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Introducing Myself as a Submissive - 1/7/2007 1:36:41 PM

Jinger

Posts: 347
Joined: 1/7/2007
From: Rochester
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Hi there!
First things first, I'm not just another shmuck who's "desperate" or will "try anything", in fact my situation can't afford any real contact at the moment even if I was. I love personal online conversations but I'm really here to honestly talk about BDSM. I guess that's a funny way of saying I'm available? Humm...

I'm introducing myself now just you all know who I am.
I am a submissive, I always was and probably always will be. I've actually been lucky enough to land myself four seperate owners in the past, so as submissives go I'm relatively experienced, for my age that is.
I submit to females only, because...well...they're better.

As a submissive I have to say that I'm really not into extreme pain. Get cut is not my cup of tea, nor is getting punched, kicked or beaten at all really. I'm repulsed by scat. I would honestly try watersport, but I won't ever be the one to bring it up in conversation.
Trampling is a bit much too.

I have a number of fetishes but I'm torn because many of them are far too self indulgent. They make me feel guilty. So while I really do love body worship and smothering, I hate the idea that it's just my crazed chauvenistic side taking over with ojectification. That said I'm huge on pleasing the other person. Serving and slavery come almost naturally to me. I love the idea of getting used, as if I were an object or a trophy...or even just a foot rest.
And along those lines, getting tied up is really fun.

To describe myself though as a submissive I have to admit that I'm really quite shy in person. I'd like to think I'm docile but my own embarassment in certain situations makes me hesitate...which comes off as defiance. I'm really only defiant if I know you well enough to act stubborn...but that really depends on the Domme.
I have other personal details as a sub, but you can ask those yourself later if you wish.
Like I said though, I'm willing to try things.

I like the idea of living the life of a submissive, but I also really enjoy an informal submissive relationship...where domination isn't always imposed and can strike at any moment. I have nothing against outfits or corsetts or leather boots...but I don't think they're really necessary...and they don't especially turn me on.

And that's me. I'm sorry if this looks like a want ad. But I figured it's the decent thing to do.