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Problem - 1/10/2007 12:19:33 PM   
mirkala


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Status: offline 		mirkala wants to be enslaved but doesn't know how she'd be find a Master.
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RE: Problem - 1/10/2007 12:24:11 PM   
Rule


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Status: offline 		Meditate on your desire every morning and every evening after you rise and just before you go to bed. The universe will arrange for you to accidentally meet your master.

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RE: Problem - 1/10/2007 12:25:15 PM   
toughmaster007


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Status: offline 		You could may be try using the search feature here on CM and see if you find some one that gets your interest going?

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RE: Problem - 1/10/2007 12:28:11 PM   
mirkala


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rule

Meditate on your desire every morning and every evening after you rise and just before you go to bed. The universe will arrange for you to accidentally meet your master.


Thanks. :)

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RE: Problem - 1/10/2007 12:33:52 PM   
Kinkypupper


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Status: offline 		First you need to post more information about YOU on your profile here.
a non-professional photo or two helps LOTS.

Second since you are in Peru many people will assume you are a scam so you will have to provide your own transportation on your first visit I am fairly certain.

There are a LOT of "wannabes" so your main concern is to filter them out.

Good luck on your search.. Phil and lilpony

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RE: Problem - 1/10/2007 12:36:28 PM   
mirkala


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Status: offline 		Thanks by the advice. :)

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RE: Problem - 1/10/2007 2:39:44 PM   
GoreanGuy


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Status: offline 		I dont know about meditation but I usually find that it is a good thing to interact with the people on CM or in the chat rooms of your nearest messenger, they are good things to help you, just take it slow and you will find someone that is right for you    

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RE: Problem - 1/10/2007 11:44:35 PM   
Qithoras


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Status: offline 		It is not my goal here to  start a flame war, but "the universe will arrange for you to accidentially meet your master" ? I'm sorry, meditation is only helpful for relaxing the body and clearing the mind.
mirkala, if you want a Master, take active action, look for a local BDSM group, investigate into the lifestyle in your area, use online services (Such as CM).
Sitting on your ass hoping some Dom is going to randomly swoop by and pick you up is a foolish one, and In my own humble opinion, you - making the extra effort to search for a Master makes you a more appealing prize.



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RE: Problem - 1/11/2007 12:22:02 AM   
SimplyMichael


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RE: Problem - 1/11/2007 1:15:14 AM   
MsKathy


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Status: offline 		Qithoras, you said, "if you want a Master, take active action," Some would see that as topping from the bottom. I KNOW what you mean, but perhaps you can explain it better to the person who asked the question?

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RE: Problem - 1/11/2007 5:16:57 AM   
topcat


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Status: offline 		Dear Mirkala-
 
I would say that the first step is, like most things in life, knowing yourself, and understanding who you want to be, and getting a good idea of the person you want to be with. That can take years and years- it's literally a lifetimes work.
 
The good news, is that while you are at it, you can still look for your other. think about what you want, and be in the places where that person would be, and be the person that he'd want to find.
 
It's a long process- meanwhile, you can always refine your seach by trail and error<g>.
 
Good luck in the hunt.
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence

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RE: Problem - 1/11/2007 6:08:23 AM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		mirkala,

it can be very difficult to meet people in the BDSM lifestyle in Latin American.  I live in Santiago, Chile, and there are very few people who are interested in the lifestyle.

It is easier to find a man who is 'vanilla' but very strong willed, and then show him what you like.

Suerte,

Stephan


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RE: Problem - 1/11/2007 6:15:49 AM   
swtnsparkling


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quote:

MissKathy 
Qithoras, you said, "if you want a Master, take active action," Some would see that as topping from the bottom.


What he said was: mirkala, if you want a Master, take active action, look for a local BDSM group, investigate into the lifestyle in your area, use online services

How or why would some one see that as topping from the bottom?
confused here- what I saw was, get out there and involve yourself/meet people/dont sit around here waiting.

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