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daily rituals - 1/12/2007 4:36:05 PM   
GirlyDevil


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Status: offline 		Good evening,
   I was wondering if any of you slaves or submissives if it applies, has any daily rituals that you do for your master/mistress. Meaning, how do you wake them up in the morning if applicable? What do you do throughout the day for your master/mistress?  I'm training my slave to do daily rituals have quite a few ideas, but was just wondering what you all do,
    Mistress A
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RE: daily rituals - 1/12/2007 5:25:10 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		I have my slave(s) do twice daily presents. Once I'm together in the morning, they come and kneel and say good morning. We chat a bit and what not, then I tell them to Continue. They say, "Ma'am, yes Ma'am," and continue on about whatever it is they need to do. At night, just before the first of us is going to bed, we repeat the process.

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RE: daily rituals - 1/12/2007 6:08:26 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Nope- although my partner likes to make my bed everyday, have the mail on my chair and pose my stuffed animals on scene on the bed together.  It's not a ritual or expected.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_579363/mpage_1/key_ritual/tm.htm#579537
Rituals and protocols, which ones do you use?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_512995/mpage_1/key_ritual/tm.htm#513015
Daily Routines

http://www.collarchat.com/m_307839/mpage_1/key_daily%252Croutine/tm.htm#307839
Structure

http://www.collarchat.com/m_99518/mpage_1/key_daily%252Croutine/tm.htm#99518
day to day in the lifestyle

http://www.collarchat.com/m_83995/mpage_1/key_daily%252Croutine/tm.htm#83995
Need help...consistency problems

http://www.collarchat.com/m_45593/mpage_1/key_daily%252Croutine/tm.htm#45593
routine

http://www.collarchat.com/m_504581/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#504854
Rituals...

http://www.collarchat.com/m_229409/mpage_1/key_ritual/tm.htm#229409
Purpose of ritual and types

http://www.collarchat.com/m_234894/mpage_1/key_ritual/tm.htm#234894
Ritual in anticipation of time together

http://www.collarchat.com/m_242681/mpage_1/key_ritual/tm.htm#242681
rituals, your favorite and why?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_110/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#110
rituals

http://www.collarchat.com/m_7380/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#7380
protocols

http://www.collarchat.com/m_48910/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#48910
special rituals please?!

http://www.collarchat.com/m_97744/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#97744
rituals (2)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_296210/mpage_1/key_rituals/tm.htm#296210
favorite rituals



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RE: daily rituals - 1/12/2007 6:13:53 PM   
Kalira


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ORIGINAL: GirlyDevil

Good evening,
  I was wondering if any of you slaves or submissives if it applies, has any daily rituals that you do for your master/mistress. Meaning, how do you wake them up in the morning if applicable? What do you do throughout the day for your master/mistress?  I'm training my slave to do daily rituals have quite a few ideas, but was just wondering what you all do,
   Mistress A

everything I do throughout the day is with one thought in mind; how to make Master's day easier.

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RE: daily rituals - 1/12/2007 7:13:51 PM   
subsa


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Status: offline 		lots of small things...my favorite is that i brush his hair before we go to bed.  i kneel when i bring him his coffee. just samll things liek that.  the most involved thing is not a ritual in that it's not the same every time but its is 'required'.  in the evening when Master comes home he likes to walk in the door and have something pleasant to 'see'.  He doesn't tell me what to wear or what to do...he wants to be surprised. sometimes i'm wearing just my collar and he walks in to see me kneeling, waiting for him.  sometimes i dance...

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RE: daily rituals - 1/12/2007 7:18:25 PM   
goodpet


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ORIGINAL: GirlyDevil
I'm training my slave to do daily rituals have quite a few ideas, but was just wondering what you all do,
   Mistress A


For me, i thrive on rituals and protocols. But it is vital that they have meaning and/or logic to them. If they have neither meaning nor logic they will fall apart.

i have to ask permission to use the bathroom. Not because He wants to 'prove' He controls me, but if i am doing almost anything and He calls, i can stop and go to Him within about 30 seconds.. but.. if i am busy on the toilet and He calls.. Well some things just take a bit longer.. So it is more asking permission to have the time for my needs and He knows i will be unavailable for a few minutes. Same with asking permission to go to the basement for chores or out of the house.. So He knows where to find me if He needs me since i can't hear Him call from there.

