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Kinkypupper -> RE: For the Doms (1/11/2007 11:31:04 AM)
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With a large smile everyday..
Honestly tho you would find that we lead a most normal existance, We both work, Both pay bills. The subtle things tho like the collar that has been on her neck for the last year+, That I dictate her clothing style, There is never any arguements or disagreements. Its easy for her as she does not have to think of "whats for dinner" as all she need do is ask. We do get interesting looks at times as she opens the door for me when we go out. She pushes the grocery cart. There is never a "i'm to tired" well there can be but I do not accept it as an excuse- If I wish to use her any time or place then I will. She is getting a full back tattoo not because she wanted it but because I wanted it, the fact that she relaly likes it is a side benefit for her.
I am aware of her sensitivitys to certain topics and take then into account when its appropriate. She is not a "it" in any fashion and I encourage her to be outspoken and opinionated. She is a very intelligent girl and not a "it" at all. The fact that I can do something does not mean that I would do something. But if I do she accepts it as my wishes. If I told her to fuck you she would - but she would do it to please and obay me, would she get anything more out of it, That is something that I take into consideration before I would tell her. The gift of her submission to me os of immense value and I consider it as such. Tho I accept that the term "gift" does not agree with everyone, She is/was free to make her decision on this matter we do not live in a fantasy world "GOR" but in reality. Would I enjoy leaving her naked everyday ? yes would I ? No we live in the NW and it gets chilly on occasion.
Phil and lilpony
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