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destinykitty -> sore a week after buttplug (1/11/2007 11:06:50 PM)

Last weekend master and i were playing with a butt plug we must have been a little bit too rough because now almost a week later it still hurts when i need to go the bathroom and sometimes there is a tiny bit of blood after going the bathroom.

I don't want anyone to jump on us saying we must have played unsafely I have been using butt plugs for close to five years now and this is the first time this has happened.

What I am after is some advice on what to do to help this heal up I would really rather not have to go and explain to a doctor.

Kitty



juliaoceania -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/11/2007 11:30:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: destinykitty

Last weekend master and i were playing with a butt plug we must have been a little bit too rough because now almost a week later it still hurts when i need to go the bathroom and sometimes there is a tiny bit of blood after going the bathroom.

I don't want anyone to jump on us saying we must have played unsafely I have been using butt plugs for close to five years now and this is the first time this has happened.

What I am after is some advice on what to do to help this heal up I would really rather not have to go and explain to a doctor.

Kitty


After I had my son I developed what is known as an anal fissue, what you describe is like what I experienced. I was miserable for weeks and weeks. I became constipated because I feared reopening it everytime I went number two.

In really bad cases they need to do something for it other than diagnose it, so go to the doctor. Take some sort of natural fiber to keep things loose and soft (metamucil). Take shallow baths a few times a day, this keeps the area clean and the skin soft. It is very soothing too.



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/11/2007 11:31:56 PM)

never saw the fascination in these things, myself.



juliaoceania -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/11/2007 11:34:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

never saw the fascination in these things, myself.


Well as someone that intends to use one it will serve two purposes. One purpose is control over my body while I am not in his presense, and the other reason is to expand my anal cavity for his use.



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/11/2007 11:35:57 PM)

to each their own, i suppose



simplyangelic1 -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/11/2007 11:36:54 PM)

It could be that he opened a tiny tear.  It's not uncommon thing to happen.  Because of the location, it may take a little time to heal.  Sometimes a bowel movement can reopen one that is is healing.  Just be sure to clean yourself good after each bm and give it a few more days.  If it hasn't improved or seems to be getting worse, see your dr. 

As for what to tell the Dr...a large bm can also open a tear.  And more then likely your dr has worked an ER where someone has come in with something weird inserted in their anus, so a plug won't shock him.



juliaoceania -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/11/2007 11:51:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

to each their own, i suppose


You know on two different anal sex threads you have made your opinions on how anal does not appeal to you be known. I am curious why you read threads about a certain sex act that holds no type of appeal to you, what is the attraction to reading them? I usually do not read threads about cock and ball torture, it is not for me, I have no desire to do that, so why comment or read about it?



FelinePersuasion -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/11/2007 11:57:04 PM)

My doctor doesn't recommend metimucial because he says if you do not drink lots and lots of water it'll cake up and become yucky inside you. I take fiber choice chewables for fiber, or just eat more greens.

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Take some sort of natural fiber to keep things loose and soft (metamucil).



amativedame -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 12:11:46 AM)

Metamucil and Fiber choice are both made from the same kind of dietary fiber, there is no difference in how they are handled once they reach your stomach.  A normal daily intake of water is really a daily necessity (especially if you are in the kind of health position to be needing these items) and should be done regardless.

The only difference is that some of the other versions can pose more of a chocking hazard.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 12:13:27 AM)

I didn't know:) He just told me not to take metamucil.



amativedame -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 1:04:26 AM)

Just figured I'd clear it up... there are so many common misbeliefs about them and the differences between all the products. Most of the ones out there are basicly all the same.



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 1:19:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

to each their own, i suppose


You know on two different anal sex threads you have made your opinions on how anal does not appeal to you be known. I am curious why you read threads about a certain sex act that holds no type of appeal to you, what is the attraction to reading them? I usually do not read threads about cock and ball torture, it is not for me, I have no desire to do that, so why comment or read about it?


i read them to understand why people do it



Celedane -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 2:33:52 AM)

I read them too, people fascinate me.  but I don't jump in threads and make my point of view known when it is just a negative comment on the behavior, with nothing relevant to the thread.  Some people may wish that kind of life, I have better things to do, than rain on another's parade/fun



destinykitty -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 4:28:24 AM)

Thank you to the people who came back with Advice and not just to make a negative comment - it took me a week to ask anything about this because I was to embaressed and feared what people responses even on a forum like this would be.

Its a lot better now then it was a week ago but I still find myself almost in tears when it comes time for a bm. A week ago straight after I had come down from the nice endorphines it hurt that much that i couldnt really sit down and spent the night laying at Masters feet of and on in tears. The best way to descripe it would be that it was (and still is) a burning sensation.

I will give it a little more time, i already get a fair amount of fibre naturally and drink a heap of water every day so i should be fine in that regards.

Kitty



Aileen68 -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 4:32:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia
i read them to understand why people do it



1.  It feels good.
2.  Because he wants to use that hole.
3.  It feels good.



adaddysgirl -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 4:34:49 AM)

i don't even know if this is a possibility but i wonder if a little hemorrhoid ointment might help ease some of the pain?  Again, i am not sure about this but others might know. 
 
DG



RedSavageSlave -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 4:37:43 AM)

I am surprised no one thought to say it might just be a hemorrhoid.

If its a burning sensation...you might try witch  hazel pads...also something that is used for episiotomies is SolarCane <sp> spray. Its an anesthetic spray for sunburns but obviously if the docs are using for stitches down there it should be safe for the anal area. You should be able to get it or some other brand spray at any local pharmacy.

I do want to say though, for the pain to be lasting this long..you REALLY should go see your doctor.

Good Luck~



adaddysgirl -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 4:52:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

i read them to understand why people do it



Isn't it fairly apparent that they do it because they enjoy it or it's their thing?  Do you really need to understand it more than that?
 
i am not into poly nor gor but every now and then, i read their boards.  Even though i don't get into it, i can see that they do....so what further need do i have to understand why?  And when i do read there, i feel no need to comment as you do. 
 
If the OP was asking who is into anal/buttplugs, that would be a different story.....but her post no where near resembles anything like that.  Under these circumstances, does anyone here really care if you are into it or not?  i would think not. 
 
So much negativity michael....it's not good for you  [:-]
 
DG



MaryT -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 4:57:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

i read them to understand why people do it



Are you sure there isn't just a tad of curiousity/interest beyond that?  You know how they say homophobes actually have latent homosexual tendencies that frighten them?



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: sore a week after buttplug (1/12/2007 5:10:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MaryT

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

i read them to understand why people do it



Are you sure there isn't just a tad of curiousity/interest beyond that?  You know how they say homophobes actually have latent homosexual tendencies that frighten them?



i'm positive



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