Those are logical kind of rituals/protocols.

the morning rituals have to fit the needs.. For us, i get up an hour earlier then He does. i have my time to shower and get person stuff done. i take His ice tea and put it on His desk in His bedroom, and quietly say good morning Sir.  Then i turn on the hall light. a few minutes later when i hear Him up, i take His breakfast into His desk. and set it up. i return and sit on a stool with my breakfast next to Him. and wait for Him to feed me my first bite.

He always gives me my first bite of every meal, it means to me that He cares for me and gives me what i need. This is one of the no real logic ritual but full of meanings to us.

When i come home (usually after He is home from work) He comes to me and greets me, hugs me, and tells me, "Welcome home, girl."  This may seem backwards for the Dom to be doing the greeting but.... He knows the one thing i have missed my whole life was a home after being orphaned twice and moving a zillion times.. so He is taking care of my need to feel at home and have anchor in my life.
My point is the rituals have to fill a need, for both parties.. and there is not set right or wrong.












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RE: daily rituals - 1/12/2007 8:40:49 PM   
GirlyDevil


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for your input.

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RE: daily rituals - 1/13/2007 7:01:56 AM   
Wildfleurs


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ORIGINAL: GirlyDevil

Good evening,
  I was wondering if any of you slaves or submissives if it applies, has any daily rituals that you do for your master/mistress. Meaning, how do you wake them up in the morning if applicable? What do you do throughout the day for your master/mistress?  I'm training my slave to do daily rituals have quite a few ideas, but was just wondering what you all do,
   Mistress A


I have a couple of daily rituals - I have a particular prayer that I have to send to him everyday with the nth letter capitalized (n=the day of the week starting with Sunday being the 1st day of the week ... so on Tuesday every 3rd letter is capitalized) and using these accupuncture suckers on my nipples for at least 15 mins every day (and letting him know when I used them in that email with the prayer).

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RE: daily rituals - 1/13/2007 8:11:20 AM   
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Not in this relationship but prior I had many many rituals.
The one that brought me most peace and feelings of submissive joy was my first morning one.
I was to wake up and kneel with my nose to the bed and my arms extended over my head straight out and my wrists crossed. My finger tips were to touch his bicep. I was to say Good Morning Sir _______. Once he wpke I was to proceed to place a small kiss on his Royal Sceptre (his penis). At that time he either chose for me to do more or I was givin permission to get out of bed.
At that time depending I would get him his morning glass of juice and if he so desired I'd make breakfast. On work days I'd pack his lunch (again if desired) and get his thermal cup ready.

I clung in great joy peace and comfort to this ritual.
It is absolutely my most favorite and inspiring one I had.


I also was required to keep my hand up and palms toward him any time I was in his presence.
That was a good one too.
suzanne



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RE: daily rituals - 1/13/2007 9:52:17 AM   
raevnn


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Status: offline 		Things that I do the same, everyday:

Set up the coffee pot in the evening so he can have coffee first thing in the morning.

Greet him at the door when he arrives home from work and take his briefcase and/or coat.

Turn down the bed at night....

I cannot think of anything else, at the moment, though I'm sure there are more. Many of them have become almost habitual rather than ritualistic. I'm still very happy to please him by doing these things, mind you, but they've almost become second nature.

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RE: daily rituals - 1/13/2007 1:42:44 PM   
mymasterssub69


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Status: offline 		since Daddy and i don't live together, daily morning and evening IM messages to begin and end the day.

when He's not busy with His patients, a quick phone call in the afternoon to make sure i'm behaving.

the weekends are our time together (if we don't have family or other obligations).

after reviewing and/or interviewing bands, He's the first to read all my reviews before i send them to the station.


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RE: daily rituals - 1/13/2007 3:19:56 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		In the morning I bring him my collar to put on. While doing this he ask how I plan to spend my day and I tell him that I plan to do his will. Then I tell him the rest of my schedule. At night he sits in his big leather chair and I sit on the small ottoman. We discuss our day and how my submission made me feel. Both help us to not loose focus on our D/s.

