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LadyHugs -> RE: attending a play party alone (1/3/2007 7:58:27 PM)
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Dear bbwdommelilith, Ladies and Gentlemen;
I always go to play parties alone. I've never been pressured to play or perform. I also do not try to go in as an over powering dominatrix either. In going to parties, I am always mindful that I am the guest.
Some do know who I am and some do not. I treat all the same-- with respect.
I am of the old fashioned sort, to which being discrete was appreciated so, I wear attire which is street appreciated and nothing wild, like provocative clothing as to attract attention to myself. My toy bags remain in my trunk until I need them, when I am finding myself asked to do a scene. Otherwise, my toy bag will be subjected to being rifled through and or things stolen, in the way and a tripping hazard as everybody seems to carry similar gym bags for their toy bags. I do change into my dominatrix uniform/attire once inside the premise and I leave in street clothes. In cold weather, a coat is lovely as to cover up the attire you're wearing.
I would recommend checking in with the host/hostess for their rules.
Most will include scenes with sex and sex encouraged--some do not.
Some designate certain rooms for sex and scenes, some that is zero sex allowed. Some will restrict fire and or wax play, water sports.
It really is governed by common sense as it relates to the premise itself.
Most play parties that have 'bring food to the table' will have the list of what to bring assigned to you and or a list of things needed for the table. It isn't written in stone but, hosts/hostesses who know some folks are financially strapped are asked to bring the least expensive items.
I highly recommend making contact with the hostess/host and let them be your guide.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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