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boy4StrictAunt -> Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 6:30:34 PM)
I was wanting to know if many mature women expecially in their late 50's and 60's enjoy younger submissive men? I have always heard that alot of them do but I have had little success finding them.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 6:47:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: boy4StrictAunt I was wanting to know if many mature women expecially in their late 50's and 60's enjoy younger submissive men? I have always heard that alot of them do but I have had little success finding them. You've been on here for one day, hon. Give it time. Some like younger men, some don't. I do, but I'm not old enough for you. LMAO Master Fire

WyckedIndulgence -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 6:55:06 PM)
While many older women enjoy the eye candy, I find very little in common outside of the bedroom. Personally, I prefer men closer to my own age with whom I can share similar interests, experiences and conversations outside of this realm. Level of maturity and life experience goes a long way in sustaining an ongoing relationship. My rule of thumb is, if he is younger than my oldest offspring, I'm not interested. Somewhere between 45 and 55 usually works for me though I have been known to fudge just a little.

boy4StrictAunt -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 6:59:27 PM)
Thank you for your replies. I do understand the offspring part but at a younger age I started dating women that was in their 40's and 50's and I found that we related rather well. I enjoy traveling and fine dining and such so most of the time I relate very well with mature women.

LaTigresse -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 7:04:04 PM)
Actually I prefer the younger women myself...[;)]

MsLadySue -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 7:24:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: boy4StrictAunt I enjoy traveling and fine dining and such so most of the time I relate very well with mature women. I enjoy travelling and fine dining also. If you have the money to do those things then I'd lessen my age restriction. LOL

boy4StrictAunt -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 7:27:10 PM)
I do well in my career. That is how I started dating mature professional women in the first place.LOL

LadyEllen -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 7:32:43 PM)
I'll be 40 in December - does this mean I will be counted as mature? And have to act like it? Can anyone give me some pointers? Another question; its said that women mature earlier than men. Does this mean, that if I stop the HRT now, I might be able to evade becoming and having to act mature for another, say ten or twenty years? I dont wanna grow up! Petra Pan age 39, forever

LotusSong -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 7:40:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: boy4StrictAunt I was wanting to know if many mature women expecially in their late 50's and 60's enjoy younger submissive men? I have always heard that alot of them do but I have had little success finding them. I am one that does not. Their focus is different. jmo

ToServeIsToLive -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 8:07:23 PM)
I was in a relationship with a mistress (including being somewhat intamate beyond that) 21 years my elder (43 vs 22). It was working out well since my interests tend to adapt to the people I'm around so we were able to spend good time together outside of BDSM. In the end, other stresses in my life made me disengage from her. I meet her in a munch though and we talked together as people. I really doubt you'll find someone 30 years your elder off the internet who would want to meet with you. Online it's hard enough finding someone that really matches you without considering things like giant age gaps, but then again stranger things have probably happened.

boy4StrictAunt -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 8:40:44 PM)
If you do not desire to be waited on hand and foot and pampered very well then I guess our focus is differant.LOL

LotusSong -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 8:48:43 PM)
.. Then you have the body consiousness of the older woman. Up against a young male..I'd feel older than I am :) It's like the joke.. if you want to look thinner, hang around with those larger than yourself. I keep my males older LOL!

TxBlkMistress -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 8:50:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: boy4StrictAunt I was wanting to know if many mature women expecially in their late 50's and 60's enjoy younger submissive men? I have always heard that alot of them do but I have had little success finding them. Talking from the experience regarding you earlier this evening...you might rethink your approach just a suggestion

TxBlkMistress -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 8:55:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen I'll be 40 in December - does this mean I will be counted as mature? And have to act like it? Can anyone give me some pointers? Another question; its said that women mature earlier than men. Does this mean, that if I stop the HRT now, I might be able to evade becoming and having to act mature for another, say ten or twenty years? I dont wanna grow up! Petra Pan age 39, forever LOL...yeah that "mature" thing got me too....now that's one thing I've never been accused of (being mature)....LOL and never will...

boy4StrictAunt -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 8:59:37 PM)
[/quote] LOL...yeah that "mature" thing got me too....now that's one thing I've never been accused of (being mature)....LOL and never will... [/quote] Well I have expierance with dating women a bit older and I learned most women that find themself dating a younger man do not like to be called the Older Woman all the time. So I found that most appriciate being called a Mature Woman over the Older Woman.

MstrssScarlet -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 9:14:29 PM)
After my divorce, I dated someone who was in the lifestyle and about 15 years younger than I was. He was actually very mature for his age and I enjoyed his company. Things did not work out between us, but it had nothing to do with his age. Mistress Scarlet

boy4StrictAunt -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/5/2007 9:19:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrssScarlet After my divorce, I dated someone who was in the lifestyle and about 15 years younger than I was. He was actually very mature for his age and I enjoyed his company. Things did not work out between us, but it had nothing to do with his age. Mistress Scarlet Sorry you were not able resolve all your issues with him Mistress Scarlet. I have had mulitble vanilla relationships with women that were typically 20-25 years older and we had great times together but I often had to move early on in my career but I still try to keep in touch with them when I am able.

thetammyjo -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/6/2007 6:48:20 AM)
Fox is 11 years younger than me. Primarily I'd want someone with similar goal and interests and close to Fox's age; certainly not older than me. But I'm just 37 now so not quite as mature as is being asked about.

LotusSong -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/6/2007 6:50:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: boy4StrictAunt If you do not desire to be waited on hand and foot and pampered very well then I guess our focus is differant.LOL LOL.. well now, tempting as that is, I've trained my dog to do that. I do hope you find your heart's desire.

boy4StrictAunt -> RE: Does Mature Dommes(40-60) enjoy young men? (1/6/2007 6:56:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong quote: ORIGINAL: boy4StrictAunt If you do not desire to be waited on hand and foot and pampered very well then I guess our focus is differant.LOL LOL.. well now, tempting as that is, I've trained my dog to do that. I do hope you find your heart's desire. Sorry Ms Lotus I did not know you were into Puppy Play.LOL

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