out- some asswipe emailed you a nasty letter- why? because the person is a putz and felt like it. they could very well be doing the same to others, so what..... delete the stupid thing and forget about it.

swtnsparkling -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 3:18:38 PM)
quote: SweetSurrender06 Some people just seem to find personal gratification in belittling others............ Whatever their motivation...they are truly sad individuals and do not warrant Yours or anyone elses attention. True- but the jerk or jerkette got the attention anyway

GuidingLite -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 4:29:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling quote: ..maybe what I really wanted was exactly what I said I wanted- insight... insight? insight to what? it is not really all that difficult to figure out- some asswipe emailed you a nasty letter- why? because the person is a putz and felt like it. they could very well be doing the same to others, so what..... delete the stupid thing and forget about it. No freaking shit. Your stating the obvious. Guess what buddy people need more elaborate reasons for human behavior then your Sherlock observation. Save your crappy "fly by the nite" advice for someone simple minded.

katzschen -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 4:36:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC I am an experianced Domme but I can still be thrown for a loop when I open my email to get something like this: "typical fat pig cant find love cuz shes so fat so she come on this site and says shes a dominant female....bottom line....so tired of wanna bes like u cunt" [:'(] Now...I have never spoken to this guy (or any of the others who have emailed me similar insults- my personal fave is that I am too 'old'...at 30 rolls eye) and I don't think of myself as some thin model- quality goddess...but nor do I see myself as some one who has warented such anger. Now I know I am not the only one who must get these sorts of emails...but I just have to ask: WTF? I just block the senders but I would love to hear what some of you (Dommes and subs) have to say...To put this all in some context, I am on myspace (kink and non-kink profiles), and some other vanillia sites and I have NEVER gotten such emails. I just have to get a better understanding of the psycology of this... LL Will you e-mail me on the other side? I wonder if perhaps this is the same jerk who messaged me... I've also gotten one guy who constantly sends me one- to two-word e-mails such as "pig", "fatass", "fat slob", etc. He must have no life. He's done it to me on three different profiles, and also to two of my friends (so far, that I know of). We've all reported and blocked him. What I don't get is why someone would want to waste their time searching out all the larger females on this site and message them. -rolls her eyes-

SirKenin -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 5:20:06 PM)
Umm. You do not have to search them out. Have you ever browsed through the pictures? There are a LOT of profiles of obese and/or ugly people and it does not take long to run across at least half a dozen of them. Half the time I log on the other side I see one that I find less than appealing. This person could very well be surfing through the profiles and emailing the ladies or gentlemen that s/he does not like and showering them with insults. They are obviously very bitter people.

katzschen -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 5:23:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirKenin Umm. You do not have to search them out. Have you ever browsed through the pictures? There are a LOT of profiles of obese and/or ugly people and it does not take long to run across at least half a dozen of them. Half the time I log on the other side I see one that I find less than appealing. This person could very well be surfing through the profiles and emailing the ladies or gentlemen that s/he does not like and showering them with insults. They are obviously very bitter people. Ugly to you may be attractive to another. It takes a lot less effort to click the "Hide Profile" button than it does to e-mail insults.

mgdartist -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 7:41:50 PM)
quote: swtnsparkling quote: ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC quote: ORIGINAL: mgdartist lol, damn dude. i didnt interpret her post in precisely your acidic context. but now that i have....hmm, who am I to argue?' ouch. MGD Well well...how very interesting that others would try and guess at my motives when I already stated them on one of the later posts. When I get such an email (very much in the minority at maybe 4-6 since I have joined), I do as many others do, I hit deleat. However, as a born lover of information and student of human behavior models-I really did just want to get an idea of why. I really don't need the 'attention', and yes, I realize now how that seems rather a self-serving thing to say. But what I really was looking for was a dialog on why individuals who self-idenitfy as submissives/slaves would react so stringly, hatfuly, and randomly...maybe I am too new to the groups here to realize that I was going to get far less of what I was hoiping for- discussion, and more of 'oh she just needs to have her ego stroked' musings....maybe what I really wanted was exactly what I said I wanted- insight... well, he was refering to swtnsparkling post from previous page, but yes opining about your op i suppose, however my actual opinion would be previous to her post, and I do think we have some teens up to no good on the site, and as I said between them and the lying married men,,,so many ladies end up pissed off and pooped on, which has the trickle down effect on us "innocent doms" I dont interfere with any discussion you may wish to have, but unless its with the cm mods and admins, nothing will change. Were I as imcensed as you perhaps are, I'd report each and every such vile message before I hit delete. Ive heard stories of the CM admin taking swift action, and others said they didn't, and it likely depends on the circumstances, content, and how theyre approached. bottom line, im on your side. trust me.

