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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/13/2007 4:11:02 AM   
Manawyddan


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I haven't maintained many long-term friendships with folks I've met online, except for one person whom I have been with for 12 years and had a child with.

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/13/2007 4:25:06 AM   
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LOL!  My thoughts exactly.

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/13/2007 4:59:22 AM   
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I met my late Master/ my soulmate in a msn chat room and we started off as friends then dated...I am so shy it's the only way I can meet people lol...

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/13/2007 6:07:13 AM   
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I met someone over eight years ago on another site BDSM site, and married him two years ago.  I've also made some really great friendships online--the longest has lasted almost ten years now.

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/13/2007 6:16:46 AM   
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I know that I'm probably in the lucky minority, but i've met friends and lovers online.  While no one seems to have been the fabled "One" , I can honestly say i've never had a truly negative or otherwise unpleasant experience with those i've met online.  (aside from possible dissapointment  in the absence of a mutual "spark" )

I do love to hear the success stories.

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/15/2007 12:37:52 PM   
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LOL I met you and almost did.

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/15/2007 1:53:37 PM   
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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/15/2007 2:11:46 PM   
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Yes I met my husband on collarme.  We have been married almost 3 years now happily I might add.

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/15/2007 2:12:25 PM   
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Laughing...yes, I'll say.

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

Have you had a relationship that you met someone online or through the personals that developed into something significant?

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/15/2007 5:13:08 PM   
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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/15/2007 5:15:30 PM   
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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/16/2007 9:23:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth We met on-line. Is marriage under the definition of "significant"?

That is significant enough in My book. ;)

Well done indeed.

Many more in store for you both.

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/16/2007 9:36:50 AM   
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I have met a several people on line. (1) The first Dom I ever served (that was probably the best experience), (2) one really toxic man, (3)a good friend,  (4) a helluva decent play partner, (5)....my husband. 

#1, 3, & 4 I would do over again.

# 2 & 5 - I wish I could erase. 

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/16/2007 10:07:57 AM   
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Last one lasted 10 years and hope the next one lasts longer

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/23/2007 1:29:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: yieldingcontrol

I have met a several people on line. (1) The first Dom I ever served (that was probably the best experience), (2) one really toxic man, (3)a good friend,  (4) a helluva decent play partner, (5)....my husband. 

#1, 3, & 4 I would do over again.

# 2 & 5 - I wish I could erase. 


Life is for learning. Relationships are solid or stepping stones across the stream of conciousness. ;)

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/23/2007 3:11:51 AM   
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Yes, I've met a few friends but we had not stay in touch.

I have met an ex boy friend on the internet (we were together for 3 1/2 years) and I found my beloved Sir and Companion (5 years ago). it's easier for me to be myself behind a computer; what you read is what you get lol.

really bad things can happpened on the net but some pretty stories can happened too.


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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/23/2007 3:20:36 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Chloelicious

I have met an ex boy friend on the internet (we were together for 3 1/2 years) and I found my beloved Sir and Companion (5 years ago). it's easier for me to be myself behind a computer; what you read is what you get lol.

really bad things can happpened on the net but some pretty stories can happened too.


Sometimes it works both ways...

Some admittely do hide themsleves behind the computer and one should always follow common sense.

Some express themsleves more freely in text and phone rather than in person.

It allows them to focus on the content rather than body language, eye contact, voice inflection ect.

I have used it to cut thru the ice...then when meeting in person both parties know somewhat what the other repects and thinks.

This is of course more effective if the communication has evolved past the typical fantasy part and involves more than just sophmoric approach to BDSM...


Ross

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/23/2007 3:25:18 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: onestandingstill
LOL I met you and almost did.


Now that you mentioned it We did have a few meetings. Nice to see that you are evolving over the years. Think I caught you out tof the corner of My eye when I entered the Crucible Saturday night....I believe you were wrapped up in something and seemed to be on a misson of determination to get somewhere.

Life is just full of stepping stones now isn't it?

Remember also that "almost " only counts in horse shoes, hand genades and drive ins.

Ross

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/23/2007 3:26:47 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: socalbbwsub

yes
Thanks for sharing.

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RE: Have you had a relationship that you met someone on... - 1/23/2007 3:28:01 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72

I met my late Master/ my soulmate in a msn chat room and we started off as friends then dated...I am so shy it's the only way I can meet people lol...

Sorry to hear of your loss.

But didn't I read a recent entry of yours of a group encounter of sorts or am I mistaken?


Ross

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