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BreatheinToMe -> RE: Suffering here...In need of advice (1/10/2007 1:16:02 AM)
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aslaveflower,
I am new to this forum, but your situation is not. It is the oldest story on the books. Married man, keeps single woman on hook.
What you have fallen in love with, is not what your situation IS, but what you wish it COULD be, or was and wish it COULD be again. You are in love with a dream. I was in a similar situation, but neither was married. But its pretty much the same, He wouldn't do/change/ something, and we keep holding on...on the hope that.....(whatever).
My heart aches for you, because I know it is hard to tell when it's time to walk away. It's time, when you are more miserable than happy. Do you think your unhappiness doesn't affect your children? It does, it will, and their whole lives. I suggest you find a support group. Many churches have single parents groups, they may help.
OR.... You could tell your Emotionally Sadistic Dom, you are willing to go poly and you want to move in with him and his wife and all the kids. See how that flies.
Good luck, you are in for a world of hurt.
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