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RE: Why me? - 1/11/2007 6:11:38 AM

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Has it occurred to you, subdued4service, that she is impressed with your writing or that what you write is what she wants at this time? She may have no interest in anything other than online dialogues so asking for a picture may not be important to her. It could be that she thinks a picture would give you a "face" and she prefers the image in her own mind.

Frankly asking any of us is not going to get you an answer.

If you want to know "why you" then the only person who knows is her. Ask her.

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RE: Why me? - 1/11/2007 2:14:09 PM

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Why not?

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RE: Why me? - 1/11/2007 2:20:38 PM

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What MistressSassy said!!!
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RE: Why me? - 1/11/2007 2:23:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

While its really hard to actually fathom some people dont care about looks.
I am one of those people and met several without ever knowing what they look like until they got to My door.I go by the conversations I have with them to judge whether they are a GOOD person not a whether they are handsome/pretty.

I would soooo much rather do a session with a "unattractive" person than one who thinks they are all that because they are good looking.As a matter of fact some of those "pretty boy" types are turned down when asking for another session.
My pet rock has a better personality than they do....LOL

Absofuckinglutely!!!

That being said, I like seeing a persons face to put a little more of who they are into their words but I certainly don't get freaky about it. Several of my favourite poster's on these forums I have never seen and would meet them in a heartbeat if I had the opportunity.

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Why me? - 1/11/2007 2:43:13 PM

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Yeah, but I look like a God, LaT.

A really ugly God.

Yours,

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RE: Why me? - 1/11/2007 2:45:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Yeah, but I look like a God, LaT.

A really ugly God.

Yours,

benji

Oh yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh??? Prove it!

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RE: Why me? - 1/11/2007 2:55:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Yeah, but I look like a God, LaT.

A really ugly God.

Yours,

benji

Don't believe him. He's hot!

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RE: Why me? - 1/11/2007 2:56:44 PM

LaTigresse

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Okay, I believe Aileen. But I still want benji to prove it. All I ever get are fish pictures. While I love fishes, and fish pictures............

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RE: Why me? - 1/12/2007 5:45:01 AM

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have you ever asked Her why you?
If it matters that much to you to post on here, you might want to consider asking Her.
If you are taking orders from Her for a while and you want to know the reason for your relationship, then you have the right to know.

i don't have a picture on my profile so as to not "out" myself, but i'll send it to Anyone who asks.
Looks are not important in an online-only relationship, but it often helps to put a face with a name...

That being said, a *lot* of people would like to have your "problem". i wouldn't mind being Someone's lab rat, as long as things stayed within reasonable limits.

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RE: Why me? - 1/12/2007 6:09:53 PM

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There was probably something in the words you used in the comment in your journal that combined with the message you sent previously really caught her attention. Sometimes I find that slaves that do not really fit what I am looking for in the beginning end up being closer to what I wanted than I first realized. As to "why you", well maybe because she thinks you're worth it and that is always a good thing. Good Luck!

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RE: Why me? - 1/12/2007 8:18:21 PM

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Meh, online "instructions" and such, especially without knowing how the other looks like, is just fake and leaves way to much room for one to get away with it. I mean, "do this" and I say I did when really I haven't as they are not here in the flesh to assure it happens and to speak to me in person to see if I am lying or not.

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RE: Why me? - 1/14/2007 12:36:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji
It's 2007. Digital cameras first appeared in the early nineties, you can even buy disposable ones now. Scanners have existed just as long. Not having a picture is an excuse.
Not wanting to show your picture can be explained away, but I can understand someone who wants to see a picture.
I automatically assume, when someone doesn't want to send a picture, that they are either lying about something, overly self-conscious, or not capable of connecting two cords together and double clicking a few times, none of which being a trait I look for.
There's always an excuse, but rarely a reason.
Yours,
benji

Not true. I don't send pictures because I treasure My privacy and don't want to be 'outed' at work or in My community. I will only send a photo long after I'm comfortable enough to do so. If a sub can't hang in there long enough to suit MY schedule for a photo, I don't need him.

While I can't speak for the Domme in question in the original OP's post, I, for one, place much more importance on writing skills and on a sub's ability to follow instructions in our initial correspondence than I do in the sub's appearance.

I've also found that a sub who can write well and communicate well is always much more attractive to me, whatever his looks, than one who cannot. His looks grow on Me as his service exemplifies his sincerity.

So write away, OP, and don't question why or wherefore. Enjoy while the enjoyment is possible. Time enough to answer the questions later.

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RE: Why me? - 1/14/2007 5:18:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: marcMerkin

She already assumes your hideous. If you weren't hideous, you'd have a photo.

MarcMerkin,

I work out 5 days a week and I don't think I'm hideous but I haven't got a photo up and I have no plans to. Reason is a) I haven't got a digital camera to put one up and b) I have a huge amount to lose if I ever got "outed" as a Sub, so even if I did have one I wouldn't put one up. Most Dommes I've met here seem to be cool with this.

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