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adaddysgirl -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 4:22:56 AM)

Well, since i happen to love, love, love anal rape, i personally think it would be great!  [sm=evil.gif]
 
DG



Aileen68 -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 4:24:31 AM)

Well, that's one hell of a speed bump.



Mercnbeth -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 7:56:21 AM)

alrighty, prequalified to answer given the parameters that yes, this slave enjoys that type of penetration and yes, it is something Master has engaged His slave in.
 
definitely HOT---because Master is involved, bulbous penis or no.
 
violation?---no, this slave can't imagine a scenario where she would feel Master's use of His slave was a violation.
 
"gift"?---this slave would thank Him!



MistressNoName -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 8:46:44 AM)

I'd have to say "violation." I might enjoy it if was discussed first. The way I see it, it violates basic rules of negotiation and fair play. I mean, if I don't know something's coming, then it's sort of like springing something totally un-negotiated into the scene. So, I got issues with that.

Why does this have to be a surprise? Why can't it be talked about?

MNN



HatesParisHilton -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 12:05:32 PM)

thanks for all the answers.  [:D]

"I'd have to say "violation." I might enjoy it if was discussed first. The way I see it, it violates basic rules of negotiation and fair play. I mean, if I don't know something's coming, then it's sort of like springing something totally un-negotiated into the scene. So, I got issues with that.

Why does this have to be a surprise? Why can't it be talked about?"

MNN , I assume you're answering because you sometimes receive anal and enjoy that as much as anything else, right?

I never said it couldn't be talked about or had to be a surprise; that's why I'm asking about it in this thread.  For some people, as you state, it would violate basic rules of negotiation/fair play, for others it would not.

example: I'm thinking back to a woman I was with whom preferred anal play over anything else/exclusively (rare but they exist).  a fave toy of hers was a rubber shaft with a small bulb on the end (size of a cherry tomato), then 2 inches of gradually widening shaft, then a bulb the size of a passionfruit, then more widening shaft.  She loved that one, and once playfully complained that it was too bad she couldn't have the same sensations from my cock in her ass, that a cock could not do the same thing.  Well, later on she learned that was NOT impossible  [;)] , really enjoyed it, stated that it was so hot getting something she thought she couldn't and the "surprise factor" made it better for her/would not have been as hot if there's been "a trailer for the movie with spoilers", so to speak.

but I understand where you are coming from.




missturbation -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 12:19:51 PM)

anal "surprise
The "head" goes in, just like you are familiar with, all good.
But THEN, the second inch and a half, stretching/filling you suddenly, is MUCH bigger, like the man's cock has a GOLFBALL implanted under the skin

I never said it couldn't be talked about or had to be a surprise;

I beg to differ - read above.
Something like this which has not been discussed beforehand i would class as violation.



cjenny -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 12:29:22 PM)

I would call it a 'surprise' not a violation. Sort of 'um whatchya doin back there?'. If I knew in advance it would not be an issue, because then I could mentally prepare for something larger.
I sure hope it isn't a bad medical condition :(



HatesParisHilton -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 12:52:37 PM)

thanks to both of you.




missturbation -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 1:27:41 PM)

Actually i think it would be possibly only fair to mention that i have anal issues anyway. Sanely i would like to think i would respond with 'what ya doing back there' and before the 'incident' happened i probably would as i liked anal as much as the next person. But right now it would be ' get the feck off me' response.



subsa -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 2:36:12 PM)

we have a similar toy (ours has 2 bulbs)!  it's a lot of fun...
i fit your criteria (have done it, like it).  for me it would be an unexpected little present.  and no, i wouldn't want to know in advance; it would ruin the surprise.

on a tangent here...allergies aren't something you should take lightly.  please have some benedryl (diphenhydramine) or an epi-pen handy 'just in case' when you try this.  if your penis swells, so might your throat.  that would be an unpleasant surprise for the receiver if he/she needed to perform some sort of lifesaving intervention. 



valeca -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 2:58:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HatesParisHilton



So no, this is not a fake/humourous question, nor am I fibbing.  It's something I (and at least 2 other lads in the same boat) intend to do, with someone who'd "appreciate" it.




As you can see, different strokes for different folks.  The only opinion you really need to consider is the one you intend to do it with/to.  You can get all sorts of "I'd love it/hate it" answers here, but unless one of the people in this thread is your 'intended', it doesn't make a lick of difference whether any of us would like it or not.

For the record, it'd depend on my frame of mind at the time of the 'surprise'.  If I've gone all feral-bitch-in-heat, I might like it.  Another day, I might submit to it, but I wouldn't thank you for it, either. 





SexyRed -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 3:07:25 PM)

Yes, it sounds hot. There are some of us who think most things having to do with anal are hot. Maybe not a hot poker being shoved up there, but what you described, sure.



behindmirrors -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 3:47:28 PM)

(Fast reply)
The only concern I would have would be if I were allergic to the same thing you were- because that would not be a nice surprise if I also got to experience my own swelling back there from exposure!
With that said, I would say I would prefer to be prepared for this kind of "surprise" first- especially because I have allergies like that, too- only instead of swelling, I tend to get hives. I'm not the world's biggest fan of anal sex, but I enjoy it- when I know it's coming and how. I can't say I'd ever feel violated, though, by any use my Dom made of my body.

behindmirrors.



