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I hope things will look up for me - 2/24/2005 11:33:21 AM

kinkyallthetime

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...I hope things will start looking up for me in this site..It must be difficult to find someone that you want or need..I have only been here for about a week or so,,but I know it will take some time..Have talked to a few people, but thinking once they see my pic,,that is all she wrote...

..But I am who I am and I cant change that..But people will be suprised about me once they know me..Im my opinion, looks arent everything..Its whats inside and the attitude towards people..

Hope to hear from you soon..And I forgot about in my journal you cant put email in there, so thats why its still pending...I cant figure out how to take it out because its not saved or whatever..

So if youre interested, my email is [email protected]

..Hope to hear from you soon

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RE: I hope things will look up for me - 2/24/2005 2:20:13 PM

onceburned

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Its whats inside and the attitude towards people..

Yes. Those are things which are fundamental to any relationship. I am glad you found us and even happier that you have joined the ranks of us on the message board.

Finding the right person takes time. I don't think its any easier finding the right partner than it is for vanilla dating. So be patient and in the mean time join us here.

Oh, BTW.... if you want to join a Novice chat for people here, Lily is sponsoring one this Saturday. It will begin at 5 pm Eastern. The topic will be: " Getting into the Real Life Scene: How to find it, how to enjoy it, and how to avoid the pitfalls. "

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RE: I hope things will look up for me - 2/25/2005 12:08:02 AM

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Hello kinkyallthe time its good to see you and i am new to so dont feel all alone it could be worse we could have missed this place all togeather.I do look forward to seeing your pic and more of what you have to say and by all means dont get discuraged.I belong to another forum and it took a while for folkes to get to know me but now i have many new friends so thanks for your posts.

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RE: I hope things will look up for me - 2/25/2005 12:35:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: kinkyallthetime
...I hope things will start looking up for me in this site..It must be difficult to find someone that you want or need..I have only been here for about a week or so,,but I know it will take some time..Have talked to a few people, but thinking once they see my pic,,that is all she wrote...

Hey there Kinky,
You may want show more love and acceptance of yourself in your next post... Because if you come with head hanging down like this, expecting people won't like your looks, you may find some with predatory instincts wanting to eat you alive for not being perfect, and taking advantage of your vulnerability.
There are threads on the subject of exercise/diet/weight loss, maybe click on the search button, and look or hopefully proudsub can direct you to them, where you can get some supportive friends/ideas.

Of course what is inside is more important, but there are people who love whatever package you come in, so "Vive la difference". Welcome to CM... M

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RE: I hope things will look up for me - 2/25/2005 6:04:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: kinkyallthetime

...I hope things will start looking up for me in this site..It must be difficult to find someone that you want or need..I have only been here for about a week or so,,but I know it will take some time..Have talked to a few people, but thinking once they see my pic,,that is all she wrote.....But I am who I am and I cant change that..But people will be suprised about me once they know me..Im my opinion, looks arent everything..Its whats inside and the attitude towards people..

Hope to hear from you soon..And I forgot about in my journal you cant put email in there, so thats why its still pending...I cant figure out how to take it out because its not saved or whatever..

So if youre interested, my email is [email protected]

..Hope to hear from you soon

I don't think you should presume the worst, kinkyallthetime....Sure, looks matter to most people, but surely not ALL people. And who says you're unattractive anyway? Why presume the worst?

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RE: I hope things will look up for me - 2/25/2005 8:36:07 AM

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Hey there kinky:

You would be surprised what a little attention and self care can accomplish in helping to bolster your looks. A nice haircut, some colour thrown into your wardrobe - taking care when you dress, and you look and you FEEL a thousand times better. And when you feel better, your chances of finding what you seek go way up. Be proud of yourself!

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