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Being Cruel 2 - 1/8/2007 5:39:19 PM   
Master96


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Status: offline 		After the thread Being Cruel. I want to ask for the ideas on Female slaves/subs :p

I'm asking for the women-dom's and men-dom's views.... it would be interesting to compare both views.

Thanx,

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Understand that actions will always speak louder than words.


Before you speak, ask yourself..
Is it kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?
Does it improve upon the silence? - Sai Baba
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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/9/2007 6:24:32 PM   
Master96


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Status: offline 		No one? that is frustrating !

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Understand that actions will always speak louder than words.


Before you speak, ask yourself..
Is it kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?
Does it improve upon the silence? - Sai Baba

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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/9/2007 6:54:06 PM   
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I don't see a thread called being cruel other than this one when I search the topics.
From not finding that I can't make sense of what you're getting at here.
sorry,
suzanne



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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/9/2007 8:31:04 PM   
Master96


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Understand that actions will always speak louder than words.


Before you speak, ask yourself..
Is it kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?
Does it improve upon the silence? - Sai Baba

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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/10/2007 1:38:55 PM   
onestandingstill


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Status: offline 		OHHHHHH,
I definately have no advice for you now.
My first Sir turned on me and became what I labeled a mental sadist.
It crushed me completely.
I won't assist in doing that to any one else.
sorry,
suzanne

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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/10/2007 3:40:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Being "cruel" to another, either mentally or physically, for the sake of cruelty itself seems self-serving. Not a characteristic i would admire or respect in a Dom/Master. Just my opinion ofcourse...

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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/10/2007 4:04:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Cruelty can shatter a person and their trust in other humans for life.  Please think about toying with a person in that way.  It is not right and can scar a persons heart to others for life.   

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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/10/2007 7:12:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		i think they're just using the wrong words here.




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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/10/2007 7:24:41 PM   
Fawne


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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/10/2007 8:03:15 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear Master96, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Define cruel.  Everybody has their own measures of what is cruel and what is consensual S&M.
 
Cruel in my mind's eyes would have a slave tied to a chair and have to listen to hours of Barney's "Friends" song.  The purple dinosaur that talks like a giggle box in kindergarten.  Cruel in my mind's eyes is listening to the giggles, baby talk and the like on Teletubbies.  The shrill pitches can be very sadistic.  Cruel in my mind's eyes would be having to listen to children scream, temper tantrums inches from your ear.  Of course, cruel can be my warped sense of humor and you are a captive audience.
 
Cruel can be the Master who withholds from their slave, their medical history and or their carrying STDs.  Cruel can be stealing the slave's bank account and bleeding it dry.  Cruel can be failure to keep your word.  Cruel can be where you don't care about the slave anymore and do things to force them to leave, instead of saying to their face its over and part like two adults.  Cruel is when a Master withholds medical care, medicines and the like from their slave.  Cruel is when the Master abandons their slave without a word and runs and hides like a coward.  Cruel can be where a Master doesn't apologize to a slave for doing or saying something stupid and blame it on the slave who is innocent.
 
In summary--there are a lot of things that can/will be/is/may be/will be cruel.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/11/2007 4:45:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHugs


Cruel in my mind's eyes would have a slave tied to a chair and have to listen to hours of Barney's "Friends" song.  The purple dinosaur that talks like a giggle box in kindergarten.  Cruel in my mind's eyes is listening to the giggles, baby talk and the like on Teletubbies.   


These are tooo sadistic for me to endure. My dear sweet Lady, i think i am actually afraid of you now.

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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/11/2007 4:59:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHugs
Cruel in my mind's eyes would be having to listen to children scream, temper tantrums inches from your ear.  Of course, cruel can be my warped sense of humor and you are a captive audience.


I play a tape at high volume of a baby crying as an opener in my abuse prevention presentation.  It's very effective.   Middle and high schools students are usually begging for mercy in the first 30 seconds.
 
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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/11/2007 5:14:51 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHugs

Dear Master96, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Define cruel.  Everybody has their own measures of what is cruel and what is consensual S&M.

In summary--there are a lot of things that can/will be/is/may be/will be cruel.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs


As always, i admire your thoughts and you are right. i answered this as someone who aside from a spanking, abhors pain , mentally and physically. So cruelty to me would have a different meaning than a masochist. i think the way the OP worded it (no offense) took it out of consensual S&M and to something wicked sounding, to me anyway.
Also i read the link he posted and it was a difficult read for me because i lean more to wards the sensual side of D/s and not S&M.

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RE: Being Cruel 2 - 1/15/2007 11:36:42 AM   
Master96


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Status: offline 		Greetings,

I was not online for a while, so I didn't check what happened on this thread. But I want to thank everybody for their inputs :)

I may put my question in a very wrong way! Maybe it should be: what was your best S/M experience?

.... to see her cry.... hurt, insulted, disappointed, sad.... just makes my hurt stop! I just can't..... I just can't.... please, I wont do any of those horrible things you guys mentioned to anybody....



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Master96,

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Understand that actions will always speak louder than words.


Before you speak, ask yourself..
Is it kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?
Does it improve upon the silence? - Sai Baba

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