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RE: daily rituals - 1/13/2007 4:44:36 PM   
gretchenS


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Status: offline 		I am some kind of a coffee pot...

That's pretty much my daily ritual. I can also transform into a water tab...

The rest of the day?... It's hard to tell. He's quite unpredictable and crazy... but that's what challenges me to make his day a happy one.

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RE: daily rituals - 1/14/2007 4:57:22 AM   
sklavenhexe


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Status: offline 		the rituals of this one's day depends on if she is with her Master at night or not.

If she is alone she needs to wait to be unchained to get up and start her day so she is expected to masturbate and then meditate to get her energy flowing and then focus it on something to ensure a positive attitude for the day, then she gets up and gets him his big honkin cup of iced tea and his vits to start his morning and we chat a little as he checks his email; when he is done speaking to her she makes his bed and starts her day with a very specific todo list

if she is with her Master in the night she is allowed to be a lazy dog and lay sleeping in his bed while he checks his email and then he wakes her up and she goes to get this big honkin glass of iced tea and his vits... then she brings it back and we chat for a few minutes and then she is dismissed.

if he doesn't ask for iced tea or if he refuses it when she brings it then there is something seriously wrong.

At night when its time to be tucked, slave strips and gets into bed and slides her ankle outside the blankets so she can be chained for the night. slave has terrible insomnia and no matter how she tries she cannot sleep good and sometimes not at all if she is not chained to her bed. when she is with Master it is a different thing, but hes contemplating putting a chain on his bed to hook her too since he won't allow her to sleep on the floor at his side (that helps her as well; sleeping on the floor) because of a bad hip now; it would seem that insomnia is chasing her around everywhere she goes and her chain is a really good sleep aid for her.

lets see, there are specifics to the ritual shower but this one would be here all day writing the details of that; and its one of our few intimate times so slave is a bit private about it.

slave wishes you all well,
malaika

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RE: daily rituals - 1/14/2007 6:59:03 AM   
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I forgot to mention if my Dom was not in the bed with me I was still to do my morning posture. I was to think of him and connect to the emotions I fell from him and with him, and then I was to say good morning Master to the air. It still helped me focus on him i the morning.
I also did not say any time I got in a bed he was in anywhere even if he got up and left I was not to get out of that bed till I'd gotten his permission.
And again another thing I did not mention above was when we were in the same room I was allowed not to have my palms to him if I was needing them to perform any function with them.
The palms toward him was only when my hands were idle.
suzanne



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Not in this relationship but prior I had many many rituals.
The one that brought me most peace and feelings of submissive joy was my first morning one.
I was to wake up and kneel with my nose to the bed and my arms extended over my head straight out and my wrists crossed. My finger tips were to touch his bicep. I was to say Good Morning Sir _______. Once he wpke I was to proceed to place a small kiss on his Royal Sceptre (his penis). At that time he either chose for me to do more or I was givin permission to get out of bed.
At that time depending I would get him his morning glass of juice and if he so desired I'd make breakfast. On work days I'd pack his lunch (again if desired) and get his thermal cup ready.

I clung in great joy peace and comfort to this ritual.
It is absolutely my most favorite and inspiring one I had.


I also was required to keep my hand up and palms toward him any time I was in his presence.
That was a good one too.
suzanne




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RE: daily rituals - 1/14/2007 9:58:43 PM   
Rayne58


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ORIGINAL: GirlyDevil

Good evening,
I was wondering if any of you slaves or submissives if it applies, has any daily rituals that you do for your master/mistress. Meaning, how do you wake them up in the morning if applicable? What do you do throughout the day for your master/mistress? I'm training my slave to do daily rituals have quite a few ideas, but was just wondering what you all do,
Mistress A


I get to stick Him in the butt with a needle every morning ;)

Seriously, I get up at 6.45 each morning, test His blood sugar level (BSL) and give Him His insulin. Depending on whether He's got to go to dialysis or not, I either get up and make His breakfast and cup of tea, or get back in bed for an hour or so. He's quite hard to wake up sometimes too so I have to be persistent

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