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Sexyoungboy -> How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/4/2007 5:05:27 PM)

I have had a strapon used on me a few times, and love the felling of the other person being in control and felling like a little slut! Now i have i GF, how do i get her into anal play and strapon with out telling or asking her?? (i want her to want to do it, is it posably?)







AquaticSub -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/4/2007 5:11:47 PM)

Without asking or telling her?

Well you could go on a huge stint of carefully laid hints - leave your porn around the house, talk about great it feels to the prostate massaged and all that BS. Or you could suck it up and go "Honey, I'll really like it if you'd strap this to your waist and fuck with me with it." That's the one far more likely to get you a result.

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crdavis -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/4/2007 5:34:24 PM)

I would have to agree with AquaticSub
Contrary to popular belief, Not all woman are mind readers. 

Just My opinion....

Ms Carla



Sexyoungboy -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/4/2007 5:41:52 PM)

I Guess what i mean is, is there away to make her want to do it and get into it? Would a girl like it onces they try it??



AquaticSub -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/4/2007 6:04:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sexyoungboy

I Guess what i mean is, is there away to make her want to do it and get into it? Would a girl like it onces they try it??


Some women like being tied up and spanked. Some women like tying men up and spanking them. We are all different and you aren't going to know till you talk to her about it.



dirrtyboi -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/4/2007 6:13:32 PM)

It is awkward, but talking to her about is the only way it's going to go down. Does she seem into it at all? You will never find the answers to the questions you don't seek.

You were brave enough to post here, talk to her.. not these fine people.



caitlyn -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/4/2007 6:15:26 PM)

Threaten to do it to her, if she doesn't do it to you. [;)]



bandit25 -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/4/2007 6:32:46 PM)

Yeah, I'd just ask her.  If she gets squicked, you can always say you were just kidding :)



pixelslave -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/4/2007 10:05:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sexyoungboy

I have had a strapon used on me a few times, and love the felling of the other person being in control and felling like a little slut! Now i have i GF, how do i get her into anal play and strapon with out telling or asking her?? (i want her to want to do it, is it posably?)



My suggestion is to talk about what turns each other on.  That way the discussion isn't just about YOU, its about HER too!  You can compare mutual likes and dislikes, having a general discussion about what turns both of you on and you may learn a heck of a lot in the process. 
 
When it comes to strap-on play, I'd recommend that you start by talking about how you'd like to have some anal stimulation and how you know that it turns you on.  Ask her to start with fingers, plugs or probes of some kind so she won't be intimidated and can see how you respond; especially if she didn't mention wanting to play with your ass when the two of you discussed likes and dislikes in general terms.  You might also like to offer to reciprocate and see how she responds.  If she likes it herself, she'll perhaps be more open to eventually giving you what you ultimately desire from her.
 
Once you feel she's comfortable with anal stimulation and play, that would be the time to ask her if she'd like to try to use a strap-on dildo with you.  Tell her you'd like to know how it feels for her to do it to you, as you want to experience what its like for her when you're inside her; or something along those lines.  The bottom line is that I wouldn't recommend that you go straight to the strap-on dildo, but use baby steps instead to see how she responds and let her get comfortable with anal play over time.  You don't want to risk her having a knee jerk reaction that you're gay. (been there & had it happen)
 
 - pixel



DominantEngineer -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/4/2007 10:11:29 PM)

Although the aabove post is very good, this happened to a girl I was aquainted with:
Her boyfriend wanter to have anal sex with her. She said fine but I get to use strapon on you afterwards.

Ask her if she will let you penetrate her analy. She what she says.

Edit BF didn't want something stuck inside his bum.



DianeB269 -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/5/2007 4:38:59 AM)

Join my group and show her all my strapon pics.

Diane



LaraVictore -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/5/2007 8:25:20 AM)

I had a strap-on fantaisy before I knew strap-ons existed, but I can still not tell which guy wants to be next.
My lover did this: a hidden key, one box and his mysterious phone call. The box was filled with many little things on my wishlist and 2 kinds of strap-ons (without the harnasses.). It works for him! We still have our own "private" Pirate of the Carribean" thing going on. If you try this, have your short explanations ready in case it does not work because she hates the fact that you are bi or call your parents... The truth has longer legs, always.
Lara
http://www.laravictore.com



GuidingLite -> RE: How do i get my GF to do anal and use a srtapon on me. (1/5/2007 3:29:10 PM)

if shes into you probably shell luv it coz she sees you lovin it. easy.



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