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MaryT -> RE: Beginner's Jitters (1/14/2007 2:54:41 AM)
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It went really well. My core kink was a simple spanking fetish and his is bondage. Bondage rocks! I remained really nervous until he put the leather cuffs on me and then was peaceful. He put a collar on me too for the time I was there and that was good too. Spent a good deal of the time in a blindfold, which made me super mellow (and very wet). My sexual inhibitions evaporated. I've always thought of bondage as something "thrilling" like a zip line, but it wasn't like that all. There was no tension (except the lusty sort), and I'm thinking I'd like to wear cuffs while I do my taxes and take final exams. [:D]
He was not demanding or intimidating or anything of the sort ... just told me what to do and I did it. The impact play was also gentle and mostly involved fluffy suede floggers (and a few stingy toys). He kept one hand on me most of the time, on my back, frequently on my face or holding my hair. That was good because being blindfolded did make me very hungry for touch, and I kissed his hands and sucked on his fingers whenever they got close enough to reach. My favorite part may have been just resting in his lap cuffed and blindfolded, listening to music. I really loved being tightly bound too and was surprised to learn just how sexy rope can be. I'll refrain from a graphic description of the juicier parts - the stuff a lady never does on a first date. I'd always thought that being called a slut would be huge turn off, but apprarently if you add the words "my good little" in front it - it transforms me into one. [;)]
I wish I could have stayed but needed to get stuff done here and also needed time to process. He was great though, and I can't wait to see him again (which will be today). [:)]
MaryT
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