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my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/3/2007 8:56:06 PM   
masterfixer


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Status: offline 		i just wonder how she feels when in company of a sub of hers, but she is a sub to me. I am dom with all her subs. my queen submits to me but my mistress subs to my queen.
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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/3/2007 9:07:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ummm...I'm not sure I see the question here, other than you're wondering how she feels. If that's the question the answer is: ask her.

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/3/2007 9:28:29 PM   
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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/4/2007 6:55:43 AM   
LordVelvet


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Status: offline 		She probably feels happy that she is a Switch and has found people to be with. Just My thoughts

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/4/2007 7:31:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		If your mistress is sub to you, doesn't that make her your sub or bottom, but not your mistress?

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/4/2007 9:10:51 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		I think you are saying that you are in a relationship with two different women. Both switches. Woman A is submissive to you but dominant to Woman B. Woman B is dominant to you and submissive to Woman A.

How would A feel? She would feel submissive when with you and dominant when with B. B would feel submissive with A and dominant with you.

If you are having a three some  then the feelings might flow back and forth during the scene or they may be static, depends on the people. So A could only be feeling dominant during play but B could be more flexible and have her feelings change. Ask A and B and then you'll know how they feel. If you only pair and don't all play together, then it's easier to predict how you'll feel. You will feel submissive when playing with the one who dominates you and you will feel dominant when playing with the one you dominate.

As to how you feel when you're all out to dinner? Hungry and in agreement on where to go one hopes.

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/4/2007 1:35:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

If your mistress is sub to you, doesn't that make her your sub or bottom, but not your mistress?


I *think* he means mistress as in,  bit on the side... but it sounds like its more poly, from what i can understand.

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/9/2007 1:58:05 PM   
SCswitch


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Status: offline 		This actually makes sense to me.  If I am understanding what you are saying, your sub is a Domme/switch.  I am a Domme/switch.  You say you Dom her friend subs.  Well, that makes it poly.  Now going forward from poly, you are wondering how your sub who is a Domme feels around friends she has that are your subs. 
I understand because I have a lot of sub friends that are female that belong to other Masters.  Right now, one of them is going through a difficult time as I am, and I cannot talk to her.  It is killing me because it is my best friend.
It just depends on how comfortable she is allowing you to be there Doms.  It takes someone who is not jealous to do it. I am too jealous to play that type role.

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/9/2007 2:01:29 PM   
SCswitch


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Status: offline 		I got that backwards.  Then she is in the poly relationship.  You are wondering how she feels with her subs compared to you. 
I would not know the answer to that.  That is the difficult side of poly.
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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/10/2007 7:09:10 PM   
deeddlit


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I'll come back later after my brain unscrambles.

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/10/2007 7:39:26 PM   
SCswitch


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Status: offline 		Me tool  I really don't have a clue what he is trying to say.  My queen submits to me.   I under stand that part, but the rest of it, I just don't get it.

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/10/2007 7:51:32 PM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		okay, so looks to me as though we have a dominant man (m) who is involved with two women, (a) and (b). (a) is submissive to (m) but dominant to (b). (b) is submissive to (a) but dominant to (m). (m) is submissive to (b) but dominant to (a).

convoluted but understandable. maybe you should ask her?

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/10/2007 9:55:44 PM   
deeddlit


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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/15/2007 7:26:55 AM   
michaels4evr


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Status: offline 		just sounds like a hierarchy to me..with queen in the middle..

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/15/2007 8:36:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: deeddlit

I need a flow chart!  



Damn! this is hysterical!

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/16/2007 7:12:17 AM   
Lynae78


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Status: offline 		Personally I liked the Who's on 1st. That was more or less of what I was thinking. 

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/16/2007 6:57:00 PM   
goodpet


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Status: offline 		This reminds me of the freshman logic course we had to take. If all A are B and all C are A then are all Subs Doms to the middle man?

I think he was asking how it feels to play both sides of the game at the same time. serious question but i'm with the reply above, Ask her.

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/16/2007 7:00:24 PM   
kittensmailbox


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ORIGINAL: masterfixer

i just wonder how she feels when in company of a sub of hers, but she is a sub to me. I am dom with all her subs. my queen submits to me but my mistress subs to my queen.


Ok wait, YOUR Mstress is YOUR sub???  huh?

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/17/2007 6:36:27 PM   
dawntreader


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ORIGINAL: Lynae78

Personally I liked the Who's on 1st. That was more or less of what I was thinking. 


yea, it was a hard choice between the 2; both had me rolling!!

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RE: my mistress is a sub to me but dom to others - 1/18/2007 7:32:15 AM   
xBullx


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Status: offline 		Greetings,

OK, I seen this on the role by and had to come have a look see. To quote the cable guy, "Now that's damn funny, I don't care who you are. The flow cart comments a killer. All you guys need to finish this thread off is one of those way to deep and sarcastic posts from Ron.

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