Sinergy -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 7:54:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GuidingLite quote: ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling quote: ..maybe what I really wanted was exactly what I said I wanted- insight... insight? insight to what? it is not really all that difficult to figure out- some asswipe emailed you a nasty letter- why? because the person is a putz and felt like it. they could very well be doing the same to others, so what..... delete the stupid thing and forget about it. No freaking shit. Your stating the obvious. Guess what buddy people need more elaborate reasons for human behavior then your Sherlock observation. Save your crappy "fly by the nite" advice for someone simple minded. Well said, GuidingLite. Being interested in human behavior, especially abnormal or antisocial, is not necessarily a whining request for attention. Perhaps it is an academic or personal curiousity and an attempt to find concurrence among other people's experiences. Just me, etc. Sinergy

MsKenzi -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 8:00:13 PM)
I have one in My external email inbox...I'll have to copy and paste it... "And I thought your other pic was hideous. In your next one may I suggest you maybe wearing a bag over your entire face? The hat doesn't cover up enough. Not nearly enough. Especially love how you can type very pretty and then post a picture. You go (ugly) girl! xo" quote: ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC quote: ORIGINAL: MsKenzi Wow, it's nice to know that I'm NOT the only one receiving random hate mail! =) To be honest- that is one of the reasons why I authored this post...why sit there wondering alone when we can all laugh...I would LOVE to see some other similar nasty emails...

SirKenin -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 8:06:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: katzschen Ugly to you may be attractive to another. It takes a lot less effort to click the "Hide Profile" button than it does to e-mail insults. Oh absolutely. I 100% agree with you. One of the reasons why I keep My mouth shut and do not send them nasty emails (the other being I have a lot more class than that).

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/4/2007 8:07:25 PM)
I get random hatemail every now and again. Lots of times it sour grapes, the "Your boy is pathetic" type things. I just ignore them. The ones that comment on my looks, I tell them to stop wasting their time looking at my pictures and emailing me and get back to their search for the Goddess of their dreams. shrug When someone decides it mkaes them feel better to try and make someone else feel bad, I just nod and smile. Ok, if it makes you happy to think that you, as somoene whose opinion I really coudnt care less about since I dont know you from Adam... then you go on in that litle fantasy. DV

swtnsparkling -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/5/2007 7:20:33 AM)
what's your problem... Read all the posts. I am not the only one here who said pretty near the same thing to the opthis is online for Christ sake and anyone whose been online knows this crap happens all the time. Looking for insight? please Can I play now? huh huh I replied to a post much like many others did. In return there was a reply post directed at me .I do not see myself as someone who has warranted such anger. This person was rude and insulting towards me. I have never done anything to them. why would someone act this way?

GuidingLite -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (1/5/2007 12:19:47 PM)
no anger think about what I wrote and how you come across. you came across as belittling the ops predicament. havent you ever heard of using common sense or its not what you say its how you say it. dont belittle her for feeling the way she did. period and end of story

gumshoe -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (2/13/2009 8:35:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lorelei115 ~Fast Reply~ I think of it as a rite of passage. You're not SOMEBODY until you've managed to piss someone off enough to send you a unwarranted hate mail. [;)] Yep its happened to me and its easy to say "It ain't worth your time to bother" but a little harder to put into practice. Stuff like that can hurt, especially if you are a sensitive person. People tell you to "grow a thicker skin" but thats often easier said than done. It helps to remind yourself that for every asshole out there, there are many more warm, kind, and loving people. Yep. There's two kind of people in life; those who put you down and those you pick you up.

Serenelysmiles -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (2/13/2009 4:17:56 PM)
My very first email on CM was an insult about the veracity of my profile, and my lack, at the time of pictures. It, of course, infuriated me, especially since the pictures were in the approval process, and this person had no idea whom I was, nor what I was about. I responded, and the preson deleted the email unread. I've since learned that some of these people are just such completely unhappy, miserable jerks that they have try to create unhappiness in the lives of others because they obviously have nothing better to do, and try to play at being Doms, in my case, because they are woefully inadequate, and attempting to make up for some other insecurity by trying to Dom, or in Your case trying to top from the bottom. In either case, they just aren't worth Your time, or effort to get upset about. Don't let it get to You.

KurtKaboom -> RE: Random insults sent...WTF? (2/13/2009 4:58:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thetammyjo Why that would be something to wank off to I just can't grok but I do know such things exist. No. This would have been sent after mastirbation, when he felt guilty about having rubbed one out to the pics and interest list, and became angry. He probibly encountered one of those spurned first wives who read Elise Sutton, don't know the difference between dominant and pre-menstrual, and think actually having kinky sex is icky.

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