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froggyone -> "the touch" (1/9/2007 5:06:32 AM)
i am very curious about "the touch". i have experienced it a few times, and it was mind blowing. what i recently found out, is that there are different types of the touch. before, it was always sexual. a few weeks ago, my Master placed His hand on my chest, and i felt the most powerful rush of energy from Him. it was like i could feel all the love in His heart coming directly into me. it was the most amazing feeling in the world. last week, Master and i were laying in bed, adn i placed my hand on His chest, and i got a surprise. i could feel so much energy flowing from Him, and i wasnt expecting that. i honestly didnt know, well, that i could do that. it was definatly a shock. i started crying, and really couldnt tell Him why. it was so overwhelming, and so amazing. now, i want to learn more about it. i would like to hear what others have to say about "the touch". thanks

RedSavageSlave -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 5:13:58 AM)
Sometimes I wonder if explaining how the experience happens doesnt sometimes take away from the power of it. Imagine seeing a wonderful magic trick. The wonder of what you thought you saw took your breath away. But then someone comes along and explains to you how it happens and it suddenly just becomes a trick. You have experienced something awesome...You have felt what we all dream of having with our partners. I envy you...(in a very very good way)..and I hope that no one explains it to you to the point of it losing its wonderful mysticism.

canupleaseme -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 5:39:13 AM)
Its amazing when it happens[:D] Ive felt it several times with my boy and not just when playing. Sometimes when we are just snuggled up tight in bed he can look at me and touch my face and i get goose bumps and my heart flutters and my head spins. I dont think iits somthing you can learn to do, and I'm not sure many people would talk about it but for me it certainly exists.

froggyone -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 5:51:40 AM)
thank you for your comments. you are right, it is something magical. i guess i would jsut like to hear others accounts.. smiles

canupleaseme -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 5:59:11 AM)
Well its one of those moments that either makes me smile till my face aches or i cry becasue i feel so much love for him actually pyhsically feel it [:D]

onestandingstill -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 6:38:16 AM)
Hello froggy, I too have experienced the touch of a Master's hand firmly clutching my heart just by his touch anywhere on my body. I've never submitted to a Gorean Master but did study up on Gor and their practices and theology as part of my first year in the lifestyle. In Gor the way a Master knows if a slave is truly meant for him is knowing she does indeed have the submissive response of feeling her Master's hand holding her heart. It's not that he literally reaches in your chest, but figuratively you feel him holding your heart in his hand. They say if a slave does not feel your hand on her heart she's not meant to be yours. I am an empath. I feel the feelings of people immediately around me. I always have. When someone touches me it's like I become hardwired to their feelings and it magnifies the effect. Way before I found BDSM I've been a touch oriented communicator in all my relationships not just my dating ones. I still hold my Mom's hand, my 23yr old Daughter still sits in my lap when she's upset and needs support, My son 19 and I also touch often and I'm very very touchy feely with all my friends male and female in non-sexual ways. Every time I touch someone I'm in love with I feel this energy like and electric surge course through my veins. I too am fully flooded with the feeling of the love, compassion, and comfort I feel from the touch of someone I love that loves me. Now I found kink I've noticed even if I'm just playing with a Dom casually in the public dungeon I need little breaks where I can touch the Dom to reconnect to him. It helps me calm back down and focus instantly. I am a HUGE bondage oriented sub, but if my hands are tied so that I can't touch the Dom it makes me a little notso and frustrates me as I crave touching in my scenes. Touch is a whole other form of communication in my mind. I think the response you discussed you're feeling is indeed that you have felt the tug of your slave heart as your Master and you have reached that special magical place where you feel him holding your heart. Feeling that overwhelming belonging and love is definitely an awesome thing to share and partake in indeed. I am so very happy for you. I hope your devotion and love continue to feed you what you need and make you feel complete always. suzanne

LaTigresse -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 6:55:56 AM)
This very subject is the reason I refuse to even contemplate a relationship's existance via the internet or phone. I must be able to touch.

CreativeDominant -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 7:14:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: froggyone i am very curious about "the touch". i have experienced it a few times, and it was mind blowing. what i recently found out, is that there are different types of the touch. before, it was always sexual. a few weeks ago, my Master placed His hand on my chest, and i felt the most powerful rush of energy from Him. it was like i could feel all the love in His heart coming directly into me. it was the most amazing feeling in the world. last week, Master and i were laying in bed, adn i placed my hand on His chest, and i got a surprise. i could feel so much energy flowing from Him, and i wasnt expecting that. i honestly didnt know, well, that i could do that. it was definatly a shock. i started crying, and really couldnt tell Him why. it was so overwhelming, and so amazing. now, i want to learn more about it. i would like to hear what others have to say about "the touch". thanks The concept of "the touch" does not even have to be relegated only to a romantic or M/s relationship. It is sometimes seen in healing. A good, ethical healthcare provider will try to do his best for each patient and usually does. But there are those instances when you will do nothing more than touch a patient while thinking and feeling all that you want to help him with / how unfair it is that they are troubled by this / how important it is that you work together and the patient will tell you later that at that time, it was like they could feel good, healing energy flowing from you to them. Believe it or not, there is also the converse...sometimes, if the provider is not careful and not aware, the patient can trigger a flow of "bad" energy towards the provider...not consciously but rather, as a manifestation of their desperation to be rid of it.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 7:18:38 AM)
Energy work can be a great thing to employ in all relationships.

