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RE: Male Submissives - 1/10/2007 4:08:57 PM   
PsyVamp


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Status: offline 		his trust, his desire to please me, the total devotion in his eyes...
the willingness to do something just because he knows I want him to. 
--oh shit, that sounded soooo pink.
Throw in an ounce of fear and uncertainty.......
mmmmmm, that feels much better.
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RE: Male Submissives - 1/12/2007 9:59:41 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

Lady Lupine mmm for me that's the heat that keeps the fire intense ... the burning, the yearning... knowing I could crush him (mentally, phyiscally, emotionally) at anytime ... his trusting that I won't ... hoping that I won't ... not knowing that I won't... and it's that 'fleeting moment' that gets me everytime ...when it occurs to him ...that he doesn't actually know... but gives himself to me despite this ... it's the only time I every consider 'submission' a gift ...


I think this is about the most erotic single paragraph I've yet seen on this site.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/13/2007 1:19:53 AM   
DommeChains


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Status: offline 		His trust in my guidance.  His surrender of his fears and longings.  His deep seated need to please me above all else.  His eyes when they look at me trustingly.  His voice as he groans, whimpers or, best of all, praises me.  His scent as fear and desire shoot through him.  His body nestled to mine in the afterglow.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/13/2007 4:49:33 AM   
Jasmyn


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RE: Male Submissives - 1/13/2007 6:56:51 AM   
DiannaVesta


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Status: offline 		I am often asked this question. For me it all boils down to the dynamic. It’s an esoteric chemistry that penetrates to a primal essence of your being hidden under layers of society’s expectations. It’s like the artist or writer that is able to tap into a level of consciousness and invoke their spirit passionately driving them into creative action. It climbs beyond any definition and words are far too inadequate.  



I can feel it even if it’s under the veil of machismo. I can feel it calling me trapped within a man’s (or woman’s) soul. I’ve always felt this since I was a young girl. The essence to devour and digest passions that boarder the line of sanity. I have witnessed extremes so intense that your body vibrated. I’m not talking about SM, pain or sexual play but a mentally, a mind fuck so heavy it’s nearly impossible to ever repeat it.  



I was writing a chapter in a book I’m working on and I want so badly to articulate the feeling a dominant woman gets when a man truly relinquishes control. Many of you here describe it well; however I wonder just how high you have soared. From experience I know that it’s hard to talk about only to be ridiculed and judged by people who are clueless. It’s not an opinion when you have no real experience to base it on.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/13/2007 8:48:55 AM   
freakgoddess


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Status: offline 		i don't know and i don't like to analyze it to death.  it's a natural chemistry.  it turns me on.  it doesn't really matter why.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/13/2007 9:57:01 AM   
MistressSassy66


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RE: Male Submissives - 1/13/2007 1:50:10 PM   
Jeniluscious


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RE: Male Submissives - 1/13/2007 1:56:17 PM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Just a fast reply.

I don't see anything in particular in any of these replies that couldn't be the for any sub or bottom, male, female, or trans. So are our answers then about what is attractive about submissives or about male submissives?

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/13/2007 3:17:09 PM   
diffyduffy


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Status: offline 		hello Mistress i am a sub living in new zealand i have a question i live in a real life d/s relatoinship and my Mistress is thinking of becoming a slave online in gor. if she dose this what happens to me?. do i become the property of the other Master or Mistress as my Mistress is bi.look forward to you reply .as i am very new to this . if you would like you can reply on [email protected]

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/13/2007 8:29:52 PM   
Laura


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Status: offline 		His voice - each whimper, gasp and moan he makes. I've found I can't seriously date a man unless I fall in lust with his voice first. 

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/14/2007 8:08:18 PM   
joyinslavery


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No, really...

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/26/2007 4:57:12 AM   
sting516


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Status: offline 		i know this thread is more about what attracts the moth to the flame, so to speak...but i have a slightly different take on this paragraph...the submission, for me, is that i know the Domme is willing to crush me, if need be...that She will take what She wants...and if She wants it, whatever it is, She will do it...i saw the line in a profile on CM somewhere that one's car doesn't tell them where to go, neither will their slave...that in essence, says it all to me.

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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

Lady Lupine mmm for me that's the heat that keeps the fire intense ... the burning, the yearning... knowing I could crush him (mentally, phyiscally, emotionally) at anytime ... his trusting that I won't ... hoping that I won't ... not knowing that I won't... and it's that 'fleeting moment' that gets me everytime ...when it occurs to him ...that he doesn't actually know... but gives himself to me despite this ... it's the only time I every consider 'submission' a gift ...

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/26/2007 12:30:57 PM   
LadyOunce


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Status: offline 		As a male giving it to me, other than merely the beauty of submission from either sex, I appreciate the strength in their submission. In my culture, The States, it's hard for a male to be submissive without being seen as less than a man but a sub that can do both is truly a thing of beauty.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/26/2007 1:37:43 PM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

Their willingness to be vulnerable, emotionally, mentally and physically.... and their ability to give up masculine archetypes and trust me.


Yes.

His interest in and devotion to me.

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RE: Male Submissives - 1/26/2007 2:21:40 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

Just a fast reply.

I don't see anything in particular in any of these replies that couldn't be the for any sub or bottom, male, female, or trans. So are our answers then about what is attractive about submissives or about male submissives?


I feel that female submission is accepted more readily than male submission.  I thought this was a wonderful thread in case any male lerkers (dom variety) ever wondered what we "saw" in a male submissive :)

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