HatesParisHilton -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 5:17:13 PM)

well great replies still coming, glad I asked.

RE the allergic dangers, when I and "Adam" (lad number 2) "discovered this", it was by dint of medical advice, believe it or not.  The substance that causes the reaction (for him and I) is sold in most supermarkets and all pharmacies/chemists here (even advertises "for sensitive skin", LOL).  The first time it happened (for me) I used process of elimination and thought it must b this "vitamin E creme".  I tested it; yup.  Did a second test under different experiment controls to make sure; yes again.  No swelling anywhere else, purely localized.  Adam  did not follow suit (I Nasked him not to until he does a dermis test with his own doctor) so he'll have to wait on this.  But for myself,  I appreciate the concern, but three times no worries = not a problem or risk.  At least for myself.

Adam (and "Dave", the third guy) send their thanks to all whom replied, by the way.  Dave's a very big boy anyway so I've cautioned him on all of this.  Adam and I aren't that big (I'd say average but "thick-ish") but still we're each looking at this as a potential "treat" not "let's go for it".  We get very concerned for the "recipient" (Dave has to be more so considering his "size"; I probably need not explain that).

and thanks for the caveat, missturbation.  [:)]

behindmirrors, very cogent point, one that the lads and I discussed beforehand (just so you know).  Since the creme is so common we've all greed that we ask the women we MIGHT (I stress that) do this with, if they've ever had any reactions to this particular product.  My potential partner claims to have no allergies at all and has stated she's used this stuff to give massage before, so we'll see.  Besides, after the last time I used it in experiment 3, I scrubbed all vestige of the creme away till there was apparently as little left as possible.  But bear in mind that unless I've been with someone for a WHILE I use condoms anyway so all her asshole would get would be Wet Stuff brand lube.

the problem that remains is the "surprise" part.  All three of us have consulted and even though we're getting roughly half "yes" half "no" we agree to err on the side of care and caution.  But I wonder if there is a middle ground here, as follows:

what if by erotic story sent to the woman it was implied that some men can do this, and then by some dialogue afterwards she knows "it could happen" so she can think about it, knows "maybe" it could happen when anal comes into play?

Does that change the scenario for anyone who said "they'd want to know"?




Jonc101 -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 6:03:44 PM)

As a hetero sodomite of many years practice, I can honestly say that I have mentored and groomed most of the women I've ever been with into at least trying anal sex.
They haven't ALL liked it, but most accepted it as a way of pleasing me and others got to prefer it to vaginal sex.
There is nothing sweeter than a lady finally turning over in bed, trustingly, across a pillow, bottom bared invitingly to receive my penis. Absolutely delightful!!!



littleone35 -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 6:12:42 PM)

To the OP i would not like it as a surprise i still have a little trouble with pain during intinal pentration of anal even though i like it so my Master would have to let me know what was coming.

Jonc you and my Master have a similar mindset,  Master thinks anal is the most submissive thing a woman can do.

Matt's littleone



MistressNoName -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/12/2007 6:30:37 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: HatesParisHilton

...the problem that remains is the "surprise" part.  All three of us have consulted and even though we're getting roughly half "yes" half "no" we agree to err on the side of care and caution.  But I wonder if there is a middle ground here, as follows:

what if by erotic story sent to the woman it was implied that some men can do this, and then by some dialogue afterwards she knows "it could happen" so she can think about it, knows "maybe" it could happen when anal comes into play?

Does that change the scenario for anyone who said "they'd want to know"?




That changes things somewhat for me, b/c that is more along the lines of consensual negotiation. I have no problem with springing a "surprise" on me when it's been discussed beforehand. As long as safety issues have been addressed, consent obtained and other concerns addressed, then it actually becomes an excitement to me that it might be sprung on me at any time.

MNN



MstrTiger -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/29/2007 8:12:17 PM)


I have never taken someone with a balloon filled with camembert before it sounds like a wonderfully hilarious suggestion… but seriously (or not) I am assuming the person you are going to try this with has an asshole like a clowns pocket otherwise I really don’t see how you are going to get it in there without it being excruciatingly painful for you, one would assume the fluid in the golf ball would be pushed back towards your body as you try to thrust it into the slaves service entrance.



beltainefaerie -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/30/2007 12:12:00 AM)

It sounds interesting.  If I was aroused enough to begin with, I think it would be a fun surprise.  Just remember lube, lube, lube.  other than that, I don't think there should be a problem.



BitaTruble -> RE: Anal question I doubt you've heard, LOL (1/30/2007 12:31:35 AM)

~FR~

Hmm.. my birthday is in about 6 weeks.. I'm thinking I should print this thread out and leave it on Master's desk.. maybe I'll get a surprise party to celebrate turning into an even older fart.

::starts pondering saline injections since Master doesn't have any allergies that cause swelling::[8D]

Celeste



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