CreativeDominant -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 7:28:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Energy work can be a great thing to employ in all relationships. Agreed...[;)]

OedipusRexIt -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 7:29:25 AM)
I subscribe to the theory that some mysterious, magical things lose their shine if examined too closely. Enjoy it. Never take it for granted, but don't try to hard to understand it.

ownedgirlie -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 8:06:10 AM)
This happens to me more and more. I am learning to become more aware of his energy, and the energy of other people and things around me. But with Master, yes he can touch me and my entire body will buzz. I have yet to learn how to transfer such energy back to him so he can feel it. When I have tried I feel so drained afterwards. Perhaps it is not a matter of trying, but of simply letting go of it. I'm glad to see this thread started. The subject fascinates me. Sometimes I can feel his energy without even touching. Sometimes I am not even in his presence yet we're talking (phone) and it's as though he has launched a missile right into me. I love it.

crouchingtigress -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 8:29:32 AM)
*quote:* I have yet to learn how to transfer such energy back to him so he can feel it. owned i can really relate to the love of energy and wanting to give it back...i remember some years ago when my partner lay curled up on me all night, and when he left in the morning his energy in that exact pattern stayed on me...it was like an imprint, it was so amazing! i also had the desire for him to feel it back...i had him close his eyes and breath a number of times till his body was completely relaxed, and then places my fully spread out hand on his chest.....i asked him to feel it and to feel the heat coming from it.....then i pulled it away....and asked him if there was any sort of energetic imprint....and there was[;)] after that we got some books of eastern philosphys....there was a lot to be learned in Taoism Kama Sutra and Tantra...so many cultures have not only studied the sensual transference of energy (in taoism its been documented for 5000 years) but they have also developed incredible techniques and exercises to hone the experience for every one from beginners to advanced. write me on the other side ill give you the name of some amazing books.

onestandingstill -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 8:36:04 AM)
I just read crouching tigress's post and it made me think of another aspect of touch and energy usage. In martial arts a Master can stop one inch of hitting you and still you'll feel it. I've seen this demonstrated to the point when the other person pulled up his shirt there was indeed a red mark and no actual contact happened. Energy comes from your Chi. My first Master used this Chi energy to make his impact blows feel stronger. For example if he hit my butt bare handed without Chi, then used the same level of force with his Chi energy the one with the Chi felt like it was double the impact. Our energy transferring into another we choose to send it into is a common practice in many avenues and is very real. suzanne

liljoy -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 9:06:32 AM)
i've never felt anything like you guys describe. Is there something wrong with me? lil_joy

Celeste43 -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 1:10:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: liljoy i've never felt anything like you guys describe. Is there something wrong with me? lil_joy Just means you haven't been to a massage therapist who does energy work, or a Reiki provider. Give yourself a treat and go.

LokisBrat -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 2:23:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: liljoy i've never felt anything like you guys describe. Is there something wrong with me? lil_joy Might I suggest reading up on Reiki and also the Chakras can play an important role in this subject. The transfer of energy from one person to another is a remarkable event and a very spiritual experience.

Missokyst -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 3:07:45 PM)
I can't say I have ever experienced "the touch" as you describe it. Though it does seem like an attraction reaction. An old dom and I had an intense reaction toward each other that continued well past our time together. He would get goosebumps if I entered the room, even though he hadn't seen me enter. And I could feel him in the vacinity if he drove through town. If you believe in past lives I always thought of it as the soul calling out to the other to say hi, Kyst

griffn -> RE: "the touch" (1/9/2007 3:26:27 PM)
Great thread! All I can say is its about the spaces in between. When that energy gets charged up by intention. The veil gets lifted and its like wooooosh we are in that sacred space were there is no music, flogger, hand, e.t.c. it is pure power exchange my yang to her yin so to speak. That in a nutshell is what I crave now in and out of sceens. My only regret is that its not spoken about very often.

CreativeDominant -> RE: "the touch" (1/10/2007 7:19:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: griffn Great thread! All I can say is its about the spaces in between. When that energy gets charged up by intention. The veil gets lifted and its like wooooosh we are in that sacred space were there is no music, flogger, hand, e.t.c. it is pure power exchange my yang to her yin so to speak. That in a nutshell is what I crave now in and out of sceens. My only regret is that its not spoken about very often. Part of the reason it is not talked about is because it is an area where one has to open themselves up to what they are capable of feeling and to relating to another person in a specific physical way while being open emotionally and mentally. This is something that cannot be seen and for those who tend not to place much faith in that which cannot be seen or expressed in a way that can be seen, it is a difficult concept to grasp within yourself, let alone discuss with another.

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