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delyla -> More thsan meets the eye? (1/5/2007 5:56:47 PM)

I am a submissive. Latley I have been approached by male switches to start a Domme relationship. Could I be emitting a vib I am unaware of? Or do guys keep hitting til they get what they want?



justheather -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/5/2007 6:00:42 PM)

Pretty much the second one.



KatyLied -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/5/2007 6:01:44 PM)

Guys keep hitting.  A lot.  Some send naughty pictures.  I laugh.



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/5/2007 6:28:26 PM)

The same reason guys send out form letters to every Domme that appears to be breathing - it's like their fishing and hoping for a nibble from anyone, anywhere.

There's really no other explanation for emails like I got today - the same one copied twice into the same email.



devoT -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/5/2007 6:55:43 PM)

It's your name, hon. Think of the wicked woman who laid Samson low. That's what's attracting them.



demistress -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/5/2007 8:14:56 PM)

I've heard from many submissive women who want me to train them in the ways of the domme, because they're interested in relationships with men who wish to submit to them......... This always makes me nervous, but on the other hand, I love helping a woman explore her sexuality.



onestandingstill -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/6/2007 9:34:57 AM)

I am full sub and not top oriented at all. I also constantly have subs hoping they can convince me to top them or begin a relationship. Hell I have two in my local scene who are stating they are in love with me face to face even.
I think they see the exterior of you and mix it with the fantasies they have with no conisideration of your needs, wants, or personality.
It's nothing you do, it's very common, and you just have to take it with a grain of salt and keep seeking what works for you.
suzanne



delyla -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/7/2007 6:23:04 AM)

Thank you all...some very good advice........



bandit25 -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/7/2007 7:46:09 AM)

I get that all the time.  Even after I say no thanks, I still get someone telling me to just do to them what I like done to me.  What part of "no thanks" didn't he get>



delyla -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/7/2007 11:55:59 AM)

Well thanks again.....The always turn in to switches when I tell them I amm not interested too...haha..



DigitBox -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/7/2007 6:22:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: delyla

I am a submissive. Latley I have been approached by male switches to start a Domme relationship. Could I be emitting a vib I am unaware of? Or do guys keep hitting til they get what they want?


Guys will just keep hitting so long as they think they have even a snowballs chance in hell of actually getting play time with you.  Well not all guys but plenty of them will.



TigressOfDs -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/8/2007 7:11:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood

The same reason guys send out form letters to every Domme that appears to be breathing - it's like their fishing and hoping for a nibble from anyone, anywhere.

There's really no other explanation for emails like I got today - the same one copied twice into the same email.


I agree ...  so many guys ((and sometimes women)) will try everyone and everything until they get a reaction ... ANY reaction. 
 
Ms.Kat



MistressSassy66 -> RE: More thsan meets the eye? (1/8/2007 10:34:08 AM)

Its a guy thing.
Heres a heads up...be prepared for the really nasty replies when you say No.
That must be another guy thing.

**PLEASE NOTE**
The above doesnt apply to ALL guys.



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