RobertCloud
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First of all, his past is his past. As long as he is registered I would leave him/her alone. However, that does not mean I would not watch the local children and make certain they stayed away from his house and he stayed away from them. He still has a right to live, a mistake is a mistake, if he has paid his dues to society then he needs to be forgiven, just not forgotten... that means we don't forget what he is, we jut don't rub it in his face either. I would not even have a problem making friends with him, but I would keep my children away from him, (if I had children which I don't). In time, if his reform is shown to be good and clear, and he has had no relapse, then I would not even have a problem with him meeting my children, but that would take a long time... and he would NEVER be alone with them no matter how much time has past. What many people do not understand, and there has been a study on this, that part of child molestation is genetic and instinctual in the male. Once a man gives in to that urge it is difficult for him to fight it ever again. That is why it is so prevalent. It has to do with the initial survival of the species. Once a woman began her menses, a man could smell her scent and that attracted him. Those men that tend to be child molesters still have the genetic makeup that they can smell the scent of a woman on her menses. They are hornier during that time or when they are near a woman on her time, it is a strong urge in them and it does not matter the age of the woman, it is the menses that is driving that urge. A good moralistic man will fight the urge when it is someone not of age, but he will still find himself attracted, and often he will even be repulsed by himself for that attraction, wondering if he is a pedophile when he is not because he is fighting it, it has nothing to do with children, it has to do with pheromones. Then there are the true pedophiles, and these are the ones that are truly sick. It is not genetic, and it does have simply to do with children. They tend to be attracted to children of any age, not just a woman past her menses time. So these molesters will never fully recover because it truly is a mental illness and it is not something that can be cured only controlled. Sorry about the long topic on this one, but I have done some research into it because I am planning to write a TABOO book in the future and it may never be published because of its TABOO nature, but I am hoping to handle it is such a way it will be published, and to show the difference between the two types of offenders better. Now.. back to the game... ------------------------------------------- What would you do if... you found yourself locked in a room with three people of the opposite sex and three people of the same sex... they are naked... bound... blind-folded.. gagged... and you are the only free person in the room? -------------------------------------
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Author for Black Velvet Seductions she melted to her knees and crawled to her master. Toy's Story: Acquisition of a Sex Toy
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