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Aftercare - 1/28/2007 10:10:23 AM

amayos

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ORIGINAL: k0432

I'm sure that this topic has been covered a zillion times before, so I would be grateful if someone would post a few links or other advice. My fallback is to apply lanolin gently to all the sore areas, but I'd like to do the best I can for my potential playmate.

After she is done with her penance, I often sit on the couch and cradle her head in my lap while she kneels naked, crying. I stroke her hair, taste her tears and kiss her upon her head, breathing in her scent. I let her know she is not hated. I let her tell me she loves me. I hold her for as long as it may take to still her heart, her breath and her shaking, and I make sure she renews her resolve to obey without question. The bruises or welts may remain as they are; the burning reminds her.

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RE: new dom seeking advice on aftercare after spanking - 2/1/2007 7:19:16 AM

k0432

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Sarah,

We've had one 20 minute phone conversation. She told me what she has done in the past and what she enjoyed; so to some extent, yes. And I've made some suggestions that I thought would add to her pleasure, and she has agreed. I also picked up on the point of asking for a 1 to 10 rating, and suggesting that she can call time out if something's not working for her. But it's now been a few weeks since we talked and I'm no longer sure that anything will eventuate.

But all the advice has been just so helpful. And I feel that I would probably enjoy the aftercare almost as much as creating the need for it. In fact it's been suggested that I'm a closet daddy dom, but that's a topic for another time.

Thank you all again.

k.

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